Why?

Miss Mimi
By Miss Mimi

It seems to be a bit of a slow day on QL, so I figure I'll ask a question that I've been wondering about this weekend.

I'm just going to ask it straight out.

Why do men & women, who avail of the services of prostitutes, feel the need to hang out with them all day?

Is it the sparking personalities?
The stimulating conversation?

I'm totally flummoxed by this.

Let me be clear, I have seen both men & women of many different nationalities do this, at hotels that I've stayed at around the world, so it is not restricted to any particular culture, race or religion. So nobody call me racist. :p

By JC647• 4 Jul 2012 08:39
JC647

Probably feel bad for them, are lonely, etc. No idea!

By John Lalay• 3 Jul 2012 18:00
John Lalay

its like an interval of a movie in cinema.

By ingeniero• 3 Jul 2012 17:39
ingeniero

Never tried them, Need to check first, then can say anything..

By vilia• 3 Jul 2012 16:50
vilia

People r different the desire also diff. For u or some other, might be a waste but such a happy spending for him? rather to spend money have fun at club he spend money to get a company...possible.

By ramil26• 3 Jul 2012 06:04
ramil26

KR, very true !!

By Knight Returns• 2 Jul 2012 21:39
Knight Returns

Because there is a physical limit of making love for long..moreover, I feel making love to an acquaintance is more enjoyable than making love to a total stranger..

By britexpat• 2 Jul 2012 21:34
britexpat

For companionship and the fact that she will "make an effort" ...

By azamat• 2 Jul 2012 18:34
Rating: 4/5
azamat

Why? Because a lot of men hire prostitutes as companions. And a lot of "service providers" in the east are ready to provide this companionship, with long term gains in mind (a ticket out of poverty, a passport..). While such transactions in the west are purely business like. Wham, bam, thank you ma'am.

Also, there is the massive ego boost when a 40 something guy who's options are bleak to non-existent in the dating game back in the west, feels on top of the world when that 20 something girl treats him like a rock star.

Asian men are flummoxed by the same question as the one bothering Miss Mimi. My Thai, East African, Indonesian and Malaysian friends (both sexes) find it amusing that western men need to parade their 'last nights catch' the next day in malls and restaurants. They have no respect for such individuals. A very good example is the Thai society vs western expats living in Thailand. Parading your rent-a-girlfriend around the town is a sure-fire way of ensuring that you will never get invited to any respectable social event by a Thai local. One loses 'face'.

Quotable quote -

"You do not pay her for the sex, you pay per to leave in the morning"

By anonymous• 2 Jul 2012 15:59
anonymous

She's actually pretty ugly. Big mouth, big nose, skinny legs, and so on. Not my kind!

By flor1212• 2 Jul 2012 15:57
flor1212

is as pretty as Julia, you will forget your wife! Lol!

By happygolucky• 2 Jul 2012 15:44
Rating: 4/5
happygolucky

What would he or she do otherwise. Isnt it better to have someone to talk who may at times reply or may join you in your shopping or just will walk with you etc etc rather than talking to walls or watching your TV or aimlessly wandering around with the most idiotic advices thrown at you "have some friends" given by people when asked 'what should I do, I am bored'... as if they grow on trees, just need to go and pluck them. What if I cannot make friends but can buy sometime of someone. Guess, the answer is there, the person just wants to be happy, in his own way.

By blisteringbarnacles2007• 2 Jul 2012 15:13
blisteringbarnacles2007

Guys like Tiger woods would do it... just for fun... they pay the girl for leaving rather than for the sex...

Some guys even if they are single they prefer paid sex although they have girls falling over them... just for the fact there is no "relationship" he is free to date or mate with any or many other prostitutes... he dont have to buy gifts, he dont have to remember "dates", call her up to check how she is doing, make small talk...

Then these paid girls who know what they are doing, and what to do and not just lying on their back... as if doing a favor for going to bed with a guy.

By ramil26• 2 Jul 2012 14:59
ramil26

Miss Mimi, you never when you could get a free ride..... :)

By blisteringbarnacles2007• 2 Jul 2012 14:53
blisteringbarnacles2007

According to the movie "Pretty Woman" Richard Gere hires Julia Roberts more for the "company" than for the sex.

