hun, it's up to your dad 2 banish these stupid ideas from his family..if had gone so far 2 elope n marry your mom..then she definitely meant something..and if your all living happily i think your father should make this happiness complete by letting his family accept ya..after all your his kids..

i reckon you should sit down with your dad and talk 2 him about this issue..what father wouldn't want his kids 2 see their grandparents n have a healthy relationship with them..

a good talk will never do you harm

hopefully it all works out for the best