I have to admit that i did not research enough about the culture and especially of what is acceptable and what is not - my biggest fear was that i would do something out of complete ignorance that would end up with me being in hot water. I began to get paranoid about the whole way of life.. for instance when my family came over for a visit, i was driving along with them in the car and this idiot was maybe 2 inches from my bumper flashing his lights while doing 120kph! i let him pass and then tried to follow him so that i could rearrange his features when he pulled over! i think i got to breaking point.. so its better to be safe at home than be in a cell here! tax free money is excellent but being happy is more valuable to me right now - a thing i sadly forgot when taking this position.