Yeah, the spa's are unisex.. it is a very liberal country as far as things like that go.. my wife and myself were together when we had the Thai massage by the way, and as i said it was wonderful... apart from being a bit sore the next day.... no pain no gain i guess... but the lady did tell us to expect it... my wife then went for a steam bath, pedicure, manicure, shoe shop, lipstick shop and general shop! lol... :0) as posted before why so many shoe's for only 2 feet i dont know??!!?? i have one pair of trainers and one pair of shoes! if i need to replace i swear it only takes 5 mins tops!!!!!!!!! :0)