My husband is cheating on me and I need help!
Hi everyone!
This is my last resort. My husband has been repeatedly having affairs with his subordinates! He is working in a reputed company in Doha. I've been living away from my husband for a few years now and he has kept me apart giving me silly excuses about his job. By the end of 2018, his then-girlfriend reached out to me asking me if we were getting a divorce and that's how I discovered he was sleeping around with other women. That relationship fizzled out & I gave him another chance but now he's hanging out with a new woman. The woman is married & her husband does not live in Doha so this is a convenient relationship for her as well. I literally do not know what to do because I do not want to go to the CID and put his job at stake. What are my options? Help!!
It's really sad how people resort to attacking each other for a simple extra marital affair!!! Focus on what your spouse does good for the relationship. Not their little affairs. That's the secret to a lasting relationship.
Attacking your partners for affairs is plain stupid because it doesn't achieve anything. Try and find out what's best for both of you!
Dont know what kind of response you would expect from a public forum on a very personal issue. Since people seem to be giving advice, I will also chip in my two cents.
Its always your choice. You can choose to ignore, stay and suffer or leave him or live your life and enjoy while with him. It all boils down to choices you make, I dont think anyone else can give you solutions, more than words.
Cindy, Please forgive this poor soul. Pray hard, one day you will see him to become a good human. To tolerate him, you have to have a kind heart for his future. Always listen to his requirements from your side to him. One day you'll win his heart. You will earn his respect. That'll be a great reward for you. Sacrifice to make him a pure soul over the next 3 years period ...... It's wise that you are a cool mind person I appreciate it ....
My inner heart says you will correct him by giving him more care than ever before. It's possible .... Yes .... Good luck ....
Cindy, Please forgive this poor soul. Pray hard, one day you will see him to become a good human. To tolerate him, you have to have a kind heart for his future. Always listen to his requirements from your side to him. One day you'll win his heart. You will earn his respect. That'll be a great reward for you. Sacrifice to make him a pure soul over the next 3 years period ...... It's wise that you are a cool mind person I appreciate it ....
My inner heart says you will correct him by giving him more care than ever before. It's possible .... Yes .... Good luck ....
4 years ago i was so miserable that i had to go through such thing.but thank god i end it in so peaceful way. i left my ex, once i found out that he was with another woman, i just left him.we had a daughter who is 4 years old that time.
all i think was i need to leave him, he cant be with me and my daughter.
i filed my case at the court and now we have nothing to do each other. i dont have to care what is going through in his life.
I hope you will find good solution, cheater will be cheater.
THEY WONT CHANGE. If they have a chance to cheat on you, they will...
As per your story if true, your husband appears to be a modern-day Casanova.
While reporting him to the CID may or may not work, the matter is more than just taking away his job or putting him into jail over his relationships with other women in Qatar. His amorous nature will make him go for other women in your own city even while he stays with you.
As Shaki27 has stated, it is up to you now how you would like to handle this issue in your life as it is now more of a personal matter.
Hi there, I am sorry to hear that. I understand what you are going through. It's not about his job, it's his role in your life. How many more chances are you willing to give him? You already know he is cheating on you. You have a good heart, you already gave him a chance. Try talking to him again and if thinks don't work out, it's upon you to decide if you really want to have this man in your life!