Am i over reacting

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There are good people in this world, and they are not ONLY Muslims, you know. Geez.(last comments by alexa when she left Qiving)

Go take a sleeping pill and get a good nights sleep

but one thing ur profile gender says u r male then h can ur fiance be HE :s confused

yes u r he needs ur help instead of thinking about talking u pray for him :) he is already in pain n thinking about fight between u 2 he will have more tension

glad to hear everythings ok;-)

its allright snezzy.and thanks fragile.thanks everybody for all ur support without u all i would have broken.thanks once again

may Allah bless u all

Naye dost banane ki aadat hain hume, Apni alag pehchan banane ke aadat hain hume,Chahe koi kitna bhi zakhm de, Phir bhi muskurane ke aadat hain hume

GOD bless u ishutanu :)

ishutanu, that's really good news that he is ok, to be honest, some of us were quite rude to you too, sorry :-(

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hi friends,

i would like to inform u all ki my fiance is fine now apollo doctor scaired him that its appendix. he was in hamad yesterday and they said its just because of food poisoning.now he is at home taking rest.thanks a lot all of u for ur replies and prayers.SORRY for bieng rude.THANKS A LOT ONCE AGAIN.

jazakallah bi antum bi khair

I used to pretend I am sick and switch my cell phone off when I had other dates lined up while i was with my ex. Took a lot of effort tho.

Why don't you role play with him and pretend you are a stranger ( tina or alexandra usually works ) or a nurse who wants to check up on him. Buy a plastic nursing kit from Ramez on salwa road ( 25 qatari riyals ) and text him with an appointment detail.

Soon when he gets better, he'll show up. Have your kit on and give him a prostate test (most men excluding me enjoy it) and then handcuff him and drop hot wax on his scrotum before you guys have a naked tea party with few friends...

this is my advice.. take it or leave it.

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Best thing to do is to give your support emotionally...don't try to initiate fights. If his mobile is off, send "get well soon" messages or "please call me when you need a shoulder to rest on",etc... And when he'll finally allow you to see him, stay calm and don't over react!!!

...listen to the sound of silence....

by the way .. ishutanu .. if you are female why is your gender MALE in QL :P

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yes of course you are over reacting.. just relax. and everything will be fine

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yes, indeed you are!

Hmm i wonder why turned off his cellphone?

no inshantu, its not easy at all, and i really feel for you, but given the circumstances, theres no other option. You have to wait until hes ready to talk to you.Hes rejecting your calls, and personlly no matter how much i loved someone, if the feelings not mutual, or in this case hes just not responding to you at all, i would just stop. You cant force someone to do something they dont want to do. Nor can you drive yourself crazy by calling him all the time. Anyway good luck with it all and im sorry that hes doing this to you.

Actually Fiance dont behave like this..BFs may be..Every girl thinks she loves her guy like psycho or crazy..but she should not lose her dignity..no matter since how long you are in love with him..if he doesnt respect you or cut the line at ur face..u should learn a nice lesson not to lose ur self respect..dont be like a burden on him..loving someone is not bad ..but getting mad to such extent that you lose your respect is not good..

cheers

do u think itz easy just to stop talking to a person whom u love from 5yrs and u cant live with out him.i dont know about others but i really love him a lot i can do anything for him.my prblem is i guess im a physcho lover.i cant explain how much i love him he is everything for me whether its his or my mistake iam the one to say sorry so do u think i can stop talking to him 100times he cut my call i still call him just to hear his voice he should be like that but im completely opposite i dont care about anything for him.in this situation do u think i can ever think of stop talking to him no never i cant control myself.

Naye dost banane ki aadat hain hume, Apni alag pehchan banane ke aadat hain hume,Chahe koi kitna bhi zakhm de, Phir bhi muskurane ke aadat hain hume

Am i the only one here that sees this picture is not right? No your not over reacting, somethings not right here. Your his fiance for goodness sake and if hes shutting you out during his sickness then perhaps hes not so into you. This should be a time that brings you closer. If i was you, i would just back off, ignore him until hes ready to talk to you.

yousefmsh...i think he `ll never miss her :)

she can speaks urdu..lol..

give him a break , sometimes the pain comming from too mutch presure , and i think he is sick of u . try to be a way for a little time then he will miss u.

he is a male im female

Naye dost banane ki aadat hain hume, Apni alag pehchan banane ke aadat hain hume,Chahe koi kitna bhi zakhm de, Phir bhi muskurane ke aadat hain hume

IT'LL BE OK

VIKAS KAUSHIK

by d way...ur fiance is male or female ? ^_^

He is in pain..sometimes person who is sick(specially in pain) get irritated by extra care from close ones..try to visit him and try not to be too sticky..just show ur love ,care and make him comfortable..stomach pain is really bad ..if he is acting odd..he is right..dont get on his nerves..or irrtate him too much by calling him again and again..visit him at his home and try to relax him..

ishutanu, your finace is a male or female?

