I am not actually a judgemental person, nor I will start now to be one... I just wish I knew the other side of the story...but since we only know your side, then all I can advise you if you still need my advise... calling the office is useless, u tried it and well, look what happened. Did you try talking with his parents there??? Ask them for help, I bet your husband will listen with his parents... Agen goodluck my dear!