looool bladrickgogs! u got hit on ..... i almost got raped !like show me ur this n that looool!'n i'm like no no no not before topped up my phone connection for me loool but then again , fellas let me remind u these teen yrs (( let him without sin cast the first rock / : ))
ok you chat and excange pms here on this forum too but again its all depends who you are chating to and what you are chating about and if you are hiding or 'DELETING' your pms or chating history in case wife sees it then it is big time immoral.
Rule number 1 'n this is for the women (( don't ever trust any man on any social chattin/forums or whatever sites they'rall wolves in sheeps clothing *_*!I one time ( this was back in high school days ) made a gurly lookin ID on one of these so called social sites 'n my email box was filled with friendship request in just 2 days lol!. some went as far as tellin me they were crazy in love with me ( /: i just finished addin the freakin guy 'n he is already in love with me) looool! 'n then i started blackmilin loool! charge my phone for me 'n i'll send u my pic naked!!! the magical word (((( NAKED)))).aaah those were the times! (:
I'm married and I am chatting online, and I assume most of the men on QL are married.Do you mean secretly without his wife knowing? If so, I would say that if he has to hide his activities from his wife, then what he is doing is probably immoral.
nice topic : if im married for me its okay but it depends, friendly chat its fine but he should inform me atleast....no hidden agenda =) i agree with mystiq >>>( "Just because your married doesnt mean you cant have friends.")
in fact the married man should have enough time for his family and not his chatting friends, so if he fulfilled his obligations towards his family he can have a break and chat.
we can also use this forum as example, it is slightly different from chatting with other man or woman, but we are exchanging messages. So it really depends on the topic.
Fatimah ..thanks and I understand and agree. However, I was looking for an answer for this statement:
"So why you chat to other woman when you have your own wife at home or would you like your wife chat to other men?"
Here even without knowing the details the judegement seems to have been passed that whoever is chatting is doing it with wrong intentions (and thats why was looking for the understanding of that word)...something like a generalisation... which IMO is not correct. People with such mindsets not only spoil there own relationships but also of some gullible who come in their contact.
Depending of cos on what the subject is. Like if the husband in question was chatting with a woman online as to when they can meet up for a romantic renzvous then that is clearly not right...er..well to me at least!
Still confused whats wrong in a married man chatting with women who are neither his wife, mother, sister or any one related but someone completely unrelated???
**still looking for the understanding of the word 'chatting'***
My husband chats to women all the time....they just happen to be his mom and sisters though, and occasionally my mom too! As you can see its not chatting to women per se that's questionable for married men but whom they are chatting to and what they are chatting about!
Can somebody explain me the inherent understanding of chatting?? as I am feeling that in a married relationship it is something to be seriously frowned upon or ridiculed when done by either the wife or the husband...
i dont think so its appropiate to chat with other girls / women just for fun... if the purpose is different than this then maybe it has no harm. but ideally, wife should be husband's best friend, and husband should be wife's best friend.
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at the first instance why did he need to chat. probably you dont give him time to sit and talk with him..
absolutely ok, as long he do not cheat you ... keep watching
looool bladrickgogs! u got hit on ..... i almost got raped !like show me ur this n that looool!'n i'm like no no no not before topped up my phone connection for me loool but then again , fellas let me remind u these teen yrs (( let him without sin cast the first rock / : ))
very true there is very thin line
ok you chat and excange pms here on this forum too but again its all depends who you are chating to and what you are chating about and if you are hiding or 'DELETING' your pms or chating history in case wife sees it then it is big time immoral.
a thin line between chatting and cheating.. As long as it is harmless; I wouldnt bother too much!!
GP - I made a fake girly IMVU account and got hit on after 3 minutes!
Rule number 1 'n this is for the women (( don't ever trust any man on any social chattin/forums or whatever sites they'rall wolves in sheeps clothing *_*!I one time ( this was back in high school days ) made a gurly lookin ID on one of these so called social sites 'n my email box was filled with friendship request in just 2 days lol!. some went as far as tellin me they were crazy in love with me ( /: i just finished addin the freakin guy 'n he is already in love with me) looool! 'n then i started blackmilin loool! charge my phone for me 'n i'll send u my pic naked!!! the magical word (((( NAKED)))).aaah those were the times! (:
I'm married and I am chatting online, and I assume most of the men on QL are married.Do you mean secretly without his wife knowing? If so, I would say that if he has to hide his activities from his wife, then what he is doing is probably immoral.
nice topic : if im married for me its okay but it depends, friendly chat its fine but he should inform me atleast....no hidden agenda =) i agree with mystiq >>>( "Just because your married doesnt mean you cant have friends.")
in fact the married man should have enough time for his family and not his chatting friends, so if he fulfilled his obligations towards his family he can have a break and chat.
we can also use this forum as example, it is slightly different from chatting with other man or woman, but we are exchanging messages. So it really depends on the topic.
I dont see any harm in it, if it's just friendly chat. Just because your married doesnt mean you cant have friends.
it may lead to something else so it is not preferred for the weak believers in God.
Fatimah ..thanks and I understand and agree. However, I was looking for an answer for this statement:
"So why you chat to other woman when you have your own wife at home or would you like your wife chat to other men?"
Here even without knowing the details the judegement seems to have been passed that whoever is chatting is doing it with wrong intentions (and thats why was looking for the understanding of that word)...something like a generalisation... which IMO is not correct. People with such mindsets not only spoil there own relationships but also of some gullible who come in their contact.
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Depending of cos on what the subject is. Like if the husband in question was chatting with a woman online as to when they can meet up for a romantic renzvous then that is clearly not right...er..well to me at least!
it's ok to chat between man and woman as long as in the good and right way..not to cheat each other's spouse. Sometimes it help...
Still confused whats wrong in a married man chatting with women who are neither his wife, mother, sister or any one related but someone completely unrelated???
**still looking for the understanding of the word 'chatting'***
My husband chats to women all the time....they just happen to be his mom and sisters though, and occasionally my mom too! As you can see its not chatting to women per se that's questionable for married men but whom they are chatting to and what they are chatting about!
Can somebody explain me the inherent understanding of chatting?? as I am feeling that in a married relationship it is something to be seriously frowned upon or ridiculed when done by either the wife or the husband...
i dont think so its appropiate to chat with other girls / women just for fun... if the purpose is different than this then maybe it has no harm. but ideally, wife should be husband's best friend, and husband should be wife's best friend.
Or i'm in trouble...
chat to other woman when you have your own wife at home or would you like your wife chat to other men?
i guess the problem is "some" girls doesn't like to see their husband chatting with other girls.
if a woman is chatting to a man it is ok,but not the opposite !
What is the problem???
Its absolutely OK !depends upon on wat subject they are chating and also if both the parties agree ?
i like the advice of Drake... and always keep your protection updated.. check for expiration...
i guess there's nothing wrong with it as long as it's casual... try chatting with me so you'll know... lolz...
Ah her hubby must be chatting online. Who is he chatting to?
Be careful with internet viruses!You can get infected! Always use protection..(firewall)..:P
oh sorry, you are a woman. why did you ask about men?
You beat me to it clownfish. Ya, who are you chatting to?
depends on the intension and who is your chatting with? hmmm... i guess she is not your wife...