My Boss does not let me to marry My foreign GF who is canceled cos of me!?
Hey guys;
My gf is canceled from QAirways so i sent her to my parent`s house to comfort herself...
Now i wanna marry but my boss unbelievably doesnt want that marriage....No reason...
He says if i wanna marry i can but it may cause me to loose my job!!!!!
Since it is the only way to take her back here....
I M LOOSING MY MIND AND HOPE..........
PLEASE WRITE SOMETHING!
try to get married in philippines and ask her to change her passport using ur surname and she can come back here under tourist visa without the need of NOC since system wise it'll be new details. if ur eligible to acquire family visa status, same way u'll be needing letter from your company which as per you, boss is not approve. if she will look for new job and working visa, same way NOC might be needed coz in finger printing, old details will show. so even she come here, without that letter, she won't be able to stay.
there's a lot of way and options but you just really need to seek help to right people.
good luck!
try to get married in philippines and ask her to change her passport using ur surname and she can come back here under tourist visa without the need of NOC since system wise it'll be new details. if ur eligible to acquire family visa status, same way u'll be needing letter from your company which as per you, boss is not approve. if she will look for new job and working visa, same way NOC might be needed coz in finger printing, old details will show. so even she come here, without that letter, she won't be able to stay.
there's a lot of way and options but you just really need to seek help to right people.
good luck!
marry her man, u should never allow ur boss to be involved in matters such as this one
go to hell with noc and the boss!!!!!if u love her, marry her,
Destroy his bloody company.... in a way he will have to pay for all of it....
Maybe ur boss doesnt want to give u the family status in the company ,because he has to pay u additional housing allowance and family tickets, Its a possibility.. right???
From your post over and over again, you seems so desperate, missing her, perhaps.
If you really do love her and as many have advised you to marry her back home, then you may do that.
No one can't stop you to pursue your dream,.
You should think clear and ask yourself if it is really love or just lust, prior taking a big step in your life.
I don't want to judge, yet I do believe that:
- Love is not the reason to make someone to convert to other religion
- A good lady shall stay with her family, before marriage, not the man' family. (Why doesn't she go back home and you can ask her hand from her parent nicely)
- Things happened for a reason.
On the end, it's your call, dear..
People advised you this and that, and you don't seem satisfied enough. Never take any decision when you are angry or confused.
Good luck.
I dont even wanna think like that but the reason can be; she is from philippines and i m from turkey....
i know it s racism...but i said maybe....
I dont even wanna think like that but the reason can be; she is from philippines and i m from turkey....
i know it s racism...but i said maybe....
i ll tell u what is fishy...
The LAW s soooo fishy....
If your company doesnt want then u cant get marry....
PS: i told him; i dont need extra money for anything; i just need that NOC paper....
does your boss sign off on employee letters (including spousal sponsorship?)
Why would you tell him anyways WHO you want to marry? That seems to have been the first problem here.
There seems to be more to this than his objection to the person in question.
Johnson566 is right,it seems there is fishy >>>>> Anyhow for me i will chose the one i love.bcz i can find job and better job anytime ,however its hard to find the right person to be with....
Good Luck and dont let anyone in life interfere your life who ever he is......
Again Good luck
make sure ur Boss is not loving her !!!
lia06, can u believe that the LAW says; u need to have NOC if u wanna marry and take her here....
so if ur boss doesnt like the girl or the idea then u cant get marry...
So sad but it is d truth! :/
She even accepted to marry a stranger ; just to be able to come back to me!!!
what s that law; omg!
lia06, can u believe that the LAW says; u need to have NOC if u wanna marry and take her here....
so if ur boss doesnt like the girl or the idea then u cant get marry...
So sad but it is d truth! :/
She even accepted to marry a stranger ; just to be able to come back to me!!!
what s that law; omg!
she is in tr right now...
and i m here....
my hands r tied!!!
she even wanna convert her religion; to islam...but my boss seems so heartless.....
what will i do?!?!????
I don't quite understand why someone marriage lays in Boss' hand.It's your life, thus you are the one who shall decide.
If I am mistaken, then you should elaborate your concern more, why he is involving with your personal matter.
you choose money or flesh?