i have recently found out that my husband has been having an affair while working in qatar he is english and she is filippino isnt it illegal can they both face deportation i have been informed that they have been living together
and I know you may not undertsand it.The post was malicious. She drag the ntionality of the woman. And she mentioned "he is english", so what.It's good she never mentioned Indian woman or you maybe theone asking my qustion. SO STOP BEING RIGHTFUL in your thinking, YOU ARE NOT!And don't drag my wife in this popst as I don't dare to drag yours. Or if you want, the four of us can meet somewhere in the desert and check each others tolerance.Why bring such misdeeds of her husband on board? She could have asked for advice in a general way and never mentioned any nationality? What's her purpose?Now if you DOC can still not understand it, just go to...!
YOU asked the lady the question flor,so i'm asking YOU in return & YOU know exactly why i'm asking because i know exactly why YOU are asking...get it?! now,back to it,INSTEAD of using cheesy movie lines like the one you just did,answer the question! you have already asked her,now i'm asking you...just so we're clear,i have no comments to make on the OP in question BUT it's very clear what you're trying to do... just in case you thought no one noticed!...here's the deal mr. einstein,you stop trying to turn this around by insinuating anything by asking daft questions like the ones you asked the lady here & i'll stop making you look foolish...deal?! :)...
easy to answer! Now tell me your story and MAYBE, I'll tell you mine. Is it wrong to ask it, she mentioned it in her comment! Are you seeking attention, Doc?
tell me flor,how long did you & mrs flor know each other before you got married?...& if i may be so bold as to "wonder where that time period fits"?...how long have you mrs flor been married & how old are your children?...
is this the way that u come wid the the post named "mr_paki''' whereas when i comment on ur post i told you that i dont knw who you are coz i am not interestd in ur profile so it means that u r the one who first visit my profile and after knowing about my nationality then start barking.. ok no problem might b u have a problem of barking.. and i thnk what ever i said is rite.. if u r not agree wid mine comments then chek and read other Qlers comments who have also same thoughts about your pilipinasss.. if u ever see any pakistan women with a western guy then u r wellcome with ur comments.. but this is a bitter truth that pillipinas uses their bodies just to get some extra cash... and i feel ashamed coz ur lying in a public forum do u have any evidence that a pakistani guy rape ur freinds son... impossible..!! how he kidnapped him and raped him in Qatar.. wake up man dont bring ur phillipines story here in QL.. for that u have to come wid a new website "pliving.com".. and remember dont say anything about anyones family ok... if u want to stop all these then try to stop ur womens... from ruining other social lifes.. and one more thing if u have any source about ur shity story then provide us a source... u r simply a dumb a*ss
i want to clear my side...frm the beginning you generalized our women...so simply i answered you when i found out which nation you came from...one by one?sorry to tell this and to let all QL knows about your nations?One of my friend son was almost rape by your nationality.He is an arab child!!!now tell me who the s...you are to judge all our women?you want more?My neighbor was rape husband and wife filipinos and killed!who doesnt have heart now mr paki?who is thirsty with the flesh of a woman?do you think we done care of our women?even ourself when we see your kind...be shame to tell your words...do you have sisters?when someone told you that your sister is prost or whatever nasty words,what do you feel?we are not human to feel anger and hatred even not its not true?I have sisters and i feel bad when you guys generalized.now if we return to this case of this author,we never know the whole story on what her husband told to this filipina...thats all...
its my humble request to you to please read your previous post and checked who comments on the nationalities.. by the way beside your son also keep ur daughter away from others might b she also ruined some1 else life afterall she is pilliiiiiipinaaaaaaaa..... u should have to OUT.....
hmmm..is this between mine and your nation now?dont play as clean man dude!because if i will speak about your nation then it will be a a big big disaster...ahahaha.but ill not waste my time...ill kept my son always away from your nation...paki!!!thats a big hint!!i have been working here in qatar for long,so i know whats going on...hahahah..co comments of the nationalities what you are mentioning...Am out...ciao...:)
yashmak forget it... The op is heart broken no matter what she still loves her husband so all blames goes to the third party... My mother went through something like that & it's hard for any nationality it's just sad the op generalized everyone... I've got a mother & sisters, I know they're not like that...
seem like your husband no longer love you, and proven that even green card, english guy is willing to give u up for filipina..well filipina is romantic, lovely,clean,accomodating, smart, etc,etc,etc.we
seem like your husband no longer love you, and proven that even green card, english guy is willing to give u up for filipina..well filipina is romantic, lovely,clean,accomodating, smart, etc,etc,etc.we
ok i am adopted by that country what u r doing there.. r u hire by Qatar to entertain others... like ur pilipinas is doing wid carla0067 hubby...? i born in that country and that country gives me alot thats why my dp name is "mr_qatar" coz i am not selfish like u pinoys.. and in my profile i proudly mention my country name coz that is my identity.. and just answer my one single question.. do u ever see any women (pakistani, india, qatari, or from rest of the world except pillipinOs) with the men of any other nationality... no offcourse not.. coz they have feelings they are not thirsty like pilipinos.. think b4 speak u will b safe... or just start a new thread and do a survey that which country womens are responsible of all these things.. hope u will get answer dear.. i knw the weather there is hot thats why u r .....
Did i mention words to say bad towards the AUTHOR of this thread?Instead i am wishing her for good guidance...I am not defending my own nationality of what they have been doing,i am just telling my opinion of how the people judge them.dont generalized them,otherwise we will generalized your nations too...your just lucky to be born and adapted by this nation...
