well my daughter is 14 and yes I would rather see her married than be one of these girls just letting herself be used. You can not say that girls do not need men in their life. Now I am not saying that this 40 year old man was the best choice but I rather see that than see her having a b-----d child with some little boy that is not even able to take care of himself. I wish that there was a younger choice for her but if she wanted this it is alright. My thing is did she really want this or did her father push this on her