Attention please!!

Formatted Soul
By Formatted Soul

Some adults strive for attention and pay any price just to get it. Those attention seeking adults may do inappropriate things like lying just to get the attention or they may engage in a more constructive behavior like striving for success and recognition. Not all attention seekers are doing so because of a personal disorder but if the person started to sacrifice some of his values for the sake of attention then its probably the result of an under laying disorder.
Sometimes adult seek attention because of jealousy. When someone finds himself threatened by another person who is drawing all the attention of others he may counter back with attention seeking behavior. Lack of self worth can be another cause for attention seeking behavior, some people think that they are overlooked and so the only solution to restore their balance is to bring back the lost attention. The attention in this case will provide them with reassurance and will act as proof to them that they are worthy.
Lots of people advice to ignore attention seekers, however, the correct way to deal with them is to understand the problem behind their behavior and then work towards helping them instead of ignoring them.

Source: Know yourself

Note : This thread has no direct or indirect relation with any live or dead Charecters on QL. If you find any similarity it is just a coincidence.:)

By soniya• 25 Jan 2010 11:09
soniya

This thread is going nowhere now..It has lost its main intentions..isn't it??

By anthoworx• 25 Jan 2010 11:06
anthoworx

am i late.. ??? bit busy today but will be on and off.. coz addicted to QL now... by the way why r u justifying on the thread or is it as you have said in the post Lots of people advice to ignore attention seekers, however, the correct way to deal with them is to understand the problem behind their behavior and then work towards helping them instead of ignoring them.

ha ha ha i guess u should leave it the way it goes.. dont u know its just smoke and no fire....

Cheers

~ AK ~

By Formatted Soul• 25 Jan 2010 10:09
Formatted Soul

Jon..he is not gay, but I think he is lesbi...lol

Excuse me lemme remind you...this is a thread for Attnetion seekers...

and not for homos..lol

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 10:08
DaRuDe

Biggest homo fan now quiet am trying to seek some gay attention.

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 10:07
DaRuDe

have to live up to standard of Rude.

and yes i am a Gay. are you free tonight :D

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 10:00
DaRuDe

if she is but FS and QF are here you can smack them on the table

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:57
DaRuDe

the superwoman from QL??

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:51
DaRuDe

I lose?? no it will be you who will lose when i will fire you with H2SO4.then you know what will you lose :D

By Qatari-femme• 25 Jan 2010 09:50
Qatari-femme

''Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. 'Discover''

Mark Twain

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:46
DaRuDe

Can you go get a scale and check if you are straight with it or not.

By Qatari-femme• 25 Jan 2010 09:46
Qatari-femme

''Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. 'Discover''

Mark Twain

By Qatari-femme• 25 Jan 2010 09:45
Qatari-femme

''Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. 'Discover''

Mark Twain

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:43
DaRuDe

Are you sure?? are you damn sure??

any evidence or some kind of proof??

and yes i am one Proud Gay.

:P

By Qatari-femme• 25 Jan 2010 09:42
Qatari-femme

DaRude !! just so you know Jon is not gay he never was,never will .. He's straight ! Straighter than what ypu think ! ;-)

''Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. 'Discover''

Mark Twain

By Pajju• 25 Jan 2010 09:42
Pajju

lol Da .. yea i will do it :P

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:41
DaRuDe

dont know about Jon Alfahad.

you can check him QF.

By Qatari-femme• 25 Jan 2010 09:40
Qatari-femme

''Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. 'Discover''

Mark Twain

By Qatari-femme• 25 Jan 2010 09:38
Qatari-femme

''Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. 'Discover''

Mark Twain

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:38
DaRuDe

is asking for it go flag her 10 times more now. if you need my help do ask me.

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:37
DaRuDe

are you chick??? they are blaming me that i am flirting with you. jeez oh no i aint no gay stay away.

By Qatari-femme• 25 Jan 2010 09:35
Qatari-femme

''Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. 'Discover''

Mark Twain

By Formatted Soul• 25 Jan 2010 09:34
Formatted Soul

Da stop flirting with young Chicks you resident hijacker...lol he is rude with guys only... he is Mr.Nice with gals..lol

Jon stay away from Darude...and stick to QFemme..he will put you in trouble...lol

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:34
DaRuDe

Pajju yea Jon and Qatari femme hijacked this topic flag both of them.

By Qatari-femme• 25 Jan 2010 09:31
Qatari-femme

''Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. 'Discover''

Mark Twain

By Pajju• 25 Jan 2010 09:31
Pajju

this thread hijacked by ? :P

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:29
DaRuDe

ah you are back.

wont use H2SO4 on you but peacock feathers below your feet.

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:27
DaRuDe

Should be proud of getting QL flag man. Its an honor.

Wait let me Flag you once again.

By Qatari-femme• 25 Jan 2010 09:27
Qatari-femme

DaRude you're a terrorist ! Why do u wana use H2SO4 and terrorize those poor guys especially Jon ?

''Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. 'Discover''

Mark Twain

By snessy• 25 Jan 2010 09:27
snessy

LOL, on second thoughts, I think I'll give it a miss.

Seriously though, some people's imagination really runs wild when starting these attention seeking threads with new usernames. It does get on my nerves, because we still respond and give them the attention they want!

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

By jpa• 25 Jan 2010 09:27
jpa

The BEAUTY & the Beast.

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:25
DaRuDe

No wrong place

Go to Irish harp on thursday night you will get plenty

By Formatted Soul• 25 Jan 2010 09:24
Formatted Soul

Ofcourse snessy darlin, you are in the right place...lol

There are many ppl here to give you full attention..:)

By snessy• 25 Jan 2010 09:23
snessy

FS, I'm looking for attention, have I come to the right place? ;-)

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:21
DaRuDe

Lets divert our attention to FS and shoot her with Hcl and H2SO4.

By Formatted Soul• 25 Jan 2010 09:20
Formatted Soul

I find Darude and Jon offensive for talkin xxxx in the main forum. I am gonna flag you both..lol

By Formatted Soul• 25 Jan 2010 09:19
Formatted Soul

Smokey if you are talkin about impritty...she is real:)I spoke to her! even I thought the same...lol

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:16
DaRuDe

yes H2 SO4 to lose the shape and the tool both :D

By anonymous• 25 Jan 2010 09:15
anonymous

Yeah...smoke...I have noted that too...lol

By smoke• 25 Jan 2010 09:14
smoke

FS The person i'm talking about will read it and not post again...check back here in a while :P

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

_[]~«ŠѪΘҜΞ»~[]_

 

By Formatted Soul• 25 Jan 2010 09:09
Formatted Soul

Smokey I wonder who you are talkin about??

Jon no more new emotional posts? lol

By smoke• 25 Jan 2010 09:08
smoke

All izz well pajju. :)

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

_[]~«ŠѪΘҜΞ»~[]_

 

By Pajju• 25 Jan 2010 09:07
Pajju

smoke everything is ok ? u got letter from here ? :)

By smoke• 25 Jan 2010 09:04
smoke

And what about some attention seekers who like to create new "female" id's then come in to a topic discussion and flirt/praise themselves? Its so funny coz when u check the profile it says member for 1 hour and out of a hundred posts the "female" only likes to reply to this certain member who basically just posts sh*t and useless replies everywhere he/she goes. ahem! ahem! :P

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

_[]~«ŠѪΘҜΞ»~[]_

 

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:01
DaRuDe

i have gun loaded with sulphuric acid. be careful i might shooot your zipper :D

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 09:00
DaRuDe

Plz teach me also how to get attention.

By Aunty virus• 25 Jan 2010 08:52
Aunty virus

I would like to name few, but am not doing it. Dont want to offend anyone.:)

I want 24/7 attention, I know how to get it:)

By Rizks• 25 Jan 2010 08:48
Rizks

wat do u mean by Attention seeker ? :(

By LeBaNeSeMaN• 25 Jan 2010 08:47
LeBaNeSeMaN

FS half of the members commenting on this thread are sttention seekers :P

Pajju is number 1 :D

Flag me please :)

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 08:40
DaRuDe

sure

its like taking off their lungis and now they are all hidding.

By Formatted Soul• 25 Jan 2010 08:39
Formatted Soul

I cant see some people after I posted this:(

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 08:34
DaRuDe

after reading your topic am not in mood to post any topic :D

By Formatted Soul• 25 Jan 2010 08:32
Formatted Soul

oh.. whats stoppin your finger from keyboard??

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 08:27
DaRuDe

am trying my best to keep my fingers off keyboard today.

but i still dont want to stop posting

ah confused confused :D

By Formatted Soul• 25 Jan 2010 08:26
Formatted Soul

DA....did you steal my AK47?? cant find it anywhere..wanna try it on you...lol

Sonam, yes am one... shhh dont tell anyone okay...:)

Edifis and do you get immediate attention for your letters and mails?? :)

perfect stranger they should first find out why are they behaving like that and what is that they are lacking, probably they dont get any attention from their loved ones...

Anthrax...oopz anthoworx …posting a thread is not seeking attention, but the contents of the post is what makes the poster an attention seeker...

By DaRuDe• 25 Jan 2010 08:11
DaRuDe

and what do you shoot back with??? i use pump action gun.

By edifis• 24 Jan 2010 19:25
edifis

When I write official Letters, I often seek Attention by writing "Kind Attention:Mr XXX."

By perfectStranger• 24 Jan 2010 19:19
perfectStranger

Attention seekers are people who would go out of their way to give attention to the ones they like, therefore they accept the same in return.

A lot of people brakup due to the same reason.

But what is the solution, how can an attention seeker control his feelings ??