Some of the comments are below the belt already.. I gotta gotta get outta here..:D
Carla,I wish you all the best. May God bless you and your kids. Do what you can do so whatever is the denouement of this,u can proudly say that u fought for your family. Hugs. Be brave for your li'l sweethearts..bye.
tigabaguio & yashmak... as i mentioned above that pinays or filipina what so ever you womens are but the facts are that u are like an HIV/cancer/birdflu etc etc for others life.. u womens have no feelings.. how much your filipina will get from carla0067 hubby..? million pounds..? but on other hand she is making hells of carla0067 and her child life... if u pinays think that without u filipinas mens in qatar or any where else will wacking camels and donkeys then let them to do so but why you start playing a role of prostitutes.. coz u filipina think that they will give u money by which you will buy a Hala vochures.. especially to yashamk... dear i dont knw frm where u r but u have to admitt that filipinas are the reasons of all these shit problems... and for your kind info u can search QL thn u will find in every hot issue filipinas play a villan's role.. wish you all the best Carla0067... never loose hope.. go for revenge 1st from ur hubby then from that prostitute...
Maybe girls who likes that kind of set up knew what to expect rather than with single men who might cheat on them... I don't know it's complicated... but good luck to the op it's going to be quite a heart ache...
well let me just say that women like you are just common prostitutes! and you just infect the rest of the nation.. no morals no compassion and certainly not regard for their families
I just commented on the part where if a woman knew he's married then she should back off. True... but the sad part is he also knew that he's a married man & that shouldn't be a reason to commit infidelity...
anything which people in Replublic of the Philippines involve always hot scene...Maybe just because this country is overly populated by our nations,wondering why Qataris hired too much frm our nations...Then it has been a hot topic when it comes to Pinays because obviously they are showing it publicly while others in secret way.lol.. one more thing i observe when they saw a filipina with other natioanlity people judge directly without knowing the facts,but when they saw other nationalities together they shut their mouths as if nothing,thinking this are real couple because they both same nationalities..did you saw their marriage certificate?common guys,mostly here are so judgemental...
He must be here to earn few bucks for u and family...come Doha work here alone and feel how it feel son the vacations of two lonely days.Try to feel how it feels to have lonely evening and long lonely night.Every single person here is in search for some personal moments.I dont know why ladies cry for honest husbands always...I m not favoring adultry I m trying to say that try to be in touch with him all the time.Dont chase him just remain with him all the time...send him fotos of u parents or kids more often.Keep him reminded that how much u all love him.Visit him if it is possible...Man are human being too..
i am a filipino, and i would say your men are fortunate filipinas are around..other wise your men will be wacking camels and donkeys..to my fellow kabayans.. if they counted on our fellow kabayans lets start counting those men hungry for flesh aswell..we will also count QL's that single out our race.. then well tabulate who would be kabayan's most disgusting man..i would nominate TOP OUT to be the most notorious one for now..
I don't see any Brits coming out & saying why nationality is mentioned & how not every brit is a philanderer.. Some people need to get over their insecurities..
Also , many women prefer going out with married me. There is the excitement and danger , along with knowing that there is no commitment and that he will treat her well
ops. so long long to read, and i did not read all.Adultery does not only happens at boring places, does not only happens to certain races, does not only happen to certain people.
take my suggestion(if u may).
You are a UK citizen right? Gather all evidences you can. know where they live specially. COme over to Qatar anytime without him knowing or any of your relative. Your visa can be obtain upon entry to Qatar.go straight to CID and bring it on!!! that would be such a sweet revenge
but fillipinas are now becoming a cancer for peoples lifes and their relationships.. they ruin lifes of so many you are not the first one Carla0067... just to fullfill there cheap wishes... sorry if i hurt some1's feelings...
happygolucky... Those married & unmarried guys wants to be tangoed too because if they're committed nothing will happen... By your logic there's only one person at fault which is kind of ignorant knowing two persons do deed...
IMHO the majority of the fault lies with the man. Being lonely is no excuse . However, if the woman knows that he is married , then she should back off ..
I dont agree that it takes two to tango...we have heard, keep hearing and have been witness and seen our own friends being tangoed by the ladies (married, unmarried doesnt matter) here and we know who they are...no need to get so defensive about them.
No matter what gender or race anyone is capable of infidelity but it takes two to tango so the problem should fall to the person who broke their vows. To the Op your husband is the problem, he will do it with anyone wherever he is as long as there's a chance because if he really loves you he should be the one avoiding such temptations if that's the case because sometimes men lies about being single. Now the question is will you accept your husband until he can change no matter how long it takes or you'll just give up on him? It's hard but it's reality...
YES I AM WITHOUT SIN!!!!!!! THANKS, I AM A GOOD WIFE IT DOES NOT CONCERN ME WHAT RACE SHE IS..SHE HAS DONE WHAT SHE HAS AND SO HAS MY HUSBAND WHAT I AM SAYING IS SINGLE WOMEN OUT THERE NEED TO HAVE A BIT MORE BRAIN MATTER AND REALISE THAT A LOT OF THESE MEN OUT THERE ARE MARRIED FOR GODS SAKE THATS WHY THEY ARE THERE, TO EARN MONEY FOR THEIR FAMILIES LIKE EVERYONE ELSE THERE..MY HUSBAND HAS MORE TO LOSE BUT I WANT TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE.. HE HAS NEVER DONE THIS BEFORE HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN A FAMILY MAN.HE HAS BEEN OUT THERE FOR JUST OVER A YEAR I CANT JUST FLY OUT THERE I HAVE KIDS PETS AND A HOME TO LOOK AFTER, I DONT KNOW WHERE HE IS LIVING FOR SURE
carla, not all filipinas or any othe woman who belongs to the third world country wants a guy who are british passport/green card holders..its' not only the basis for that..if that's the case then all the filipinas in the philippines married british, americans, australians, etc etc..
i am not judging her or the filippino race at all, i know it takes two but lets face it most men wont say no when its offered to them on a plate! and having a good job with good pay and....a british passport! isnt that what these women want..these women come across as loving and caring but they are really out to destroy the mans family they want that british passport and they will stop at nothing to get it its just the men are too stupid to even realise what theyre upto and its all too late when they have lost it all and their families have been left destroyed.
when will the non-stop bashing of my nationality will stop here in QL?it's like branding all the filipinas as either whore, prostitutes, bimbos, pokpok whatver you want to call us..why it's always have to be like this?as if some nationalities are sinless, countries of saints, pure and non-evil..i tried not to react even one looney keep dragging my ql name here..but this is too much to bear..as if filipinas here in qatar doesn't have decent jobs..yes some maybe prostitutes but you don't know why they do it..i'm not saying this to defend them and i;m not even tolerating them..they have their own reasons and who the hell are we to judge them? as if prostitutions and b*tch*s doesn't exist in your own country..you're not the GOD to JUDGE us..you don;t even know us...and we are not here in this country just to please every single people here, for you people to like us..we are not here for you..we are here for our family..we are not only worth for hala/voda card..CAST THE FIRST STONE IF YOU ARE LIVING A LIFE LIKE A GOD..pure and sinless..
