tinker, listen. You are pretty new here, nothing at all wrong with that. I remember my first months on QL...and people like Darude etc. can vouch for that...it was pretty rough! Oh yes,there were hate threads, long arguments, name calling...you name it , it was there. Compared to that QL is a nursery now. BUT, you live and learn...you learn how to defuse, defend and counter...takes time, but you'll get there.
So , don't get upset...get even...;)