My Girlfriend and her Suitor!!!
My gf has a housemate who will not leave her alone!!!
She spends quite a bit of time in the house with this guy, either watching tv or having a drink but they are never alone and always with other friends.
This guy has now started telling other housemates how he is in love with my gf which is now making me look weak for letting this guy disrespect our relationship.
She tells him that she is not interested and has a bf but he keeps on begging with her for "even a single date"!
I trust my gf 100% and i know she would never lie and all the trouble is from this guy.
What is the solution? Should my gf cut this guy from her life or should i bite his nose off???
maybe she's got an itch that just needs to be scratched every now and then...especially after a few beers and a hot movie...
The last time I checked out, it was called beer-goggles
lol MD... i think most of the time it's always guys getting away with it ;)
Why is it always the boys who suffer?
i just wondering weather that guy took any secret photos of ur gf and blackmailing her,bcoz he comes her room oftenly and thats one reason ur gf wouldn't hv enough dare to avoid him permanently.
....Nice Idea MD :)
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Why don't you do the same as your "GF" does. Let's see, how she will react.
first what u want to do is throw ur TV .so he won;t come for watching TV .
to jackfrost : Take it easy man
Wallah i will not do it again ;)
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i can help your girlfriend, whats her number?
pm me
way to go!!
i agree
Pay peanuts & you get Monkeys
What a weak person you are.. why in the hell would you ask us here in QL.. Take a gun and shoot yourself you weak little man. you would be doing your so called girfriend good as well.. come and i will do it for you
Power to the non believers, it’s a great feeling to have and hold.
propose to her ofcourse!!
Pay peanuts & you get Monkeys
if a girl is clearly not interested in a guy, she makes sure he knows. now...if that guy is persistent, if that was me i'll never hang around with him just so he wouldn't get any fantasies that there is still a chance. but if your gf still hangs out with him...then...maybe...
ohhhh my get on move..other wise u will lost her
Tell your GF to tell him to F*** Off, use the exact words. If he still persists which I doubt he will, then you can think about knocking his head off..
Why is she living with another guy or another 10 people for that matter...and spending time watching TV or having a drink...
and here i thought male and female aren't allowed to live in one house, especially if not blood related.. :P
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
err, they live under one roof?
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
days of our lives???
Or dallas...the doings and the screwings of the ewings..
*** Light travels faster than sound. That's why most people appear bright until they open their mouths.
She is stunning!
At least Fred thinks she will never leave me!
It's quite possible that she finds the guy likeable and easy going and nothing more than a good 'timepass buddy'. Older women tend to learn a lot from life and make lasting relationships. She will never leave you. Please don't worry.
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- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
She is 29
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- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
thats the problem of having stunning GF :)
...if she is a teenager you definately need to worry about she getting close to the guy...if she is say - 25+ then you don't need to be worried about...
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
sorry that she spends a bit of time with another guy in this house that she is in.
olive is right,its illegal for a single women to have single male housemates.
consider yourself lucky that she is not interested to date him.
and as for her spare time,,,well thats her own business?yes?
im zipping up...
Put a ring on her finger. Oterwise just deal with the fact that she is obviously keeping her options open and you wouldn't be the wiser.
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Again, where did you read "most of her time" from? I said a bit of time when the house is all together!
Anyway, why so interesting if she has time on her hands?
Doesn't make a difference. It's still illegal.
i suggest that you let your gf transfer to another house that is occupied and rented by women ONLY.
and your gf spends most of her time drinking and watching tv with him???intersting to note that this girlfriend of yours has a lot of time in her hands...
and the guy too....
QS - nice one!
There are about 10 single people living in this villa, all with there own seperate rooms.
They only spend time together drinking, watching tv, etc. when the whole house are together, not by themselves.
The issue is very clear but as is typical in doha people cannot understand what is very clearly written!
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
Exactly.. why would she need to go out on a date with him if every day is a date??
I wonder if this is he same office guy as in the other thread...a dn they're sharing the same girlfriend? WHoooHooo.. scandal!
to settle the matter peacefully, only your gf can handle this.. ask her to shout at this guy ! :D
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"Before God we are all equally wise ' and equally foolish" - Albert Einstein
if she aint interested in him, what makes her spend most to fht time wt this guy watching TV & Drinking?!!
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"Before God we are all equally wise ' and equally foolish" - Albert Einstein
Yes it is. There's nothing to say they aren't sharing a room. Men and women are not allowed to live together out of wedlock here. PERIOD. What they're doing is illegal.
Olive - not a roomate its "housemate"
You can't teach experience...
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"My gf has a housemate"
That implies that they share a house. That's illegal.
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
What is she doing living with a guy she's not married to. That's illegal.
it seems to be heading that way. Qatarloving.com and Ask-a-really-stupid-qestion.com.
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it takes two to tango.....!! you need to talk to her before you make a mess of yourself.
by the look of it, she seems to enjoy this situation (just my opinion, birds eye view, you know better).
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- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
.....off
*** Light travels faster than sound. That's why most people appear bright until they open their mouths.
So, let me get this straight...
"She spends quite a bit of time in the house with this guy, either watching tv or having a drink"
YET -
She tells him that she is not interested and has a bf but he keeps on begging with her for "even a single date"!
Need i say anything..
to QS: your gf tried to stop him as u've said, if she is not interested with the guy and she doesn't like him so whats the problem? I think your gf is 100% inlove with you to tell that she has a suitor like that in the house cos if not she will keep it secret and flirt with the guy, and also a piece of advice, try not to neglect your girl for her not to look to aggressive people like her housem8s.
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
Thanks Thalib, so you think that my gf needs to make her point to this guy very seriously by telling him to stay away from her until he learns to treat our relationship with respect?
I dont think that he takes her refusals serious as he keeps coming back. It doesnt help that my gf shared with this guy some of the food that brought around for her after i had left!
you need to steer clear from this issue face on with the other guy, Let your GF handle the situation by warning him and being serious about her statement. she should have her boundaries and i am sure the guy is just gonna fade away in some time, he will get tired of it.
nice advice by johny b
Of course i need to stop this! What do you think my gf should do to help the situation?
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