exactly, Gypsy.. sometimes we forget that woman might have a desire to stay independent..
and why we assume that the MAN is the one who uses a woman?.. cannot it be other way around?
Ok, she knows that she will be his 'wife' for let's say 5 years.. if she is smart enough, she can leave him a bankrupt by the end of this period and no one will ever even know about her existence (she was invisible, right?) ..
sometimes it's even better for her to know how much time exactly she has to suck everything out of him.. :):)so it's not quite clear WHO is the winner in this situation..:)


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