Well Broken, you need to think about what is best for you and your kids.

That should be your only focus. If what you and your kids need is financial support then just bide your time and get your act together.

This, in turn, will buy you some more time to figure things out: Do you stay or do you go?

There are other factors to be considered ..like, is this the first time; do you love this guy; etc.

Trust yourself to know what is the best situation for you and those kids.

Good luck and stay strong.