Help! Is it okay to go back with your ex??

Lara_09
By Lara_09

Will you accept your ex when he/she's coming back to you? After the pain and moving on, will you start again and take a second chance?

By anonymous• 19 Nov 2009 18:08
anonymous

That's what I call pragmatism.

By flanostu• 19 Nov 2009 18:04
flanostu

i'd give the "rockin arse" one last hit, then dump her again.

By Bluemountain• 19 Nov 2009 17:59
Rating: 5/5
Bluemountain

Why not if your Ex is very very good one

Hahahahahaha

FOC

By MrsTimebandit• 19 Nov 2009 17:04
Rating: 4/5
MrsTimebandit

Snessy, you and I are going to start the 'Agony Aunts Group' on QL........we'd make a fortune :)

'Up there for thinking....down there for dancing.'

By fareena• 19 Nov 2009 17:03
fareena

taking my opinion... no. i never did because before i break off, i have already exhausted all my patience, understanding, love and care. I am too tired to even look back.

"To err is human, to forgive is divine."

By Lara_09• 19 Nov 2009 16:51
Lara_09

Just wanted to get different opinion about it!

Thanks a lot!

By stanley_mnl• 19 Nov 2009 16:49
stanley_mnl

intelligent person hahahah...LOL

By anonymous• 19 Nov 2009 16:49
anonymous

I would but that's just me..

By ms.cielo• 19 Nov 2009 16:45
ms.cielo

duh

By MrsTimebandit• 19 Nov 2009 16:39
MrsTimebandit

I agree with snessy.....if you're this hesitant, the answer is probably no. Having said that, it also depends on the circumstances - I assume he left you? What was the reason? And why does he now want you back?

'Up there for thinking....down there for dancing.'

By dHey by DhEy• 19 Nov 2009 15:44
Rating: 3/5
dHey by DhEy

only friendship can i offer to him..thats it..

By anonymous• 19 Nov 2009 15:33
anonymous

Every story has a different answer, i have a similar story but my situation may not match urs. if you want a good answer, u can tell ur (whole) story to the ppl who love u really and how have good wisedom then you can get an answer, But like that? in QL?? u would be more confused and no even 1 good answer.

By snessy• 19 Nov 2009 15:33
Rating: 3/5
snessy

If it's taking this long to make the decision, I would definitely say no!

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

By fil_qatar• 19 Nov 2009 15:28
Rating: 3/5
fil_qatar

BIG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO''

By jonald• 19 Nov 2009 15:20
Rating: 5/5
jonald

if you still love him just take it slow. Till you are very sure to have him back.

Dagway ai!

By anonymous• 19 Nov 2009 15:17
anonymous

I know, heero, it could be translated into:' if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.' (Graham Nash, 1972)

By Lara_09• 19 Nov 2009 15:16
Lara_09

guess need some fresh air to breathe!!!

By heero_yuy2• 19 Nov 2009 15:15
heero_yuy2

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

By anonymous• 19 Nov 2009 15:13
anonymous

I like the way rein thinks, heero.

By heero_yuy2• 19 Nov 2009 15:12
heero_yuy2

"I'd rather be with someone for the wrong reasons than be alone for the right ones."

A quote from this movie:

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

By chinx_lady• 19 Nov 2009 15:09
chinx_lady

i know how you feel lara but you should use mind over heart ...you have to make sure that he is worthy for your love and test his sincerity to you otherwise you'll end up whining the same blow from him..

By owen• 19 Nov 2009 15:09
Rating: 3/5
owen

as you said AFTER all the pain.. not unless you are ready to feel pain again.. or if you would, try not previous issues recur, forget the past and start anew..

goodluck..

[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

By lyrem21• 19 Nov 2009 15:05
lyrem21

if you still love him, go for it girl, as long that can make you happy. You can forget and forgive all those pain...

take it from me...i been to same exp.. :)

***Your only limitation is your soul***

By rein• 19 Nov 2009 15:04
rein

going solo is a lot wiser than being in a wrong relationship

"Dogs don't bark at people they know."

