My Girlfriend and her Suitor!!!

QSDoha
By QSDoha

My gf has a housemate who will not leave her alone!!!

She spends quite a bit of time in the house with this guy, either watching tv or having a drink but they are never alone and always with other friends.

This guy has now started telling other housemates how he is in love with my gf which is now making me look weak for letting this guy disrespect our relationship.

She tells him that she is not interested and has a bf but he keeps on begging with her for "even a single date"!

I trust my gf 100% and i know she would never lie and all the trouble is from this guy.

What is the solution? Should my gf cut this guy from her life or should i bite his nose off???

By anonymous• 6 Oct 2009 15:27
anonymous

maybe she's got an itch that just needs to be scratched every now and then...especially after a few beers and a hot movie...

The last time I checked out, it was called beer-goggles

By wacky_baby• 6 Oct 2009 15:07
wacky_baby

lol MD... i think most of the time it's always guys getting away with it ;)

By anonymous• 6 Oct 2009 09:01
anonymous

Why is it always the boys who suffer?

By Johnson566• 6 Oct 2009 08:56
Johnson566

i just wondering weather that guy took any secret photos of ur gf and blackmailing her,bcoz he comes her room oftenly and thats one reason ur gf wouldn't hv enough dare to avoid him permanently.

By KHATTAK• 6 Oct 2009 08:53
KHATTAK

....Nice Idea MD :)

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By anonymous• 6 Oct 2009 08:47
anonymous

Why don't you do the same as your "GF" does. Let's see, how she will react.

By Johnson566• 6 Oct 2009 08:44
Johnson566

first what u want to do is throw ur TV .so he won;t come for watching TV .

By Menchie Carurucan• 6 Oct 2009 08:24
Menchie Carurucan

to jackfrost : Take it easy man

By sonaam• 5 Oct 2009 18:58
sonaam

Wallah i will not do it again ;)

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By ka78• 5 Oct 2009 18:48
ka78

i can help your girlfriend, whats her number?

pm me

By messymiss• 5 Oct 2009 18:36
messymiss

way to go!!

i agree

Pay peanuts & you get Monkeys

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 18:31
anonymous

What a weak person you are.. why in the hell would you ask us here in QL.. Take a gun and shoot yourself you weak little man. you would be doing your so called girfriend good as well.. come and i will do it for you

Power to the non believers, it’s a great feeling to have and hold.

By messymiss• 5 Oct 2009 18:28
messymiss

propose to her ofcourse!!

Pay peanuts & you get Monkeys

By wacky_baby• 5 Oct 2009 18:25
wacky_baby

if a girl is clearly not interested in a guy, she makes sure he knows. now...if that guy is persistent, if that was me i'll never hang around with him just so he wouldn't get any fantasies that there is still a chance. but if your gf still hangs out with him...then...maybe...

By esther• 5 Oct 2009 18:10
esther

ohhhh my get on move..other wise u will lost her

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 18:07
anonymous

Tell your GF to tell him to F*** Off, use the exact words. If he still persists which I doubt he will, then you can think about knocking his head off..

By Andeee• 5 Oct 2009 16:26
Andeee

Why is she living with another guy or another 10 people for that matter...and spending time watching TV or having a drink...

By mjamille28• 5 Oct 2009 16:16
mjamille28

and here i thought male and female aren't allowed to live in one house, especially if not blood related.. :P

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 15:54
anonymous

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By mjamille28• 5 Oct 2009 15:52
mjamille28

err, they live under one roof?

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 15:51
anonymous

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By boer• 5 Oct 2009 15:48
boer

days of our lives???

Or dallas...the doings and the screwings of the ewings..

*** Light travels faster than sound. That's why most people appear bright until they open their mouths.

By QSDoha• 5 Oct 2009 15:44
QSDoha

She is stunning!

At least Fred thinks she will never leave me!

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 15:41
anonymous

It's quite possible that she finds the guy likeable and easy going and nothing more than a good 'timepass buddy'. Older women tend to learn a lot from life and make lasting relationships. She will never leave you. Please don't worry.

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By QSDoha• 5 Oct 2009 15:37
QSDoha

She is 29

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 15:37
anonymous

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By Menchie Carurucan• 5 Oct 2009 15:36
Menchie Carurucan

thats the problem of having stunning GF :)

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 15:33
anonymous

...if she is a teenager you definately need to worry about she getting close to the guy...if she is say - 25+ then you don't need to be worried about...

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By shoeaddict• 5 Oct 2009 15:32
shoeaddict

sorry that she spends a bit of time with another guy in this house that she is in.

olive is right,its illegal for a single women to have single male housemates.

consider yourself lucky that she is not interested to date him.

and as for her spare time,,,well thats her own business?yes?

im zipping up...

By Dali• 5 Oct 2009 15:30
Dali

Put a ring on her finger. Oterwise just deal with the fact that she is obviously keeping her options open and you wouldn't be the wiser.

