But that's where I'm confused Amoud.

Some Muslims (included many on QL - like nice too nice for example) say that if you don't follow Islam to the letter then you aren't a Muslim, while others say that isn't the case.

Personally I believe that religion is a personal thing and what you follow and take from it is your choice. However, I realise the Islam is deeply ingrained into everyday life so perhaps that isn't an option. There seems to be much disagreement on this though.