You're not very welcoming to negativity are you? This is a simple thread to answer.. he did reverse physcology on you... and you fell for it... he said he can't marry you, you thought eventually he would and decided to try to change him... You can never change a Man.... he said all that to actually get you interested more... now your in a rut.. and blaming everyone else when they give you the truth... leave now or just be the loser in the end... let him feel the loss before you.... get over yourself... and learn to accept criticism positively....

Never say Never for fear of Forever!!