I am sad ff your story,not just you experiencing this..,now adays nobody can be trusted neither man or woman specially when both are apart.Seldom you see long distance relationship succeed,because any where in any minutes temptations are there even when you lived together.Ask yourself,when he was in your country is he a faithful one?How about his lifestyle being in your country?The best you have to do is talk to him and tell everything what is in your heart,ask him directly,surely as woman and a mother you want to save your marriage,and all the decision is yours.Listen to your heart,what we all saying here are just advice which somehow help you.But as i've said,follow what is in your heart.May God guide you in any decision that you gonna make...
Please dont blame the women only. No one knows the actual truth. Who knows what your husband has promised her? Who knows the actual truth? Instead of telling your story in a public forum you should try finding out the truth from your husband.. I am not Filipino but have a lot of friends who are filipina and know them very well to be decent and friendly. So please dont judge anyone for that matter.
i hope in the future...QID number will be required in creating a profile here in QL to avoid proliferation of instant multiple accounts -- as some do it as a way of creating a topic or irrelevantly commenting to a certain topic that leads to a negative image on a certain group of people and at some point successfully creating a bad image on a certain nationality. WE are all entitled to our own opinion...somehow it can be regarded as our privilege per se. Let us use it properly.
FYI ; Just a few minutes ago, the moderator acted immediately by removing kabayans' "why" posted topic. Such immediate action is highly appreciated. Thank you.
Carla guy being married doesn't stop some women in Qatar, Color of passport intoxicates them..You are right, there are lives at stake, very easy for some people to say that dump the guy.. They are not living your life, you are..Suggest you come to Doha and have a talk with your husband to sort it out..
What's so sad about here is people judge u bec.of what your countrymen do without even trying to know you first.. Sad but we can never please everybody and we dont have to please all the people around. Im not living my life the way i want,everyone's approval isnt needed.
I am so fed up of this bashing regarding my Nationality.Why you guys always crossing your eyes to "US" either man or woman?You keep telling our women like this description and our man are like that?You keep generalizing...could you ask your self at least if you did good things in your life?Maybe by your own point of view,because backbiting and gossiping or criticizing is already a sin?You must be shame of telling all of that, perhaps maybe you dont have anything good things in your life.
i think what some of you are forgetting, i have two kids that are absolutely devastated he may be lonely but so am i.. one human being should not treat another like this there are lives her that are being destroyed i am trying to hold my family together but who is going to hold me together i am the innocent one..and yes, she may be nice and loving maybe she doesnt know he is married but i need her to stay away from him.. these women need to see how they are destroying innocent families, tearing them apart, if they are so warm and loving natured why would they hurt the wife and her children??????????? do they really think that all men working out there are single? really are they that naive?
myalisha - Well,ur comment will be acceptable if u have slept with all the filipino ladies.. but if u have slept with a few then how credible your statement is?
It all depends on the person itself on how they value their dignity as a woman. As u know even in other countries prostitution is legal. so what the heck are u ranting about? Prostitutes exist in many countries. U better sleep with your eyes wide open.
Selling flesh is hard to digest for me but im not perfect enough to judge anyone..
One can even predict the comments by now without reading the thread.As for OP, he will be back after having his little fling here, up to you to accept him or dump him.. Legally they can be deported after a jail term..
My dear please be careful with your word's..you are pertaining ALL Filipino's like that?i think its already below the belt....huh come on..let me tell you this ok and please bear in your mind:"Don't judge the book by its cover"......
Carla - I understand u. You're in limbo between wanting to save ur marriage or shall u file a divorce.. The question is: Are u willing to trust him again and give him a chance for the two of u to build the marriage again? If yes,then give him a chance. If u can no longer trust him then even u want to save the marriage,it wont work out. In order to let things be ok,then u have to trust again which i know is very hard to do after all he did. Stay if u'r happy,leave if u'r not. U r a good person,u deserve the best in life..
if you come to Doha, that much better for you to save your marriage....i think this is the only way to save your marriage since he is busy at work...having a two kids are not easy because im also single mom...dont blame him for having another woman instead understand him....i think this is also one of the reason he have this lady...he needs companion and as i told you filipina are so loving and caring people....have a nice day Ms. Carla...
i want to save my marriage, but its not that easy, i know he changed his job out there and is no longer staying at the ezdan, im sure they are/were living together he has been vague about the information he had asked me not to go out to him as he was so busy with work and being the good wife i am i respected that
Excuse me KABAYAN not all FILIPINA are BITCHES....because i am Filipina and i am working professionaly and very to feed my family with all my sweat and my own blood...Ms. Carla i should advice you to talk both of them your husband specially...i know the characteristec of Filipina they are very sweet and they are taking good care of thier loveones...maybe your husband is looking for this attention...since you are not here he needs wife to take care of him...divorced in not the reason if you do your best to save your marriage much better or you come to doha to do your obligation as wife...talk to him in a way ry to undertand him accept his mistakes and forget...start a new day your life...thats all...
