reminds me of a romantic novel i read before, where a british woman met and married an arabic sheikh in her home country, blessed with a son and became a widow as well. After sometime, she finally agreed to send her son, in good faith, to her husband's country as per request from the "uncle". Just to be informed later on that she can only have her son back if she's going to marry this particular uncle.
As all mothers, she raised hell but found out later that hell can't even raise a finger with powerful arab sheikhs....especially this sheikh who was determined to woo her.
In the end, she fell inlove and they married happily ever after.
sorry, just romantic at heart...hope it will end well to the satisfaction of both parties

...listen to the sound of silence....