Wonderful comment Bleu, we have the same scenario in our house, and if I spend my money on the household costs, if I asked for it back my husband wouldn't hesitate. Don't get me wrong, I still ensure the house is taken care of and food is on the table. when I couldnt handle it all by myself and because my husband was in a financial situation where he could do so, he brought a housemaid.

Qatarocean, you are so very wrong in your statement that I think there are no differences, and if you had bothered to read my earlier posts I pointed that out in quite a bit of detail. I said I believe in equal rights and equal respect but in no way ever insinuated that men and women are equals. Do your homework before you assume.

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