i am legally married to this man and have been for over ten years, we have been together for over 16yrs and we have two children..yes i do know who she is i have her address and telephone numbers (she refuses to answer suprise!!) i have spoken to my husband he denies it (of course) i have seen photo of them together(and yes i know its not proof) and i have seen the e-mails from her to him i e-mailed her from his e-mail add, asked her to call me and she did..hence i got her number and have since tried calling her she answered once saying'i am sorry i made a mistake...which i accept .....but i want the situation resolved i want him to return to the uk and explain and stay in uk or get divorced...thanks for your comments........i was happily married, i have been a good, loving and loyal wife.i do not want to hurt anyone or cause trouble i am a good person but i will not allow myself to be treated like this
Philipino ladies are mostely problem in Qatar. Same case happened for my friend here in Qatar. It was also a Philipino lady. They want to sale their flesh for any thing, even for an ice cream..."Bad begs"
No offense intended. please...you are out of context. Please do read again the post of carla0067. For all -> just a friendly reminder -->> in the future..let us make an appropriate comments. Please do watch out for our actions and written words as it will reflect our personality. Let us be reminded that most of us are ex pat here working for our family...and in the end our past actions or comments here in QL might affect our work status. Qatar is now our second home...let us make it a better place to live. And QL can be considered as the best access of having instant access to enormous informations and can be a tool for learning process too - just get the best out of it. Good day everyone.
For carla0067, please talk first to your husband. Proper communication is one of the basic and important foundation of any relationship...more importantly in a married life. Discuss and directly ask him. After that...whatever the outcome, from there you can make your next actions. Also don't forget to ask for His guidance as it is during our darkest moments in our life wherein proper guidance from Our Almighty is the most accessible and reliable. Best of luck.
In this case,I dunno if CID is really taking an action. There are many people who are living together here without being married. You are the legal wife, u have the rights to slap the mistress and take ur stolen place..
Exactly what tinker says - oh no not again. That scenario is very common here - sadly. I don't see how involving CID will help. It is your choice either divorce him or come over here, kick her out of the house and live with him.
Being in a boring place is not an excuse to cheat on your wife..
If you have a strong evidence then rock on and do what u can do.. after that,it's all up to u whether u can still accept and trust ur husband.. u can find a good man for u. There's many fish in the sea,keep fishing if he can't treat u right.
What does "Qatar is a boring place " has to do with adultery? FYI, It happens everywhere.
Who informed you that? Carla, make sure that your information is true and your source is reliable otherwise its just pure allegation or rumor. If you then have a strong,valid and factual evidence you may report it with the CID here or ask your source to report it here. They both will be facing jail sentence and deportation if proven guilty.
Better yet file for a divorce and find yourself a good man.
first,do you have a strong evidence to prove all those allegations?second you are legally married madam?you should make documented before make an action...im so sory to hear your story ma'am....my advice to you is that please talk to your husband in a nice way...ask him what's going on?you remind him about your marriage,your kids and the days your happy moments.especially the day you meet and during your wedding day,for sure he will realized and value all those things.lastly,you pray to our Almighty God,,,,im hoping that you will surpass those trouble,,,its just a matter of trial in your family.after this storm for sure your family will become stronger and happily ever after...God bless...............................
Nomad, Qatar penal code doesn't call for lashings for non-muslims. I understand, the OP's hubby is not a muslim. If he is reported against and then proved, he may face a jail term of 6 months to 1 year and then deported to his home country. This will happen to the lady as well.
yeah i agree.. this is a booring place.. and i cant be certain and hope i wont do the same.. May GOd help me endure for the next 9 months..madam try to talk to your husband.. i just hope he told that filipina hes married and dint fall in love with her.. that he does it for sxual fulfiment.. i hope that lady too does the same and smart enough to do it for cash..what bad is that, if your husban lied hes single and thier both in love.. then madam its your call..
Talk to your husband, yeah they are right, Qatar is a boring place to be, where else can you go but to the booming Qatar!Anyways, you should know better how your husband will react once you tell him the truth, and better yet talk to him. If you have children/child better yet to talk to him, and try to work out.Once you report this to the police, both of them will be either jailed or a law suit will be filed against both of them, so I think talk to him first.Always, never forget to ask help from God, He hears you.
They will be deported for sure but this reaction of yours might affect your relationship with him as well. Why don't you try to speak to him letting him know that you are aware of what is going on in Qatar. Ask him to stop living with the filipina, else you will also look for someone locally to live with. If he doesn't distance himself from her as a result, simply means he doesn't love you. That is the time you need to decide whether you want to continue with the 'loveless' marriage or find happiness elsewhere. You can't keep him away from such flicks if he has such a 'volatile' character, especially when he is living away from you.
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and I know you may not undertsand it.The post was malicious. She drag the ntionality of the woman. And she mentioned "he is english", so what.It's good she never mentioned Indian woman or you maybe theone asking my qustion. SO STOP BEING RIGHTFUL in your thinking, YOU ARE NOT!And don't drag my wife in this popst as I don't dare to drag yours. Or if you want, the four of us can meet somewhere in the desert and check each others tolerance.Why bring such misdeeds of her husband on board? She could have asked for advice in a general way and never mentioned any nationality? What's her purpose?Now if you DOC can still not understand it, just go to...!
Man! let him go, he had enough thou
YOU asked the lady the question flor,so i'm asking YOU in return & YOU know exactly why i'm asking because i know exactly why YOU are asking...get it?! now,back to it,INSTEAD of using cheesy movie lines like the one you just did,answer the question! you have already asked her,now i'm asking you...just so we're clear,i have no comments to make on the OP in question BUT it's very clear what you're trying to do... just in case you thought no one noticed!...here's the deal mr. einstein,you stop trying to turn this around by insinuating anything by asking daft questions like the ones you asked the lady here & i'll stop making you look foolish...deal?! :)...
easy to answer! Now tell me your story and MAYBE, I'll tell you mine. Is it wrong to ask it, she mentioned it in her comment! Are you seeking attention, Doc?
tell me flor,how long did you & mrs flor know each other before you got married?...& if i may be so bold as to "wonder where that time period fits"?...how long have you mrs flor been married & how old are your children?...
how old are your children?
wonder where the 6 years fits?
