A Date with a Woman

mathboy
By mathboy

After 21 years of Marriage, my Wife wanted me to take another Woman out to Dinner and a Movie.

She said I Love You but I know this other Woman loves you and would Love to spend some Time with You.

The other Woman that my Wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a Widow for 19 years, but the demands of my Work and my three Children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to Invite her to go out for Dinner and a Movie.

'What's wrong, are you well,' she asked? My Mother is the type of Woman who suspects that a Late Night Call or a Surprise Invitation is a sign of Bad News. 'I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you,' I responded.
'Just the two of us.' She thought about it for a moment, and then said, 'I would like that very much.' That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit Nervous. When I arrived at her House, I noticed that she too seemed to be Nervous about our Date.

She waited in the Door with her Coat on. She had Curled her Hair and was wearing the Dress that she had worn to Celebrate her last Wedding Anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as Radiant as an Angel's. 'I told my Friends that I was going to go out with My Son, and they were impressed, ' She said, as she got into the Car.

'They can't wait to hear about our meeting'. We went to a Restaurant that, although not Elegant, was very Nice and Cozy. Mother took my Arm as if She were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the Menu. Large Print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me.

A Nostalgic Smile was on her Lips. 'It was I who used to have to Read the Menu when you were Small,'

She said. 'Then it's Time that you Relax and let me Return the Favor,' I responded. During the Dinner, we had an Agreeable Conversation, nothing Extra-ordinary,
but catching up on recent Events of each others Life. We talked so much that we missed the Movie. As we arrived at her House later, She said, 'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.' I agreed.

'How was your Dinner Date?' asked My Wife when I got Home. 'Very Nice. Much more so than I could have Imagined,' I answered.

A few days later, my Mother died of a Massive Heart Attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have Time to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an Envelope with a Copy of a Restaurant Receipt from the same place Mother and I had dined.

An Attached Note Said: 'I paid this Bill in Advance.

I wasn't sure that I could be there; But nevertheless, I paid for Two Plates“ One for You and the Other for Your Wife. You will never know what that Night meant for Me.
I Love You, My Son.'

At that moment, I understood the Importance of saying in Time:'I LOVE YOU!' and to give our Loved Ones the Time that they Deserve.

Nothing in Life is more important than your Family. Give them the Time they Deserve, because these Things cannot be Put Off till 'Some Other Time.'

By Texas_Ranger• 31 Jan 2010 10:47
Texas_Ranger

A really good story. The message is aptly conveyed although in the end the story became too melodramatic. However, a story worth sharing.

By snessy• 29 Jan 2010 09:49
snessy

Mathboy, you have excelled yourself once again, thanks for sharing :-)

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

By soniya• 29 Jan 2010 08:42
soniya

Yes,it gives me inner satisfaction as well when i do something for my parents..

By mathboy• 29 Jan 2010 06:47
mathboy

ifti75, Sorry to hear this. May Allah rest her soul in peace. You must have some wonderful memories of your beloved mother. Those will be the assets for your whole life.

By sonaam• 28 Jan 2010 20:44
Rating: 4/5
sonaam

old one but nice one

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सोनम दी नेपाली बाबु

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By ifti75• 28 Jan 2010 20:40
ifti75

Really wonderful, you have reminded my mother who passed away in 1980 when i was Just 4 year old and still I miss her a lot

By anonymous• 28 Jan 2010 18:48
anonymous

did she changed from she to he and also group affiliation? By no means, you are her, Khattak? Lol!!!

"I'm back, simple as that"

By KHATTAK• 28 Jan 2010 18:43
KHATTAK

I believe she is still here...usernames can be changed...not sarcastic nature ;)

----------------------------------------------------------------Give me some SunShine......Give me some Rain

Give me another Chance...I wanna grow up once Again

By anonymous• 28 Jan 2010 18:40
anonymous

I really miss her. I heard she is to tie the knot in the near future. I just love her when she post here in the forum! lol!!!

"I'm back, simple as that"

By KHATTAK• 28 Jan 2010 18:30
Rating: 2/5
KHATTAK

dms...no wonders...you are a member of "Sarcastics Anonymous Group".... :-)

----------------------------------------------------------------Give me some SunShine......Give me some Rain

Give me another Chance...I wanna grow up once Again

By anonymous• 28 Jan 2010 18:15
anonymous

"I'm back, simple as that"

By anonymous• 28 Jan 2010 18:14
anonymous

"I'm back, simple as that"

By Naseebfinder• 28 Jan 2010 18:12
Naseebfinder

jazak ALLAH anteeca bro and mathbro.

ALLAH Ap ki Umer daraz kare Ameeen.

By mathboy• 28 Jan 2010 18:02
mathboy

Ameen NF sis.

By mathboy• 28 Jan 2010 18:01
mathboy

soniya, I love my parents overwhelmingly. They are the most precious ones to me. I could not resist sharing this with others when I read the hearttouching story.

I was not too busy today. Also I thought to 'reinvent' myself on QL!

By anonymous• 28 Jan 2010 17:58
anonymous

I tell you the sign of a believer, when death comes, there is a smile on his lips(SIR. ELLAMA IQBAL)

.~*AnteecA*~.

By Naseebfinder• 28 Jan 2010 17:57
Naseebfinder

Mere ALLAH mere maan ke Umer draz kar, Ameeen.

By anonymous• 28 Jan 2010 17:46
anonymous

I tell you the sign of a believer, when death comes, there is a smile on his lips(SIR. ELLAMA IQBAL)

.~*AnteecA*~.

By soniya• 28 Jan 2010 17:42
soniya

mathboy, r u ok today?? u sound very low..even ur last post was same kindda...but neways, v love ur post..its nice one..

By marie_2• 28 Jan 2010 17:39
marie_2

another heartreaking story...

my heart is tired :)

...listen to the sound of silence....

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