Hmm, being a woman who had the same thing happen I can sympatize with your pain but I learned something from my ordeal.
1. It is my husband who has a commitment to me, not the other woman.
2. He probably lied to her about his situation, more than likely saying he was seperated.
3. There is usually somwthing wrong in the marriage to begin with if a man steps out on his wife. Stats show men dont cheat because the other woman is more beautiful, younger etc.... they do it because of the way the other woman makes them feel.
Sweety, you will get no joy in planning revenge against the other woman. Granted I hate women who go with married men and think they should be strung up by their toenails, I also realize these women are victums also. They are either commitment phobes who date married men because they know it wont last or they cant find a decent man of their own. They are messed up ladies.
Best thing to do is try and talk to your husband. Find out why, you may be surprised at his answers. If both of you are willing to work it out you will have to talk, cry and scream through it.
Another good piece of advice.... dont ask for details of his affair. I know you may feel you need to hear it but you dont, and once you know there is no going back. If you guys work it out, you will be sorry you have all these sordid details.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Hmm, being a woman who had the same thing happen I can sympatize with your pain but I learned something from my ordeal.
1. It is my husband who has a commitment to me, not the other woman.
2. He probably lied to her about his situation, more than likely saying he was seperated.
3. There is usually somwthing wrong in the marriage to begin with if a man steps out on his wife. Stats show men dont cheat because the other woman is more beautiful, younger etc.... they do it because of the way the other woman makes them feel.
Sweety, you will get no joy in planning revenge against the other woman. Granted I hate women who go with married men and think they should be strung up by their toenails, I also realize these women are victums also. They are either commitment phobes who date married men because they know it wont last or they cant find a decent man of their own. They are messed up ladies.
Best thing to do is try and talk to your husband. Find out why, you may be surprised at his answers. If both of you are willing to work it out you will have to talk, cry and scream through it.
Another good piece of advice.... dont ask for details of his affair. I know you may feel you need to hear it but you dont, and once you know there is no going back. If you guys work it out, you will be sorry you have all these sordid details.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"