What is happening to me?
I am almost leaving DOHA as approached my contract end. My Boss would like to renew my contract but I am confused by myself.
When I made my decision not to continue my contract, suddently I felt that I just can not live far away from someone in DOHA. I start scare of loosing to see the person. I did ask to answer me to say either stay here or go home but I am not getting any respond. I am standing on the line and difficult to make decision now as my boss also squeese me again to continue my contract.
What is happening to me? Why I can make my strong decision as I think before? Why the person is not answering my question? Is it YES or NO????
"I used too many try and error methods but it didn't work in social because the method is belong to Engineering"
dont you think that person also dont like to be far away from you? dont want to be left behind? i'm sure that person dont like any of it, but only dont like to mess up your head and confuse you in any decision you make and maybe if telling you to stay and anything turns out not right for you that person dont want to be blame,that person knows your confused and wants your decision comes within your heart,,,,
GOD bless your heart!!!!
Appreciate for responding excellent answer.
Thank you.
hi, why don't you give yourself a break say for a month, ask your boss to give you time to think about the offer to continue your contract at the same time you will have time to find out to yourself if you really missing the person you will left behind. Don't worry a six pack of beer seating with your friends over bbq maybe will help you what you really want to do! GOOdluck mate!
Pal, I suggest the following:
extend your contract for 1 year more (I suppose you have early termination clause, so you can leave by giving 1 month notice anytime);
within this time you can analyze your feelings & emotions and for sure you will find an answer to take the proper decision.
Blue mountain first of cheak your heart whether you are in love or just temporay feelings, if the second one go ahead with your carrier the feelings will wanish in due cource of time and if the first one, cheak wherther possible to live togather forever or not,if possible follow the lead of your heart if not possible and true love than only God can help you. Berady to have an introduction with yourself. I appriciate the c..effort answer, its logical but love is over and above the logic it has its own magics.
From whatever I understood from your decision, following would I do if I were in your place:-
1. Renewal of contract:- If the job is as per my requirements, I would continue or else would leave & do something which would provide me growth in my profession :)
2. Love issue:- Instead of putting myself in trouble, I would ask the person if he has any soft corner for me in his/her heart or not :) If yes then good, but if the answer is no then I wouldnt ruin my life or leave my job because of the heart break instead I would make myself more busy to take him/her out of my mind & would move on in life :)