"...leave aside her morals and do something like this."
lady, morality depends on a cultural group, religion,race or the person himself with specified conditions. which means, what is moral to you may be immoral to me. If you think it's immoral then stick to that and live an immoral life when your time for marriage is up. Just keep an open mind and do what you think is right... Cheer up, i'm on your side hehehe