This may sound 50's housewife Vegas but I have remarried and I keep a pretty good watch on my man. he is a good family man, and honest about things even if I dont want to hear them sometimes. I laugh now because he will sometimes tell me "you are getting a little fat sweety" after I have put on 50 pounds or so. I think if communication is open, and even though it is not always what you want to hear it is these things that will help your marriage survive. ____________________________________________________
"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"