How to grow old...
PONCE, Puerto Rico: Emilio Navarro swivels his hips several times, then bends down to touch his toes.
Not bad for someone who's 104 years old. He doesn't need a cane to get about and is known to go out dancing now and then.
He doesn't use glasses, either."And I don't have many wrinkles," he says in Spanish. He smiles, then allows in English: "Just a little bit."
But the former professional baseball player isn't being honored for his spryness. He is being honored as America's Outstanding Oldest Male Worker for 2010 — Navarro still keeps the books and controls the finances at the game machine business he started.
Navarro, believed to be the last surviving player of the Negro American League, was chosen for the honor over dozens of candidates nominated in 30 U.S. states by Experience Works, the United States' largest nonprofit training center for older workers.
Navarro, known affectionately as "Millito," began working at age 12. He cleaned shoes, sold newspapers and hawked "dulce de coco," a popular coconut treat in Puerto Rico, to help his mother financially.
"She didn't know how to read or write," he said.
He didn't particularly enjoy those jobs, but eventually his passion — baseball — gave him a living.
At 17, the 5-foot-5 Navarro signed with the Ponce Lions in Puerto Rico and went on to play for the New York Cuban Stars in one of the black leagues in the U.S. He later played in the Dominican Republic and in Venezuela.
Navarro then worked as a coach and athletic teacher at schools in Ponce and Caguas. He also managed a baseball stadium in Ponce for 10 years — the job that proved his least favorite.
"To be in that place and not be able to play ..." he said, his voice trailing off. "I didn't like it."
Navarro later opened the game machine business, Shuffle Alley, which his sons now run. But Navarro still works, keeping the books in order and making financial decisions.
"My sons work for me now," he said with a laugh, pretending to rake in cash with his hands. "I count it and I divide it into equal parts. And there's a little bit for Millito, too."
Navarro does not have any secrets to staying young. He just follows two rules: Help those who need it and show respect to everyone.
"That is very important," he said.
One of his sons, Eric Navarro, 61, cleared his throat. "Love God above all things," he reminded his father with a smile.
"Ah, yes," the elder Navarro responded.
As a guilty pleasure, Navarro enjoys a bit of whiskey now and then.
During a recent public appearance, Navarro stood for almost two hours while he posed for pictures with fans. Finally, he sat down exhausted and asked Jose Bibiloni, a coordinator with Experience Works, for a little whiskey.
Bibiloni brought water instead. "Did I ask for this? I didn't ask for this," Bibiloni recalled him saying.
Navarro lives alone in the house that he built for his family in the late 1950s. His wife died more than two decades ago at age 62 from breast cancer, and Navarro's sons sometimes mention the benefits of a nursing home.
"He makes a face and we leave," Eric Navarro said. "He defends his privacy."
Lillian Ruiz cooks for Navarro every day and cleans the house, arriving at 8 a.m. and leaving by 2 p.m.
"He likes to be alone," she said. "He is very clean. He tidies his room every day."
Navarro likes to sit on the balcony and sometimes asks Ruiz to bring a couple of $1 bills, which he floats down to a pleading homeless person below.
He also likes to dance and favors blondes if he goes out in search of some danzon, a Cuban dance that incorporates mambo.
Navarro, whose 105th birthday is September 26, got a pacemaker 15 years ago and has had new ones put in at least twice, his son said. He has high blood pressure, yet he doesn't need glasses and walks easily.
"Dad is an exception," his son said. "He has stretched the bubble gum."
Thank you drmana, appreciate it :)
He he he, sure WK....you certainly are and I am ready to certify for that.
But my best wishes whether you choose to stay here or get yourself a life partner soon :-)
drmana I am a weirdo :)
Atleast that gives me one advantage, nobody can judge me correctly, they will always be wrong. Huahahahaha (Evil laugh) :)
WK means Weirdknight.. :))
Weird WK....no doubt at all :-)
lol.. Yah, really weird.. Ehh..
drmana I don't want to leave Qatar now. It's a weird situation, just like me :)
Lol WK, it must be an easy choice.....leave Qatar and live happily ever after :-)))
drmana I am not sure about marriage yet but ya that's a possibility depending on what course my life takes over the next few months. If I decide to leave Qatar, ya marriage is imminent, if I decide to stick around here, it is not on the horizon.
WK, there's never too late.. :)
You already start changing??
WK, talking about leaving your bachelorhood? Ready to eat "Shaadi ka ladoo" :-))
Working till the age of 104years, Ah! I won't survive even half of it and I am sure about that.
yes Visper. I think for the better and I hope not too late.
He should avail his privilege card,because very few are getting there....
WK you change??!! No!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :((
tinkerbell nobody can bring a change in you, it has to come from within.
he or she is able to do her daily routine activities on their own and also as long as they can see and hear properly,before they start depending on others as it is really very painfull to see old people who are unable to know whats happening and not able to control their bladers,and people atending on them start abusing and cursing them why you are still alive
What change are we talking now?
I thought WK's always been philosophical..
People change tinkerbell and so did I :)
I am all philosophy now :)
lol
Hope our wonderful men will not react in that.. :))
Esp WK..
WK, denial.. :))
Tinkerbell, i know we are right in this.. Even if he deny it..
C'mon WK, no need to hide it.. We totally understand.. :D
LOL, naughty girls. Grrrrrr I was talking philosophically and you dragged me into this :(
So no need to say anything WK.. We already know.. :)
Jeez women, I have just taken a vow of celibacy :(
He is talking about the physical difficulties he will suffer esp the...... :D
Something that can't be spoken about, just waited for :'(
Visper I hope I don't have to wait 5 years :(
P.S.- I am not talking about death :P
WK will wait 5 years more.. :))
WK wait until u get 60 - 65 and tell the same :)
I agree with WK...beyond 60 -65 would be a punishment :(
tinkerbell indeed :)
I will go insane if I had to live till 104 in this world, 60-65 is as old as I want to be.