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i gave the same positive advice to that kid and wht they said .....wht is in HER that my mum dont have? at the end still they have no voice to talk and they rebell in a wrong way.......pooor kids....she is a very smart and good kids. at the end they always asked me, what will u do if u were in my place???/ sure i will go against the idea of my dad marrying the second wife or marrying the lady who is younger than me.....even tough (god forbid) if my dad having a new wife, i prefer to see a mother figure in the new mum, not a sister figure which i dont need it.....