Don't worry... Carry on... assistants can't do a thing...
time to lock the thread. As usual the mods are sleeping.
is this the way that u come wid the the post named "mr_paki''' whereas when i comment on ur post i told you that i dont knw who you are coz i am not interestd in ur profile so it means that u r the one who first visit my profile and after knowing about my nationality then start barking.. ok no problem might b u have a problem of barking.. and i thnk what ever i said is rite.. if u r not agree wid mine comments then chek and read other Qlers comments who have also same thoughts about your pilipinasss.. if u ever see any pakistan women with a western guy then u r wellcome with ur comments.. but this is a bitter truth that pillipinas uses their bodies just to get some extra cash... and i feel ashamed coz ur lying in a public forum do u have any evidence that a pakistani guy rape ur freinds son... impossible..!! how he kidnapped him and raped him in Qatar.. wake up man dont bring ur phillipines story here in QL.. for that u have to come wid a new website "pliving.com".. and remember dont say anything about anyones family ok... if u want to stop all these then try to stop ur womens... from ruining other social lifes.. and one more thing if u have any source about ur shity story then provide us a source... u r simply a dumb a*ss
i want to clear my side...frm the beginning you generalized our women...so simply i answered you when i found out which nation you came from...one by one?sorry to tell this and to let all QL knows about your nations?One of my friend son was almost rape by your nationality.He is an arab child!!!now tell me who the s...you are to judge all our women?you want more?My neighbor was rape husband and wife filipinos and killed!who doesnt have heart now mr paki?who is thirsty with the flesh of a woman?do you think we done care of our women?even ourself when we see your kind...be shame to tell your words...do you have sisters?when someone told you that your sister is prost or whatever nasty words,what do you feel?we are not human to feel anger and hatred even not its not true?I have sisters and i feel bad when you guys generalized.now if we return to this case of this author,we never know the whole story on what her husband told to this filipina...thats all...
O is male A is female
its my humble request to you to please read your previous post and checked who comments on the nationalities.. by the way beside your son also keep ur daughter away from others might b she also ruined some1 else life afterall she is pilliiiiiipinaaaaaaaa..... u should have to OUT.....
hmmm..is this between mine and your nation now?dont play as clean man dude!because if i will speak about your nation then it will be a a big big disaster...ahahaha.but ill not waste my time...ill kept my son always away from your nation...paki!!!thats a big hint!!i have been working here in qatar for long,so i know whats going on...hahahah..co comments of the nationalities what you are mentioning...Am out...ciao...:)
Damn! Just keep on dream about green card, you’d better try for a ‘hala card’ at least you can talk to your back home lol
yashmak forget it... The op is heart broken no matter what she still loves her husband so all blames goes to the third party... My mother went through something like that & it's hard for any nationality it's just sad the op generalized everyone... I've got a mother & sisters, I know they're not like that...
seem like your husband no longer love you, and proven that even green card, english guy is willing to give u up for filipina..well filipina is romantic, lovely,clean,accomodating, smart, etc,etc,etc.we
seem like your husband no longer love you, and proven that even green card, english guy is willing to give u up for filipina..well filipina is romantic, lovely,clean,accomodating, smart, etc,etc,etc.we
ok i am adopted by that country what u r doing there.. r u hire by Qatar to entertain others... like ur pilipinas is doing wid carla0067 hubby...? i born in that country and that country gives me alot thats why my dp name is "mr_qatar" coz i am not selfish like u pinoys.. and in my profile i proudly mention my country name coz that is my identity.. and just answer my one single question.. do u ever see any women (pakistani, india, qatari, or from rest of the world except pillipinOs) with the men of any other nationality... no offcourse not.. coz they have feelings they are not thirsty like pilipinos.. think b4 speak u will b safe... or just start a new thread and do a survey that which country womens are responsible of all these things.. hope u will get answer dear.. i knw the weather there is hot thats why u r .....
it's going down!!! it's going down again.........hahahaha
common prostitutes! LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!
Did i mention words to say bad towards the AUTHOR of this thread?Instead i am wishing her for good guidance...I am not defending my own nationality of what they have been doing,i am just telling my opinion of how the people judge them.dont generalized them,otherwise we will generalized your nations too...your just lucky to be born and adapted by this nation...
Some of the comments are below the belt already.. I gotta gotta get outta here..:D
Carla,I wish you all the best. May God bless you and your kids. Do what you can do so whatever is the denouement of this,u can proudly say that u fought for your family. Hugs. Be brave for your li'l sweethearts..bye.
tigabaguio & yashmak... as i mentioned above that pinays or filipina what so ever you womens are but the facts are that u are like an HIV/cancer/birdflu etc etc for others life.. u womens have no feelings.. how much your filipina will get from carla0067 hubby..? million pounds..? but on other hand she is making hells of carla0067 and her child life... if u pinays think that without u filipinas mens in qatar or any where else will wacking camels and donkeys then let them to do so but why you start playing a role of prostitutes.. coz u filipina think that they will give u money by which you will buy a Hala vochures.. especially to yashamk... dear i dont knw frm where u r but u have to admitt that filipinas are the reasons of all these shit problems... and for your kind info u can search QL thn u will find in every hot issue filipinas play a villan's role.. wish you all the best Carla0067... never loose hope.. go for revenge 1st from ur hubby then from that prostitute...
Maybe girls who likes that kind of set up knew what to expect rather than with single men who might cheat on them... I don't know it's complicated... but good luck to the op it's going to be quite a heart ache...
well let me just say that women like you are just common prostitutes! and you just infect the rest of the nation.. no morals no compassion and certainly not regard for their families
I just commented on the part where if a woman knew he's married then she should back off. True... but the sad part is he also knew that he's a married man & that shouldn't be a reason to commit infidelity...
anything which people in Replublic of the Philippines involve always hot scene...Maybe just because this country is overly populated by our nations,wondering why Qataris hired too much frm our nations...Then it has been a hot topic when it comes to Pinays because obviously they are showing it publicly while others in secret way.lol.. one more thing i observe when they saw a filipina with other natioanlity people judge directly without knowing the facts,but when they saw other nationalities together they shut their mouths as if nothing,thinking this are real couple because they both same nationalities..did you saw their marriage certificate?common guys,mostly here are so judgemental...
