can't you see i'm hurt..period!

things like this are usually matters of the heart...

PEOPLE ALL CHANGE because they are RE-creating themselves and trying to RE-MEMBER who they really are...

everything ALWAYS happens for a reason but it will always be for the better.

The people we meet affect our life. The successes and downfalls that we experience can create who we are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts us, betrays us or breaks our heart, forgive them because they have helped us learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom we open our heart.

It is silly when they say: "I will get through coz I am tough"... Like if there is any other option...like "not to get through"? ... Then what? Stuck forever? To die? Lol...

DP

QL today is 22nd and May and the world has not ended! wohoo..:)

QL is going through one of those moods now :(

Plus todays is 21st May..Guess for you must feel that your world has ended today! :(

Yes it comes as a shock like Tsunami when some really shows you there true colours and their nastiness come to the surface. I just feel pity for those kind of people

up above the world so high..like a diamond in the sky..

Hee hee hee Ho Ho Ho!

Hahahahahahaha!!!

Tinkle-tinkle little starrrrr..LMAO

and then Tinklerbell comes...

I just realised .. DaRuDe has a farm .. and on his farm he has a Cam-mel.. Eee-eye-eee-eye-ooor

dracula ill watch later when i got home..my speaker here in the office (i believe) is disable..tfs

That put a smile on my face Drac

Baarrrrrriliant :o)

For all broken hearts out here:

They made a song ?

can i sue them ?

haha..that will be great..seriously, pm me guys if we're going to do it..me thinks need a breather..

tinker and timebandit, can i join you for the monopoly game while we're having coffee at the same time?that would be great since i'm a certified self-confessed coffee addict..

wanna join us britey?

Go on now go.... walk out the door, cos your not welcome any more.

Yeah the anger always comes after the pain!

It does, but there are lots of creams available nowdays :o(

anyway, when my Cuban Shotputter left for havana, I was

was afraid, I was petrified. Kept thinkin' I could never live without her by my side.

But then I spent so many nights thinkin' how she did me wrong. And I grew strong and I learned how to get along.

It took all the strength I had not to fall apart

Kept tryin' hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart

And I spent, oh, so many nights just feeling sorry for myself.

I used to cry, but now I hold my head up high

I've got all my life to live and I've got all my love to give.

And I'll survive, I will survive, yeah, I'll survive

I think it's SS that needs the coffee Tinks. But thank you anyway. Don't worry we will catch up soon enough, Monopoly is still on the agenda ;)

Love hurts

tinker, what i did yesterday is i do a total make over of myself and i did felt good after that..seeing myself in the mirror with the new aura (though still with sad eyes) makes me feel great..i agree with you that i have to divert my attention into something better than wallow and cried over spilled milk..i have to convince myself that things happened differently despite we don't want unwanted changes in our lives..it's so hard..indeed..but life has to go on for me and i have to move on..i think i just need to a break and think things over..

dwarfina,i know we will get through..**a warm comfort hug from me to you**

reading this thread is really not helping me...:( because it just aggravates my feeling of being hurt also...but i know in time we will be ok...just hang on...

oh tinker..thanks really..i'm crying right now just reading your comments here..it's hard to work when you're preoccupied with lots of things..i felt so much pain right now because the people who i consider "important ad precious" are the same people who will hurt me..it's so hard to cope and just shrug the thing off my mind..

thanks alot girl..i was so appease with that..is like you gave me a very warm and comforting hug..it's so hard to find real people in this world right now..even friends that you expect to be there and pull you up is the same person who will pull you way down..and even those people you care about and you thought he/she care about you as well that you never thought will hurt are the ones who will really hurt you..maybe i'm still immature and easily to trust that's why i'm always fooled..

thanks qlers for being there..sharing your opinion in this matters..i never thought that time will come i'll be the one to ask for pieces of advice here in this forum..i know i'll get through..i'm tough..yeah i'm tough..

you will be fine, sure it hurts right now but just think that you will be over it soon. you deserve to be happy live evryone dose and when your not looking for it you will find the man of your dreams who loves and respect you for who you are. be sad if you want to, cry, break somthing. it will all be over soon x

(Deleted) tad too much xoxoxoxo

xoxoxox

You did not embarrass me. Thanks for being honest..

