Then I'm confused. If you think it's okay for Qatari women outside Qatar to not wear the Abaya (Ok if a Qatari woman goes outside to western country for a visit or education but she wear a descent dress and not Abaya it is fine for me) but she must wear it in Qatar, is that because the men here stare more and look twice and think bad things more than western men?

In any case, if the Qatari guys have the freedom to wear jeans and a t-shirt and aren't forced to always wear traditional/cultural clothes, then women should also be granted that same freedom, as long as it is within religious laws.

Men and women should be held to the same standards.