Now it is clear for us. It's totally unique...the story and the person. I think you have done your part....and actually you have done a lot and enough. It's all up to her now. She really is having a bad attitude...she has done the wrong move and she committed mistakes. Still we can say that maybe because she's in total despair, for sure she's really frustrated...perhaps don't know what to do. But she has to cooperate. All the cooperations and coordinations needed....because this is all for her good. Whatever...she has to swallow her pride and plead to her previous company for her NOC. That will be the start for her.

On your part, stay calm. Dont think so much about it. Let her. Dont mind her. Dont even give anything. Dont support her for the meantime. But dont do any harsh move. Let herdo whatever she wants,...let her cry. If she doesn't have any options later on....she will come back to you. By then, explain to her gently of what she has to do. If she will not come unto you....you don't have any problem at all.