well, maybe they dont wanna be compelled/obligated..some are not ready yet because of responsibilities, others are enjoying things without being binded, some are afraid that the things/people they wanna be committed with are not the way they expected them to be...some are aware that they can't give or be real because they are committed somewhere else..

"You are built not to shrink down to less but to blossom into more" - Ophrah Winfrey-