He must be here to earn few bucks for u and family...come Doha work here alone and feel how it feel son the vacations of two lonely days.Try to feel how it feels to have lonely evening and long lonely night.Every single person here is in search for some personal moments.I dont know why ladies cry for honest husbands always...I m not favoring adultry I m trying to say that try to be in touch with him all the time.Dont chase him just remain with him all the time...send him fotos of u parents or kids more often.Keep him reminded that how much u all love him.Visit him if it is possible...Man are human being too..
i am a filipino, and i would say your men are fortunate filipinas are around..other wise your men will be wacking camels and donkeys..to my fellow kabayans.. if they counted on our fellow kabayans lets start counting those men hungry for flesh aswell..we will also count QL's that single out our race.. then well tabulate who would be kabayan's most disgusting man..i would nominate TOP OUT to be the most notorious one for now..
I don't see any Brits coming out & saying why nationality is mentioned & how not every brit is a philanderer.. Some people need to get over their insecurities..
Any topic involving Pinays are always hot topic :-p
Wow. This is a hot topic!!!
Also , many women prefer going out with married me. There is the excitement and danger , along with knowing that there is no commitment and that he will treat her well
If you read my comment , I put the majority of the blame on the man .. That's why I suggested that his wife take him
To the cleaners
britexpat... Likewise the man also knew he is a married man.
ops. so long long to read, and i did not read all.Adultery does not only happens at boring places, does not only happens to certain races, does not only happen to certain people.
take my suggestion(if u may).
You are a UK citizen right? Gather all evidences you can. know where they live specially. COme over to Qatar anytime without him knowing or any of your relative. Your visa can be obtain upon entry to Qatar.go straight to CID and bring it on!!! that would be such a sweet revenge
:D
but fillipinas are now becoming a cancer for peoples lifes and their relationships.. they ruin lifes of so many you are not the first one Carla0067... just to fullfill there cheap wishes... sorry if i hurt some1's feelings...
happygolucky... Those married & unmarried guys wants to be tangoed too because if they're committed nothing will happen... By your logic there's only one person at fault which is kind of ignorant knowing two persons do deed...
IMHO the majority of the fault lies with the man. Being lonely is no excuse . However, if the woman knows that he is married , then she should back off ..
I dont agree that it takes two to tango...we have heard, keep hearing and have been witness and seen our own friends being tangoed by the ladies (married, unmarried doesnt matter) here and we know who they are...no need to get so defensive about them.
No matter what gender or race anyone is capable of infidelity but it takes two to tango so the problem should fall to the person who broke their vows. To the Op your husband is the problem, he will do it with anyone wherever he is as long as there's a chance because if he really loves you he should be the one avoiding such temptations if that's the case because sometimes men lies about being single. Now the question is will you accept your husband until he can change no matter how long it takes or you'll just give up on him? It's hard but it's reality...
YES I AM WITHOUT SIN!!!!!!! THANKS, I AM A GOOD WIFE IT DOES NOT CONCERN ME WHAT RACE SHE IS..SHE HAS DONE WHAT SHE HAS AND SO HAS MY HUSBAND WHAT I AM SAYING IS SINGLE WOMEN OUT THERE NEED TO HAVE A BIT MORE BRAIN MATTER AND REALISE THAT A LOT OF THESE MEN OUT THERE ARE MARRIED FOR GODS SAKE THATS WHY THEY ARE THERE, TO EARN MONEY FOR THEIR FAMILIES LIKE EVERYONE ELSE THERE..MY HUSBAND HAS MORE TO LOSE BUT I WANT TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE.. HE HAS NEVER DONE THIS BEFORE HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN A FAMILY MAN.HE HAS BEEN OUT THERE FOR JUST OVER A YEAR I CANT JUST FLY OUT THERE I HAVE KIDS PETS AND A HOME TO LOOK AFTER, I DONT KNOW WHERE HE IS LIVING FOR SURE
carla, not all filipinas or any othe woman who belongs to the third world country wants a guy who are british passport/green card holders..its' not only the basis for that..if that's the case then all the filipinas in the philippines married british, americans, australians, etc etc..
your husband has been in Doha ? Is it possible for you to join him ?
i am not judging her or the filippino race at all, i know it takes two but lets face it most men wont say no when its offered to them on a plate! and having a good job with good pay and....a british passport! isnt that what these women want..these women come across as loving and caring but they are really out to destroy the mans family they want that british passport and they will stop at nothing to get it its just the men are too stupid to even realise what theyre upto and its all too late when they have lost it all and their families have been left destroyed.
when will the non-stop bashing of my nationality will stop here in QL?it's like branding all the filipinas as either whore, prostitutes, bimbos, pokpok whatver you want to call us..why it's always have to be like this?as if some nationalities are sinless, countries of saints, pure and non-evil..i tried not to react even one looney keep dragging my ql name here..but this is too much to bear..as if filipinas here in qatar doesn't have decent jobs..yes some maybe prostitutes but you don't know why they do it..i'm not saying this to defend them and i;m not even tolerating them..they have their own reasons and who the hell are we to judge them? as if prostitutions and b*tch*s doesn't exist in your own country..you're not the GOD to JUDGE us..you don;t even know us...and we are not here in this country just to please every single people here, for you people to like us..we are not here for you..we are here for our family..we are not only worth for hala/voda card..CAST THE FIRST STONE IF YOU ARE LIVING A LIFE LIKE A GOD..pure and sinless..
I don't think that this post is bashing a nationality .. Both nationalities were named. I persinaly blame the guy much more than the lady ..
