what kind of men would do that ... It can't be easily done like this, just face that life is not possible anymore and go with the divorce through the right channels ...

No one like to have a divorce of course, but no one would love to stuck forever in a marriage that does not work and make both life miserable in the name of the tradition that states ... no divorce ... I don't think that the legal separation is a solution though ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)