By heero_yuy2• 19 Nov 2009 15:04
heero_yuy2

Because they can't. LOL

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

By Lara_09• 19 Nov 2009 15:01
Lara_09

You are just so right but it takes a lot of self control not to!! im just too stupid when it comes to love!!am i hopeless?

By chinx_lady• 19 Nov 2009 14:58
chinx_lady

gurl its really hard to forget the pain but if you'll accept him just make sure you can trust him..its so hard to push into the relationship if your not secure with your man.

By timebandit• 19 Nov 2009 14:57
timebandit

Lara_09 you just know how this will end if you get back with him. And I am going to say "I told you so!" over and over again. Forwards not backwards remember?

By Lara_09• 19 Nov 2009 14:52
Lara_09

i did really fall in love with him hard..and somehow i kinda feel something the same right now that he's coming back but i don't know if he will not hurt me again..oh i so hate this feeling...:(

By chinx_lady• 19 Nov 2009 14:52
Rating: 4/5
chinx_lady

it depends on you on how you feel for your ex but personally i will never!

By rein• 19 Nov 2009 14:51
rein

love is sweeter the second time around? NO WAY!!

"Dogs don't bark at people they know."

By thalib01• 19 Nov 2009 14:49
thalib01

its always gonna be........... "remember the last time we broke up"... unless you both have your memory wiped off. ;-)

By Lara_09• 19 Nov 2009 14:48
Lara_09

that takes my spirit up!!Go girl!

By anonymous• 19 Nov 2009 14:48
anonymous

There are bridges that you've burnt. How can you walk back?

By Lara_09• 19 Nov 2009 14:47
Lara_09

Then I'd rather not to but I really do have a playful heart!!!Darn!!

By timebandit• 19 Nov 2009 14:47
Rating: 4/5
timebandit

A good looking gal like you will find someone much more worthy. Move forwards not back ;)

By somwerNdmiddle• 19 Nov 2009 14:46
somwerNdmiddle

love is sweeter the second time around - only happens in movies lara so i say hehehe honestly don't, you'll regret it

By thalib01• 19 Nov 2009 14:44
Rating: 4/5
thalib01

No way.....

By Lara_09• 19 Nov 2009 14:43
Lara_09

so id rather not get back to my ex then!! survey says NOOOOOOOO!!!

By baldrick2dogs• 19 Nov 2009 14:42
baldrick2dogs

Brit "Has she got a "rockin arse?"

Are you talkin about UKEng's Disco there? ;o)

By timebandit• 19 Nov 2009 14:41
Rating: 4/5
timebandit

no no No No No NO NO NO! Unless he/she is now too old to go out on the pull, they will always be looking for the next conquest.

By Lara_09• 19 Nov 2009 14:41
Lara_09

Is it not??

By britexpat• 19 Nov 2009 14:40
britexpat

As Dr. Phil would say "the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior"

By anonymous• 19 Nov 2009 14:39
anonymous

C'mon, you had a reason to part. Have you forgotten?

By anonymous• 19 Nov 2009 14:38
anonymous

what about the first one option... :)

By Lara_09• 19 Nov 2009 14:38
Lara_09

Y NOT???

By Lara_09• 19 Nov 2009 14:33
Lara_09

Y NOT???

By britexpat• 19 Nov 2009 14:33
britexpat

Has she got a "rockin arse" as a fellow QLer would say ??

By anonymous• 19 Nov 2009 14:33
anonymous

No!

By anonymous• 19 Nov 2009 14:31
anonymous

Only if thats the last option......

True Friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable.....

By GodFather.• 19 Nov 2009 14:31
GodFather.

Yes if it was my ex-landy disco.. I would give a second chance any day..:)

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"HE WHO DARES WINS"

Derek Edward Trotter

By rMs_000• 19 Nov 2009 14:29
Rating: 4/5
rMs_000

Depends on each individual. Right for you may be wrong for me.

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I don't want a Signature line to prove that I'm great !!

By snessy• 19 Nov 2009 14:28
Rating: 3/5
snessy

It all depends on why you broke up in the first place.

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

By britexpat• 19 Nov 2009 14:28
britexpat

NO!

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