That was a bit too honest of me for sure. I did not mean to embarrass you but you did ask the question as to why I was so glib!

Strawberry - there is worse love.

You've obviously not been hurt. Your heart torn out and crushed, so that you cannot eat, sleep ot think straight. The cramps in the stomach and the feeling of being lost and alone in this vast wide world :o(

Grow up - this is called life.

1st: If I Say T0 You Jump Down, Will You Do?

2nd: Yes, I Will

1st: Why?

2nd: Because I Know You Will Catch My Hand And Pull Me Up

...1st: If I Dont Then?

2nd: Then I ll Die With The Belief That My Friend Tried His Best But Could Not Save Me..! Friendship Is Not About Doing Something But About Believing Some One.

Is he the same guy you were talking about a month back??

Here's a hug ((((()))))).

Dear Friend,

First of all the biggest things every women fail to understand is one basic point in realtionship is understanding and intellegence......

If some one taks sweet it mena he like you..That wrong..If some one help you he care for you taht wrong..But when some one share family background, share thos persoanl talk about family, introduce you to his family it mena that person is really interest in you and would like to move ahaead in life...

Secondly when it is expirates that chance of getting hurt is 99% higher. and 1% are real..

Forgot everything and move ahaead...Think This way that person is not liable for your honesty, caring, smiling, and loyalty. This time never make ssame mistake what you made with this person.

Say cheers and socialise and be family member and friends , this shall reduce your pain and also help you to think in better way..

So Say Cheers and move ahead.

period? it's ok, it will be over soon.. but if it hurts, go to see a doctor..

anyway.. without opening profile.. let me guess.. filipina?

thanks alot..how i wish that a cup of ice cream will take away the pain i have inside.... :'(

i'm still wishing that after the "exploring" thing he'll be back in his "old self"..why guyz are guys like that????

yeah..sometimes we have to doubt in order not to be fooled because even friends will hurt you..the worst things is that after you have trusted them..they are the ones who will betray you in the end...

i'm soo confused because he gives me mixed signals..he said he like me but now things had change like it's whirlwind..i know i don't have to expect alot because the more we expect the more we hurt..anyhow, im glad that you guyz responded to my woes..i'm sooooo hurt..badly hurt as hell..maybe in God's time i'll be okay and move on..

I feel ya..I really do. Just remember that human's are human's. One day someone hurts us by their actions the next we might hurt another by ours. Be glad to be the former than the perpetrator and be cool. try to give your friend's actions a better meaning "maybe he/she is stressed" "maybe he/she is in a quandary and confused" "maybe unknowingly you did something that irked him/her"(this is a big possibility, many times) anything is possible..Hope all turns better for you!

Strawberry shisha, my prayers are with you,

Have an ice-cream, enjoy the present

"If someone judges or ridicules you, then he/she is not a friend"

Then"god" is no friend

It's like married people. It's not because a person married you, he/she will like you forever. Maybe he's just exploring for something new and if this change is for the better then let him. If it's for you, he will bew there for you.

If someone judges or ridicules you, then he/she is not a friend.

If someone judges or ridicules you, then he/she is not a friend.

thanks ignoramusfools..

Reality check ma'am, welcome to world so called life! Life is full of trickery and mystery.We as individuals have different characters, don't expect someone to have the same character as you. Life is short try to be happy everyday.

Read desiderata link below.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,

it is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

http://www.inspirational-short-stories.com/desiderata-poem.html

:'( i'm soooo sooo hurt brit..can't even concentrate in what i'm doing right now..anyway..i'm just hoping that this feeling will be gone by the desert wind..

angelo,im talking about special someone here..though i know that we are just "friends" but we both know that we like each other but suddenly he change..im so clueless..man are harder to understand than women :'(

I'm sure its a pretty chest - so please don't let it explode.. :o)

People can be cruel and nasty - just look at QL. the best thing is to look at the positives. At least you saw the real them. If you need to talk, I can ask Rizks (our resident agony person) to pop round for a coffee..

Cheer up!

Strawberry Shisha, give your Friend some time.

Everyone has their ups and downs. Everyone has their own problems. Your friend may have some problem, given them a day or two to come back to normal and give them your shoulder, that will also make you a better friend.

Peace

People with hidden agendas are always a pain to deal with.