i know how you feel shane...been going through the same dilemma now..but ask yourself, is he the person you really want to be in the future, does he feel the same way,too?

also consider those things that separated you...are you willing to give something to achieve one thing? are you to give up some things to avoid one thing? ask yourself if you are really strong now to face him after what you've been through. have you totally forgiven each other or there is still hatred or grudges within? once it's still there, you wont be assured that you will not argue again.

bottomline is, if you are really meant for each other, you will find yourself in back in each other's arms sooner..

but, ah, love...life is still worth living!