I am quite sure that is NOT what Abu is saying Gypsy.

To compare sexual relations between a couple who love each other and support each other on more than a physical level and people who partake in one off sexual encounters is very crass.

And from the majority of the posts you have made on this forum I believe my gut instinct about you. You are smarter than to believe the speech you have made in your conversation with Abu.

I know you are trying to make a point but you AOA (angle of attack) is leading you off target in my opinion.