honestly a marriage should always be mutual... and the whole kid situation changes alot... especially if its no longer mutual...

my thoughts are simple... if you really love some one... you can make something work out... so if the partner wants a child and the other doesnt at all then consider being a foster parent.

foster parents only house a child until they can be adopted. Then after a while of fostering if both parties still dont agree on being a parent or not being a parent... then the situation has now reached a point were you must consider whither or not this is the real issue...

many people can express them selves as easily as others so they could be hiding other issues... possibly they physically cant have children or they really just arent as happy with the relationship and are just using the child issue as an out.

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just hanging out and watching dvd's with helen keller... kind of a quite night.