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By QSDoha• 5 Oct 2009 15:28
QSDoha

Again, where did you read "most of her time" from? I said a bit of time when the house is all together!

Anyway, why so interesting if she has time on her hands?

By Olive• 5 Oct 2009 15:26
Olive

Doesn't make a difference. It's still illegal.

By shoeaddict• 5 Oct 2009 15:24
shoeaddict

i suggest that you let your gf transfer to another house that is occupied and rented by women ONLY.

and your gf spends most of her time drinking and watching tv with him???intersting to note that this girlfriend of yours has a lot of time in her hands...

and the guy too....

By Menchie Carurucan• 5 Oct 2009 15:24
Menchie Carurucan

QS - nice one!

By QSDoha• 5 Oct 2009 15:21
QSDoha

There are about 10 single people living in this villa, all with there own seperate rooms.

They only spend time together drinking, watching tv, etc. when the whole house are together, not by themselves.

The issue is very clear but as is typical in doha people cannot understand what is very clearly written!

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 15:20
anonymous

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By FranElizabeth• 5 Oct 2009 15:18
FranElizabeth

Exactly.. why would she need to go out on a date with him if every day is a date??

I wonder if this is he same office guy as in the other thread...a dn they're sharing the same girlfriend? WHoooHooo.. scandal!

By _noms_• 5 Oct 2009 15:18
_noms_

to settle the matter peacefully, only your gf can handle this.. ask her to shout at this guy ! :D

~noms~

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"Before God we are all equally wise ' and equally foolish" - Albert Einstein

By _noms_• 5 Oct 2009 15:16
_noms_

if she aint interested in him, what makes her spend most to fht time wt this guy watching TV & Drinking?!!

~noms~

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"Before God we are all equally wise ' and equally foolish" - Albert Einstein

By Olive• 5 Oct 2009 15:15
Olive

Yes it is. There's nothing to say they aren't sharing a room. Men and women are not allowed to live together out of wedlock here. PERIOD. What they're doing is illegal.

By Menchie Carurucan• 5 Oct 2009 15:15
Menchie Carurucan

Olive - not a roomate its "housemate"

By Vegas• 5 Oct 2009 15:14
Vegas

You can't teach experience...

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 15:14
anonymous

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By Olive• 5 Oct 2009 15:13
Olive

"My gf has a housemate"

That implies that they share a house. That's illegal.

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 15:12
anonymous

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By Olive• 5 Oct 2009 15:11
Olive

What is she doing living with a guy she's not married to. That's illegal.

By boer• 5 Oct 2009 15:09
boer

it seems to be heading that way. Qatarloving.com and Ask-a-really-stupid-qestion.com.

*** Light travels faster than sound. That's why most people appear bright until they open their mouths.

By thalib01• 5 Oct 2009 15:08
thalib01

it takes two to tango.....!! you need to talk to her before you make a mess of yourself.

by the look of it, she seems to enjoy this situation (just my opinion, birds eye view, you know better).

By Arien• 5 Oct 2009 15:07
Arien

Qatarloving.com!!!!!!!

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By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 15:06
anonymous

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By boer• 5 Oct 2009 15:05
boer

.....off

*** Light travels faster than sound. That's why most people appear bright until they open their mouths.

By britexpat• 5 Oct 2009 15:05
britexpat

So, let me get this straight...

"She spends quite a bit of time in the house with this guy, either watching tv or having a drink"

YET -

She tells him that she is not interested and has a bf but he keeps on begging with her for "even a single date"!

Need i say anything..

By Menchie Carurucan• 5 Oct 2009 15:04
Menchie Carurucan

to QS: your gf tried to stop him as u've said, if she is not interested with the guy and she doesn't like him so whats the problem? I think your gf is 100% inlove with you to tell that she has a suitor like that in the house cos if not she will keep it secret and flirt with the guy, and also a piece of advice, try not to neglect your girl for her not to look to aggressive people like her housem8s.

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 15:02
anonymous

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By QSDoha• 5 Oct 2009 15:01
QSDoha

Thanks Thalib, so you think that my gf needs to make her point to this guy very seriously by telling him to stay away from her until he learns to treat our relationship with respect?

I dont think that he takes her refusals serious as he keeps coming back. It doesnt help that my gf shared with this guy some of the food that brought around for her after i had left!

By thalib01• 5 Oct 2009 14:48
thalib01

you need to steer clear from this issue face on with the other guy, Let your GF handle the situation by warning him and being serious about her statement. she should have her boundaries and i am sure the guy is just gonna fade away in some time, he will get tired of it.

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 14:46
anonymous

nice advice by johny b

By QSDoha• 5 Oct 2009 14:44
QSDoha

Of course i need to stop this! What do you think my gf should do to help the situation?

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 14:42
anonymous

Never give a chance to 3rd person to come in your relationship.

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By Pajju• 5 Oct 2009 14:39
Pajju

http://www.qatarliving.com/node/733791#comment-1127874

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