Why?
It seems to be a bit of a slow day on QL, so I figure I'll ask a question that I've been wondering about this weekend.
I'm just going to ask it straight out.
Why do men & women, who avail of the services of prostitutes, feel the need to hang out with them all day?
Is it the sparking personalities?
The stimulating conversation?
I'm totally flummoxed by this.
Let me be clear, I have seen both men & women of many different nationalities do this, at hotels that I've stayed at around the world, so it is not restricted to any particular culture, race or religion. So nobody call me racist. :p
Probably feel bad for them, are lonely, etc. No idea!
its like an interval of a movie in cinema.
Never tried them, Need to check first, then can say anything..
People r different the desire also diff. For u or some other, might be a waste but such a happy spending for him? rather to spend money have fun at club he spend money to get a company...possible.
KR, very true !!
Because there is a physical limit of making love for long..moreover, I feel making love to an acquaintance is more enjoyable than making love to a total stranger..
For companionship and the fact that she will "make an effort" ...
Why? Because a lot of men hire prostitutes as companions. And a lot of "service providers" in the east are ready to provide this companionship, with long term gains in mind (a ticket out of poverty, a passport..). While such transactions in the west are purely business like. Wham, bam, thank you ma'am.
Also, there is the massive ego boost when a 40 something guy who's options are bleak to non-existent in the dating game back in the west, feels on top of the world when that 20 something girl treats him like a rock star.
Asian men are flummoxed by the same question as the one bothering Miss Mimi. My Thai, East African, Indonesian and Malaysian friends (both sexes) find it amusing that western men need to parade their 'last nights catch' the next day in malls and restaurants. They have no respect for such individuals. A very good example is the Thai society vs western expats living in Thailand. Parading your rent-a-girlfriend around the town is a sure-fire way of ensuring that you will never get invited to any respectable social event by a Thai local. One loses 'face'.
Quotable quote -
"You do not pay her for the sex, you pay per to leave in the morning"
She's actually pretty ugly. Big mouth, big nose, skinny legs, and so on. Not my kind!
is as pretty as Julia, you will forget your wife! Lol!
What would he or she do otherwise. Isnt it better to have someone to talk who may at times reply or may join you in your shopping or just will walk with you etc etc rather than talking to walls or watching your TV or aimlessly wandering around with the most idiotic advices thrown at you "have some friends" given by people when asked 'what should I do, I am bored'... as if they grow on trees, just need to go and pluck them. What if I cannot make friends but can buy sometime of someone. Guess, the answer is there, the person just wants to be happy, in his own way.
Guys like Tiger woods would do it... just for fun... they pay the girl for leaving rather than for the sex...
Some guys even if they are single they prefer paid sex although they have girls falling over them... just for the fact there is no "relationship" he is free to date or mate with any or many other prostitutes... he dont have to buy gifts, he dont have to remember "dates", call her up to check how she is doing, make small talk...
Then these paid girls who know what they are doing, and what to do and not just lying on their back... as if doing a favor for going to bed with a guy.
Miss Mimi, you never when you could get a free ride..... :)
According to the movie "Pretty Woman" Richard Gere hires Julia Roberts more for the "company" than for the sex.
When one is travelling across countries it gets boring to eat alone, sleep alone and no one to talk to... for days together... Other than that I dont see why?
I dont think any guy would like other people to SEE him with a commercial sex worker.... leave alone flaunt...
Have you seen "Pretty Woman"? It doesn't matter where they are or what they do. She gets paid by the hour. So, it's a perfectly normal business behavior.
I think you pretty much answered it right there.
One would only do it if money is not the object and they don't mind paying even if it is just for company
eh ? :(
R u addressing me ?
O Hello, i dont spend my hard earned money this way ! :)
he or she is a professional, so financially it is in their best interest to keep their customers happy..
mm, the reasons to hangout and shoot the breeze could be any of a million...best to ask one of the prof's...
just like most relationships, they don't make sense to the casual observer...
MM are you clear now or still wondering?
I understand why the pro's hang out with them. They want the money.
But why would you pay someone money to hang out with you? How lonely and desperate and pathetic are you?
