I ám the Worst Wife Ever!
It's sad when one of the two in a relationship wants to move on but the other one is stuck.Specially if there are children involved.Read on...
I am almost 7 months pregnant with my 2nd child,. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and have been together for almost 8. A few years ago I met this guy that I really clicked with. We were just natural friends, it was about a year our first child was born. A this point I need to give you some background on my husband and I. He is a nice guy, he works really hard and all that. We fight but not too often, we basically have no sex life, I can't kiss him because he doesn't brush his teeth. He hasn't in 5 years. He smokes and has no concept even when I tell him how gross it is, he just doesn't seem to care. He also just doesn't "get" me. We argue over stupid things, he always has to take the opposite side of whatever I'm talking about and he isn't very intelligent. Basically I married him because... we had been living together for such a long time. I thought it was just what I was supposed to do. This is hard to face because I don't hate him persay, I'm just not in love with him anymore. So anyways enter "the other guy" who knows I am married and knows my feelings. We talk, we have the same views, we are so attracted to eachother.
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canrt - Come again pls!
dont give head
Worse wife, most likely not - but close.
Brite - Yes she is :)
You just married the wrong guy, thats all, and this other guy is probably the wrong guy too. In fact, there may not be a right guy anywhere
- by just going along you ruined 4 lives but there is good news, it gets better in about 15 to 18 years when the kids grow up..And yes your life sucks right now but you have a lot of life left and there's not too many 40, 50 or 60 year old women that wouldnt trade lives with you, no matter how badly you screwed yours up.
And BTW- Ive seen worse wifes than you. This isn't that bad. You just don't like your husband- Its a huge club with 100's of millions members
I would like to hear his side of the story...
I can vouch for BlueBell.. I have seen his dentures being cleaned in a glass by his bedside.
As far as the story goes - Is she trying to justify her possible affair ?
And to the folks above - I am a guy and this is not my story :)
I posted this out of amazement :)
Why this complexity!
Now I am wondering why BlueBull posted this. Is he trying to tell us something. Could he be the lover? I doubt it that he is the husband..:)
I feel bad for betraying HIM with my husband
lol
Girl if your current husband does not his teeth, the next one might have a lying problem or gambling or alcohol or wtv you consider not top quality. Wake up.. you realise now that he have bad breath? you could not smell his filth when you first met him or at least after a year of him not brushing his teeth?
My thoughts are that you are only with him for financial reasons and your kids. Your kids will follow you now a problem.. how are you going to live? You go to Mr nice guy and tell him here are the bills? This guy is single and you want him to shift to a baggage style life to support you and your kids. You think he is your soulmate? just because you are too desperate, if he was a tree not a human you still would probably think he is the best.. Seems you have not learned from your first mistake.
What is right: Tell them both what the situation is ( if you can afford both consequences ) If not, then you need to finish what you started and do your self a favor.. stop getting more babies.. take preg pills they are cheap!...
asterix. when the last time you had a drink?
UK, 8 hours ago.... :-)
Blue Lagoon :) they didnt brush nor shave out there. there was no soap either. Now i wonder why brooke shields never had extra body hairs... !
asterix.. when the last time you cleaned your teeth?
Every one should clean more than 5 times a day. After every meals, Food, or any drink. I am talking about Brushing and cleaning. Cleaning is better than brushing. Brushing removes enamel and all the paste is full of chemical and deposited as florides or whatever chemicals deposited in the cells in the long run...
But as far as cleaning is concerned one shoul be be clean and hygienic and no bad breathe..
lawa she must be drunk to have sex with him for the second baby. That why they say never mix drinks and sex..:)
CL, my pleasure.... ;)
riaz: there is absolutely no excuse for not cleaning your teeth for 5 months.
I am a guy and feel that ladies need respect, love and care. Same way ladies should understand men are not so great.
You blame him bad mouth and your behavior is uglier than the bad mouth.
Washing mouth and cleaning teeth after meals till the "Creeching" sound comes.. It means the teeth are OK and cleaned. Actually we have take care of Gums. Bad breath is because of Gums. Teeth has nothing to do with. Teeth long last for 100 + years. By brushing so hard only the enamel goes out. Juts use finger clean it. The teeth will be white. The teeth will become yellowish because of Bile vapor and some stomach problems. Then the teeth looks like uncleaned toilet color. Similar to Gold. People running after GOLD which looks like uncleaned toilet or tainted teeth.....The Moral is never blame any one. How dirty it is.. the behavior more uglier than the ugly mouth... How can any one soul blame another soul since both are created from one soul... Actually marriage is between Minds and not in body...
is pikey's alter ego still here?
asterix.. very informative.. thanks !! LOL
But some do Love to Get Drunk and have Sex... ;)
asarah: what's wrong with going "al fresco" once in a while? LOL
Dear Lady, First of all you should know a man and woman secret should be in doors and not discussed out side. This is like having sex out on street which shows no respect to either. You should stay with your husband as he is teh father for you kids. And about the other guy possible be nice tou now and worse when you knoe him from inside. Remember god created sets to match and adjust. You need to show signs in a loving and caring manner to bring some changes in your husband. You will definitely find a better side in your husband. Everyone needs a chance to improve and only if you could give him as he deserve you more than any other outside man.
Washing mouth and cleaning teeth after meals till the "Creeching" sound comes.. It means the teeth are OK and cleaned. Actually we have take care of Gums. Bad breath is because of Gums. Teeth has nothing to do with. Teeth long last for 100 + years. By brushing so hard only the enamel goes out. Juts use finger clean it. The teeth will be white. The teeth will become yellowish because of Bile vapor and some stomach problems. Then the teeth looks like uncleaned toilet color. Similar to Gold. People running after GOLD which looks like uncleaned toilet or tainted teeth.
haha.. UK, i believe Hollywood has already done the job.. coz i have seen a movie with a VERYYYYY similar story.. it was rated PG18 tho .. i was just innocent 14 :P
That's what I don't understand - how can you be intimate with someone so unhygienic - ewwwwww!
CL Hollywood in the making with a Bollywood copy cat to follow!
With this breath she got two kids..........................!
Another Hollywood movie .. :P
I liked him UK, I had a secret crush on him...don't tell him!
snessy I think we could also call on the QL expert Pikey.. I heard he went back to Ireland at the same time as when you left..
Did She Had Sex with the other guy???
She didn't Mentioned that....
Surely she should leave her husband, not only because he hasn't brushed his teeth in 5 months but also because she feels like she betrayed the other bloke by having sex with her own hubby. I'd freak out with morning breath let alone someone who hasn't brushed their teeth in that long, gross!
Where are the Experts on this issue,
Miss Mimi, Rizks & Tinkerbell..:)
Not so bad husband is prerty lame
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Edited..lol
you're not that BAD, seriously,,,
read on! it's getting better:
I feel bad for betraying HIM with my husband
suggest you talk things over before making any decision that you will regret for the rest of your life.
So the last time your husband brush his teeth is before 7 months , I suggest just continue as it is with Natural freind and trophy hsuband .
BB you never change!! LOL
For the relationship to work it has to be fulfilling.
Rizks and Arien - She is talking about you guys not me :)))))
and no wonder ur bike left you coz of the bad breath ! :(
indeed the worst wife ever.
BB I never knew you dont brush your teeth ..yukkk. ;)