When one is travelling across countries it gets boring to eat alone, sleep alone and no one to talk to... for days together... Other than that I dont see why?

I dont think any guy would like other people to SEE him with a commercial sex worker.... leave alone flaunt...

By anonymous• 2 Jul 2012 14:48
Rating: 2/5
anonymous

Have you seen "Pretty Woman"? It doesn't matter where they are or what they do. She gets paid by the hour. So, it's a perfectly normal business behavior.

By vivme• 2 Jul 2012 14:28
vivme

I think you pretty much answered it right there.

One would only do it if money is not the object and they don't mind paying even if it is just for company

By Rizks• 2 Jul 2012 14:26
Rizks

eh ? :(

R u addressing me ?

O Hello, i dont spend my hard earned money this way ! :)

By Doha-Infidel• 2 Jul 2012 14:26
Rating: 2/5
Doha-Infidel

he or she is a professional, so financially it is in their best interest to keep their customers happy..

mm, the reasons to hangout and shoot the breeze could be any of a million...best to ask one of the prof's...

just like most relationships, they don't make sense to the casual observer...

By vivme• 2 Jul 2012 14:25
vivme

MM are you clear now or still wondering?

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 14:24
Miss Mimi

I understand why the pro's hang out with them. They want the money.

But why would you pay someone money to hang out with you? How lonely and desperate and pathetic are you?

By Rizks• 2 Jul 2012 14:20
Rizks

LOL's...hmm, why not make a small survey ?

How abt visit Ramada parking lot after 8pm to know the exact reason ? :)

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 14:19
Miss Mimi

I think my husband would disapprove.

By Rizks• 2 Jul 2012 14:15
Rizks

Wat if he pays you to hang out with him - then ? :)

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 14:13
Miss Mimi

Not if I had to pay him to hang out with me Rizks.

By Victory_278692• 2 Jul 2012 14:11
Victory_278692

Who cares mimi?

My home-mates knows how and where we spend weekends.........hahahaahaaaa

By Rizks• 2 Jul 2012 14:10
Rizks

wat if tat guy who is selling tat t-shirt to you is the most handsome person in the world ?

Would u still not like to hangout with him ? :)

By Rizks• 2 Jul 2012 14:04
Rizks

i think there is some 'Hidden charges' in this service...:(

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 14:04
Miss Mimi

I don't have a problem. I'm just curious as to why someone would want to do that.

I'm sorry Victory, am I hitting a bit close to home? Is this how you spend your weekends?

By Victory_278692• 2 Jul 2012 14:03
Victory_278692

Its his Money he eats, drinks or throw on the roads for beggars..whats your problem?

Easy money goes easily :)

By Rizks• 2 Jul 2012 14:02
Rizks

Victory, wat if he has too much money to waste ?

Wat to do yaani ? Its his money...his babe..:)

"Unproductive activities"...hmm, well after the activity only the next stage is PRODUCTION...lols

By Pappu_Pager• 2 Jul 2012 14:01
Pappu_Pager

unproductive for the men but for the other party its productive ....lols

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 14:01
Miss Mimi

Rizks, I just don't understand why you would want to hang out with someone you are paying for a service?

I don't hang out with the guy who sells me a t-shirt at the mall after I buy it.

By Victory_278692• 2 Jul 2012 13:59
Victory_278692

Mimi is over concerned WHY this idiot man want to waste his money on unproductive activities ;(

By Rizks• 2 Jul 2012 13:57
Rizks

but wats the issues here, If he wants to hang out with her or Hang her after the hang out or have some hanky panky things ? :)

By FlyingAce• 2 Jul 2012 13:49
FlyingAce

It's like "Damned if you Do, Damned if you Don't"...

By vivme• 2 Jul 2012 13:41
vivme

maybe he is striking a bargain for his next (mis)adventure!

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 13:39
Miss Mimi

Of course vivme. But he's even more sad to want to spend the afternoon hanging out with a prostitute.

