Thanks for that.
The points that you stipulate here are all valid, only when we as parents get passed all those "other reasons" for why our kids are not responding to the "normal,expected levels of concentration over a prolonged time - then we seek help.
I am most definitely against drugs and hence the reason for trying to find alternative ways to helping my son.
In all of this I find it hard to cope on my own, as my husband is also from the old school and is trying to put the condition down to all but the condition itself.
A support group would help all in the same shoes share experiences and help self and others cope better and find alternative ways to treating ADD and ADHD. Thanks