By sonaam• 24 Jan 2010 19:14
sonaam

FS is one of them lol

....................................................................................

सोनम दी नेपाली बाबु

......

By anonymous• 24 Jan 2010 18:37
anonymous

Some people get far too much attention than they want.. Any way to repel attention :(

**** Aal Izz Well****

By anthoworx• 24 Jan 2010 18:23
anthoworx

If posting a thread in the forum makes someone attention seeker, then I am one.. coz i have posted some... and if driving around the road of qatar with flags, and loud music is about attention seeking, then i am not..

Cheers

~ AK ~

By Formatted Soul• 24 Jan 2010 18:04
Formatted Soul

*ahem..ahem* as i said this is not in particular to anyone..

Da who is this gypsy gal...looks like you still cant forget her? lol

Senssy they know who they are...why should we name...and i dont believe in personal attack:)

Jon...you are just too emotional...dont think an attention seeker...and many female members think what you post is sweet..hope you havin a good time in vegas..

Jack you are revealing too much info...lol

Arien... I am doin social service dude..lol

Antho...it was meant for all attention seekers..lol Do you seek attention? if not...its not for you...

By anthoworx• 24 Jan 2010 16:35
anthoworx

dont forget... a life guard too.. ;)

Cheers

~ AK ~

By anonymous• 24 Jan 2010 16:33
anonymous

Lol...Antho....I had met Dr FS....couple of times ....College cricket team captian....wannabe Lawyer...charming person...

Her diagnosis about the illness could be accurate...lol

By anthoworx• 24 Jan 2010 16:27
anthoworx

chummma.

Cheers

~ AK ~

By anonymous• 24 Jan 2010 16:25
anonymous

anthoworx...meet whom?..

By anthoworx• 24 Jan 2010 16:13
anthoworx

physiatrist on board.. lets see who gets to meet first..

Cheers

~ AK ~

By anonymous• 24 Jan 2010 16:11
anonymous

FS are you going to...

"understand the problem behind their behavior and then work towards helping them instead of ignoring them"...?

By jpa• 24 Jan 2010 15:30
jpa

Very clever FS.

How many now?

By Lucky Luciano• 24 Jan 2010 15:23
Lucky Luciano

Looks like Gypsy Gal miss QL heart trob sl :))))))))))))))))

By Pajju• 24 Jan 2010 14:47
Pajju

snessy it was'nt me :P

By snessy• 24 Jan 2010 14:45
snessy

FS, you hit the nail on the head with this thread. I say let's name and shame...

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

By rMs_000• 24 Jan 2010 14:45
rMs_000

Guess you started getting friendsheep messages again?lol..

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tEaCh Me RulEs I'lL tEaCh YoU hOw To BrEaK iT -rMs!

By Arien• 24 Jan 2010 14:44
Rating: 2/5
Arien

Fs - Depends who..Its better to ignore when the person at question is a stranger, otherwise yes you may study the route cause and try and cure.

Note ;This comment has no direct or indirect relation with any live or dead Characters on QL. If you find any similarity it is just a coincidence.:)

By somwerNdmiddle• 24 Jan 2010 14:37
somwerNdmiddle

somebody might flag you FS :D

www.live365.com/stations/thevault85

By anthoworx• 24 Jan 2010 14:37
Rating: 2/5
anthoworx

if its so.. then i love it.. that am been attended..

Cheers

~ AK ~

By nightwalker77• 24 Jan 2010 14:36
nightwalker77

It is like reading Darude's biography

better get him to mental hospital for help before his head explodes with all QLSG drama and attention

By Victory_278692• 24 Jan 2010 14:35
Victory_278692

disclaimer.....lol...nobody put any claims on you....

We all know attention seeker and their style of story telling, asking questions, inviting people to join, etc, etc....

do they need any psychological treatment or counselling will work?

By blablubliblrrr• 24 Jan 2010 14:35
blablubliblrrr

This thread is purely dedicated for you!

--

Pray, Before prayers are said for you..

By Pajju• 24 Jan 2010 14:34
Pajju

FS lol :) 2.35 still here ? :P

By Rev.s• 24 Jan 2010 14:34
Rev.s

Now my all Attention is ON * F S* Opsssy Daisssy :p

-: Kindness is a Language the deaf can hear and the blind can see :-

By anthoworx• 24 Jan 2010 14:34
anthoworx

< O v O >

Cheers

~ AK ~

By Formatted Soul• 24 Jan 2010 14:31
Formatted Soul

Pajju realizing your problem itself is a good sign...loool

By DaRuDe• 24 Jan 2010 14:30
Rating: 4/5
DaRuDe

Gypsy gal in top 10 list of Ql for seeking attention.

now that she had too much of attention she quitted QL. oh but wait she is still around playing PM PM games. :D

By Pajju• 24 Jan 2010 14:30
Pajju

sorry FS , i will not do it again :P

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