I am sad ff your story,not just you experiencing this..,now adays nobody can be trusted neither man or woman specially when both are apart.Seldom you see long distance relationship succeed,because any where in any minutes temptations are there even when you lived together.Ask yourself,when he was in your country is he a faithful one?How about his lifestyle being in your country?The best you have to do is talk to him and tell everything what is in your heart,ask him directly,surely as woman and a mother you want to save your marriage,and all the decision is yours.Listen to your heart,what we all saying here are just advice which somehow help you.But as i've said,follow what is in your heart.May God guide you in any decision that you gonna make...
Carla - Not easy to just leave ur husband. Kids should be considered. Talk to him and ask him what he really wants. Your family or leave the mistress.
Please dont blame the women only. No one knows the actual truth. Who knows what your husband has promised her? Who knows the actual truth? Instead of telling your story in a public forum you should try finding out the truth from your husband.. I am not Filipino but have a lot of friends who are filipina and know them very well to be decent and friendly. So please dont judge anyone for that matter.
i hope in the future...QID number will be required in creating a profile here in QL to avoid proliferation of instant multiple accounts -- as some do it as a way of creating a topic or irrelevantly commenting to a certain topic that leads to a negative image on a certain group of people and at some point successfully creating a bad image on a certain nationality. WE are all entitled to our own opinion...somehow it can be regarded as our privilege per se. Let us use it properly.
FYI ; Just a few minutes ago, the moderator acted immediately by removing kabayans' "why" posted topic. Such immediate action is highly appreciated. Thank you.
hi kabayanplease be considre othersSorry Kabayan...
Seen it happen too many times as an Expat :0(
My advice - move all the money to your account. Report, file a divorce case and take him to the cleaners ..
fyi....i dont think she is a prostitute and im not judging her
Carla guy being married doesn't stop some women in Qatar, Color of passport intoxicates them..You are right, there are lives at stake, very easy for some people to say that dump the guy.. They are not living your life, you are..Suggest you come to Doha and have a talk with your husband to sort it out..
What's so sad about here is people judge u bec.of what your countrymen do without even trying to know you first.. Sad but we can never please everybody and we dont have to please all the people around. Im not living my life the way i want,everyone's approval isnt needed.
I am so fed up of this bashing regarding my Nationality.Why you guys always crossing your eyes to "US" either man or woman?You keep telling our women like this description and our man are like that?You keep generalizing...could you ask your self at least if you did good things in your life?Maybe by your own point of view,because backbiting and gossiping or criticizing is already a sin?You must be shame of telling all of that, perhaps maybe you dont have anything good things in your life.
i think what some of you are forgetting, i have two kids that are absolutely devastated he may be lonely but so am i.. one human being should not treat another like this there are lives her that are being destroyed i am trying to hold my family together but who is going to hold me together i am the innocent one..and yes, she may be nice and loving maybe she doesnt know he is married but i need her to stay away from him.. these women need to see how they are destroying innocent families, tearing them apart, if they are so warm and loving natured why would they hurt the wife and her children??????????? do they really think that all men working out there are single? really are they that naive?
myalisha - Well,ur comment will be acceptable if u have slept with all the filipino ladies.. but if u have slept with a few then how credible your statement is?
It all depends on the person itself on how they value their dignity as a woman. As u know even in other countries prostitution is legal. so what the heck are u ranting about? Prostitutes exist in many countries. U better sleep with your eyes wide open.
Selling flesh is hard to digest for me but im not perfect enough to judge anyone..
One can even predict the comments by now without reading the thread.As for OP, he will be back after having his little fling here, up to you to accept him or dump him.. Legally they can be deported after a jail term..
My dear please be careful with your word's..you are pertaining ALL Filipino's like that?i think its already below the belt....huh come on..let me tell you this ok and please bear in your mind:"Don't judge the book by its cover"......
Carla - I understand u. You're in limbo between wanting to save ur marriage or shall u file a divorce.. The question is: Are u willing to trust him again and give him a chance for the two of u to build the marriage again? If yes,then give him a chance. If u can no longer trust him then even u want to save the marriage,it wont work out. In order to let things be ok,then u have to trust again which i know is very hard to do after all he did. Stay if u'r happy,leave if u'r not. U r a good person,u deserve the best in life..
if you come to Doha, that much better for you to save your marriage....i think this is the only way to save your marriage since he is busy at work...having a two kids are not easy because im also single mom...dont blame him for having another woman instead understand him....i think this is also one of the reason he have this lady...he needs companion and as i told you filipina are so loving and caring people....have a nice day Ms. Carla...
you judge them (filipinos) and yet you can't see your own race, too bad comment from a polluted brain.
Bonitamujer - "Kabayans" is an old Qler who keeps on creating new ID and hitting filipinos.. he's not even a filipino..:(
i want to save my marriage, but its not that easy, i know he changed his job out there and is no longer staying at the ezdan, im sure they are/were living together he has been vague about the information he had asked me not to go out to him as he was so busy with work and being the good wife i am i respected that
Excuse me KABAYAN not all FILIPINA are BITCHES....because i am Filipina and i am working professionaly and very to feed my family with all my sweat and my own blood...Ms. Carla i should advice you to talk both of them your husband specially...i know the characteristec of Filipina they are very sweet and they are taking good care of thier loveones...maybe your husband is looking for this attention...since you are not here he needs wife to take care of him...divorced in not the reason if you do your best to save your marriage much better or you come to doha to do your obligation as wife...talk to him in a way ry to undertand him accept his mistakes and forget...start a new day your life...thats all...
i am legally married to this man and have been for over ten years, we have been together for over 16yrs and we have two children..yes i do know who she is i have her address and telephone numbers (she refuses to answer suprise!!) i have spoken to my husband he denies it (of course) i have seen photo of them together(and yes i know its not proof) and i have seen the e-mails from her to him i e-mailed her from his e-mail add, asked her to call me and she did..hence i got her number and have since tried calling her she answered once saying'i am sorry i made a mistake...which i accept .....but i want the situation resolved i want him to return to the uk and explain and stay in uk or get divorced...thanks for your comments........i was happily married, i have been a good, loving and loyal wife.i do not want to hurt anyone or cause trouble i am a good person but i will not allow myself to be treated like this
MODS, are you guys sleeping???