LOL's...hmm, why not make a small survey ?
How abt visit Ramada parking lot after 8pm to know the exact reason ? :)
I think my husband would disapprove.
Wat if he pays you to hang out with him - then ? :)
Not if I had to pay him to hang out with me Rizks.
Who cares mimi?
My home-mates knows how and where we spend weekends.........hahahaahaaaa
wat if tat guy who is selling tat t-shirt to you is the most handsome person in the world ?
Would u still not like to hangout with him ? :)
i think there is some 'Hidden charges' in this service...:(
I don't have a problem. I'm just curious as to why someone would want to do that.
I'm sorry Victory, am I hitting a bit close to home? Is this how you spend your weekends?
Its his Money he eats, drinks or throw on the roads for beggars..whats your problem?
Easy money goes easily :)
Victory, wat if he has too much money to waste ?
Wat to do yaani ? Its his money...his babe..:)
"Unproductive activities"...hmm, well after the activity only the next stage is PRODUCTION...lols
unproductive for the men but for the other party its productive ....lols
Rizks, I just don't understand why you would want to hang out with someone you are paying for a service?
I don't hang out with the guy who sells me a t-shirt at the mall after I buy it.
Mimi is over concerned WHY this idiot man want to waste his money on unproductive activities ;(
but wats the issues here, If he wants to hang out with her or Hang her after the hang out or have some hanky panky things ? :)
It's like "Damned if you Do, Damned if you Don't"...
maybe he is striking a bargain for his next (mis)adventure!
Of course vivme. But he's even more sad to want to spend the afternoon hanging out with a prostitute.
When have I ever posted anything about prostitutes? :S
Isn't he already a bit of a loser for having engaged the services of one, whether for sex or otherwise?
mimi always so much concerned about Prostitutes...
It is Foreplay or quality checks, i presume.
in that respect. Once the job has been transacted it would appear to be a bit of a waste of time and loss of opportunity for furthur revenue! Hmmmm.
Sure. But I'd totally be thinking "what a loser" the whole time.
But look at it this way - if a patron is willing to pay money for not having sex, would you not consider it?
I'm sure that many prostitutes are lovely people...however if I was a prostitute I can't imagine wanting to make small talk with a John or Johnette for the whole day.
MM, i am thinking it is "advertising"...
with Doha-Infidel, this is quite possible. I also think there are bound to be prostitutes that are nice people and can hold a good conversation. Maybe, just maybe, people who pay for sex are also looking for someone they can spend time with if in their personal lives they lack company.
I guess it's for their own self esteem, makes them feel special, although they have paid money for someone to be good to them, they don't see that and enjoy the ego boost.
LOL Rizks, I think you've probably hit closest to home.
Or may be to show-off infront of his friends tat he has a galpriend ? :)
OK, I M NOT TALKIN FRM EXPERIENCE, ITS JUST A GUESS !
why this topic do u have any future plans....:D
why hang out ?
so that can be more friendly/ close with the pros. tat she wil do anything wat he says ? :)
and also the next time when he wants her she can offer him a discounted price too....:)
the hangout and the sex charges fluctuate....lols
May be to utilize the maximum value of money spent (it is only a guess)
So if you don't want to have sex with them at that particular moment, why pay them to hang out with you?
Because they can?
hangout because that day they dont want to have sex
But why hang out?
I mean, what could you possibly have to say to each other?
most of the cases they hire for having sex with them...though they hang out for some hrs but at the end hav sex.
Withdrawal from prostitutes?
Yes, gene, I understand the desire to hire a prostitute for sex, what I'm asking is why would you feel the need to hang out with them when you aren't having sex with them?
Have not tried yet, but will keep you posted if I ever do! :)
There are times wherein you can't control human emotion.
Sometimes it is cheaper and convenient to pay a services of one than to court a girl which will give you headach in the end.
Although I don't do this since I can pick girls wherever I want to without paying, it happens to me once that my girl friend has totally created a lot of troubles for me.
they are just lonely and probably feel that even a paid for ear is better than no ear...
but honestly, i don't know..