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 13:39
Miss Mimi

When have I ever posted anything about prostitutes? :S

By vivme• 2 Jul 2012 13:38
vivme

Isn't he already a bit of a loser for having engaged the services of one, whether for sex or otherwise?

By Victory_278692• 2 Jul 2012 13:37
Victory_278692

mimi always so much concerned about Prostitutes...

It is Foreplay or quality checks, i presume.

By spinecho• 2 Jul 2012 13:34
spinecho

in that respect. Once the job has been transacted it would appear to be a bit of a waste of time and loss of opportunity for furthur revenue! Hmmmm.

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 13:33
Miss Mimi

Sure. But I'd totally be thinking "what a loser" the whole time.

By vivme• 2 Jul 2012 13:31
vivme

But look at it this way - if a patron is willing to pay money for not having sex, would you not consider it?

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 13:26
Miss Mimi

I'm sure that many prostitutes are lovely people...however if I was a prostitute I can't imagine wanting to make small talk with a John or Johnette for the whole day.

By Doha-Infidel• 2 Jul 2012 13:18
Doha-Infidel

MM, i am thinking it is "advertising"...

By spinecho• 2 Jul 2012 13:18
Rating: 4/5
spinecho

with Doha-Infidel, this is quite possible. I also think there are bound to be prostitutes that are nice people and can hold a good conversation. Maybe, just maybe, people who pay for sex are also looking for someone they can spend time with if in their personal lives they lack company.

By snessy• 2 Jul 2012 13:16
snessy

I guess it's for their own self esteem, makes them feel special, although they have paid money for someone to be good to them, they don't see that and enjoy the ego boost.

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 13:04
Miss Mimi

LOL Rizks, I think you've probably hit closest to home.

By Rizks• 2 Jul 2012 12:58
Rizks

Or may be to show-off infront of his friends tat he has a galpriend ? :)

OK, I M NOT TALKIN FRM EXPERIENCE, ITS JUST A GUESS !

By Pappu_Pager• 2 Jul 2012 12:56
Pappu_Pager

why this topic do u have any future plans....:D

By Rizks• 2 Jul 2012 12:55
Rizks

why hang out ?

so that can be more friendly/ close with the pros. tat she wil do anything wat he says ? :)

and also the next time when he wants her she can offer him a discounted price too....:)

By Pappu_Pager• 2 Jul 2012 12:55
Pappu_Pager

the hangout and the sex charges fluctuate....lols

By cherukkan• 2 Jul 2012 12:55
cherukkan

May be to utilize the maximum value of money spent (it is only a guess)

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 12:54
Miss Mimi

So if you don't want to have sex with them at that particular moment, why pay them to hang out with you?

By MarcoNandoz-01• 2 Jul 2012 12:53
MarcoNandoz-01

Because they can?

By anonymous• 2 Jul 2012 12:52
anonymous

hangout because that day they dont want to have sex

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 12:52
Miss Mimi

But why hang out?

I mean, what could you possibly have to say to each other?

By Rizks• 2 Jul 2012 12:50
Rating: 2/5
Rizks

most of the cases they hire for having sex with them...though they hang out for some hrs but at the end hav sex.

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 12:50
Miss Mimi

Withdrawal from prostitutes?

By Miss Mimi• 2 Jul 2012 12:47
Miss Mimi

Yes, gene, I understand the desire to hire a prostitute for sex, what I'm asking is why would you feel the need to hang out with them when you aren't having sex with them?

By anonymous• 2 Jul 2012 12:47
anonymous

Have not tried yet, but will keep you posted if I ever do! :)

By gene_lv• 2 Jul 2012 12:44
Rating: 5/5
gene_lv

There are times wherein you can't control human emotion.

Sometimes it is cheaper and convenient to pay a services of one than to court a girl which will give you headach in the end.

Although I don't do this since I can pick girls wherever I want to without paying, it happens to me once that my girl friend has totally created a lot of troubles for me.

By Doha-Infidel• 2 Jul 2012 12:35
Rating: 2/5
Doha-Infidel

they are just lonely and probably feel that even a paid for ear is better than no ear...

but honestly, i don't know..

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