Philipino ladies are mostely problem in Qatar. Same case happened for my friend here in Qatar. It was also a Philipino lady. They want to sale their flesh for any thing, even for an ice cream..."Bad begs"
troll???
he is a married man...if he wants to sleep around he should be divorced
Nomad - Oh hell yeah.. let 'em..cant delete their posts anyway..:p
Well PS if you noticed someone already did..
Let these poor guys have some fun.
Nomad - No need for bashing.. People can state their opinions based on their experiences.. They won't say anything w/o basis for sure.
Its bashing time again :-(
No offense intended. please...you are out of context. Please do read again the post of carla0067. For all -> just a friendly reminder -->> in the future..let us make an appropriate comments. Please do watch out for our actions and written words as it will reflect our personality. Let us be reminded that most of us are ex pat here working for our family...and in the end our past actions or comments here in QL might affect our work status. Qatar is now our second home...let us make it a better place to live. And QL can be considered as the best access of having instant access to enormous informations and can be a tool for learning process too - just get the best out of it. Good day everyone.
For carla0067, please talk first to your husband. Proper communication is one of the basic and important foundation of any relationship...more importantly in a married life. Discuss and directly ask him. After that...whatever the outcome, from there you can make your next actions. Also don't forget to ask for His guidance as it is during our darkest moments in our life wherein proper guidance from Our Almighty is the most accessible and reliable. Best of luck.
try to get the number of this filipina maybe i can teach her a lesson to stay away from ur husband....chow...
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Thanks I think you're right,
I have to go out and run some errands. How many times have we heard of this scenario??? *rolls eyes*
Good luck to the wife
Hahahah….so cheap again, I don’t think she was looking for a ‘HALA’ this time, could be a passport + some fast food meals lol
Mam! Just make sure, your hubby won’t make her preggy …lol
In this case,I dunno if CID is really taking an action. There are many people who are living together here without being married. You are the legal wife, u have the rights to slap the mistress and take ur stolen place..
Exactly what tinker says - oh no not again. That scenario is very common here - sadly. I don't see how involving CID will help. It is your choice either divorce him or come over here, kick her out of the house and live with him.
We haven't yet heard from Carla just yet!
Being in a boring place is not an excuse to cheat on your wife..
If you have a strong evidence then rock on and do what u can do.. after that,it's all up to u whether u can still accept and trust ur husband.. u can find a good man for u. There's many fish in the sea,keep fishing if he can't treat u right.
Stay if u'r happy,leave if u'r not.. Be brave.
What does "Qatar is a boring place " has to do with adultery? FYI, It happens everywhere.
Who informed you that? Carla, make sure that your information is true and your source is reliable otherwise its just pure allegation or rumor. If you then have a strong,valid and factual evidence you may report it with the CID here or ask your source to report it here. They both will be facing jail sentence and deportation if proven guilty.
Better yet file for a divorce and find yourself a good man.
All the best.
Let him learn his lesson.. He will have his time one day..
it is illegal to stay with someone unless she is his relative and u can file a case against him, but be sure before doing anything
Just keep quiet and wait until your husband will realised that he loves you more than his other woman...be patient.
troll.
Doha Knight - Thanks for the clarification.
first,do you have a strong evidence to prove all those allegations?second you are legally married madam?you should make documented before make an action...im so sory to hear your story ma'am....my advice to you is that please talk to your husband in a nice way...ask him what's going on?you remind him about your marriage,your kids and the days your happy moments.especially the day you meet and during your wedding day,for sure he will realized and value all those things.lastly,you pray to our Almighty God,,,,im hoping that you will surpass those trouble,,,its just a matter of trial in your family.after this storm for sure your family will become stronger and happily ever after...God bless...............................
Nomad, Qatar penal code doesn't call for lashings for non-muslims. I understand, the OP's hubby is not a muslim. If he is reported against and then proved, he may face a jail term of 6 months to 1 year and then deported to his home country. This will happen to the lady as well.
yeah i agree.. this is a booring place.. and i cant be certain and hope i wont do the same.. May GOd help me endure for the next 9 months..madam try to talk to your husband.. i just hope he told that filipina hes married and dint fall in love with her.. that he does it for sxual fulfiment.. i hope that lady too does the same and smart enough to do it for cash..what bad is that, if your husban lied hes single and thier both in love.. then madam its your call..
Talk to your husband, yeah they are right, Qatar is a boring place to be, where else can you go but to the booming Qatar!Anyways, you should know better how your husband will react once you tell him the truth, and better yet talk to him. If you have children/child better yet to talk to him, and try to work out.Once you report this to the police, both of them will be either jailed or a law suit will be filed against both of them, so I think talk to him first.Always, never forget to ask help from God, He hears you.
They will be deported for sure but this reaction of yours might affect your relationship with him as well. Why don't you try to speak to him letting him know that you are aware of what is going on in Qatar. Ask him to stop living with the filipina, else you will also look for someone locally to live with. If he doesn't distance himself from her as a result, simply means he doesn't love you. That is the time you need to decide whether you want to continue with the 'loveless' marriage or find happiness elsewhere. You can't keep him away from such flicks if he has such a 'volatile' character, especially when he is living away from you.
u know what a wife did in India??...she cut off his genital while sleeping...:D...tats the best revenge you can do..:)
its all about potential buyers in Qatar, the less U pay, the worse U get, the more U pay, the best U get.
So Carla are we going to hear from you or are you a 'Troll'?
he deserve what u did
its not excuse for him.
Give him a break lady, its a boring place.
If you or anyone reports them to the police or CID yes they can get deported but not before they are lashed and jailed.