Ishutanu said its really not about call but the thing im helpless he is been visiting doctor for 3dys continiously.eating antibiotics but still persisting pain how will i sit and watch him strugle in pain.today again he went doc still sitting in hospital giving his urine blood xray eeverything

doc just scairing him it could be appendix and obviously if not u guys im scaired im very much scaired.im helpless cant go there cant do anything.i cant visit him."

Ishutanu, most probably you are acting emotional around him too so he's just trying to protect you and doesn't want you to worry, until there IS something to be really worried about. Guys tend to have problems dealing with emotional gals so just relax for a bit and take your mind off the problem temporarily. Pray or do something that'll help you detach for a while.

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why can't u visit him?

I may not be PERFECT

but PARTS of me are pretty AWESOME!

normal for you to react but,i was confused why your fiance is a male and your profile is also male,now i know that you are a female.

attention!!

The future belongs to those who prepare for it today.

Malcolm X

Give the guy a break. Don't keep breathing down his neck. Sometimes guys need their "me alone" time.

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I wasn't joking.. You are over-reacting... Appendix is no big deal, why should one be scared of that..

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its really not about call but the thing im helpless he is been visiting doctor for 3dys continiously.eating antibiotics but still persisting pain how will i sit and watch him strugle in pain.today again he went doc still sitting in hospital giving his urine blood xray eeverything

doc just scairing him it could be appendix and obviously if not u guys im scaired im very much scaired.im helpless cant go there cant do anything.i cant visit him.

im a lady due to useless pm's i had to change it to male plzzz dont reply if u want to joke arround.

give him some time alone and if he didn't call you after a week, month, or year..that means he just wants to gid rid of you!!

LOL BeeP you're right, food poisoning is common, perhaps HE is over reacting ;-)

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patience will get you through almost anything

the both of you

besides, food poisoning is common

Aim for the stars..

Reach the roof

Honey... stop over reacting... i'm havingt stomach pain not because of poison...

Egypt won African Cup.. i betted our dowry on the other team,....

lol....

What did not kill him ...made him stronger...see...

lol i♥pakistan... abbe i just gave a simple cure for his upset stomach, wat u guyz are poundering on me ? :)

this is what u take Rizk on a regular basis ..

no wonder, the bugs-love-you-hug-you wherever you go !

Why would you argue with him if he's ill? A little bit of support is what he needs right now. You can argue with him when he feels better, I don't blame him for switching off his phone.

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hahahahahaha, i laughed my A off... you a real d&%* head!!! lol!!!

you are just selfish!!

QS..I was about to say that...lol

have u tried givin him Pudin Hara, Hajmola or ENO ?

Might be he will be ok with it, or i think ur fiance wants to give you some sort of surpise as the Valentine Day is approaching near...??

Hav a Chill Pill,and no worries "AaL Izz WeLL"....:)

for me as a gurl, the situation will hit me on my nerve too.

he is ur fiance, u already committed together, and theres no good reasonable for him to ditch you like tht. im sure the guy love if the gurl pouring them with good attention specially when the one you love is sick, the attention he will got more than anything.

sure i can understand your position. if i were you i will go insaen notknowing wht happend to my fiance. i cant sleep well, think properly, and my emotion cant be control, i know tht very well.........

i didnt mean to say wht ur fiance doing is right, but at the end, just give him sometime alone, i know its not easy to do it........but try to make urself busy with something, or pray to god and wish all things get better with him. try ur best to be PATIENCE, even tough tht will b the stupid advice i can suggest you, but wht you can get it by being nervous all the time. tht will make u suffer and make u sick. try to hang out with your best friends, and have a talk with them. cos at this moment only close friends and family can comfort your feeling.......otherwise u might go insane for the next 2 days.

You are acting like a Psycho.. If I was your fiance, I would break up with you immediately.

**** Aal Izz Well****

hmm maybe you are..

oops, double post... sorry!

You are over-reacting... way too much!

i thought the sorcerers have been apprehended a few days back?...

seriously ishutanu...maybe he just needs a little time off?

for his healthy recovery ....

when one is suffering, the others have to be understanding !

How come you have a male fiance? Your profile says you are male yourself?

that was not at all funny and im really not joking ok

Wait! You are a male and you have a male fiance?

he thinks that you tried to poison him...

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Yes, you ARE over reacting. Stay composed, dont lose your nerves....and dont get on his nerves as well :-)

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