why are men so unfaithful

nafisa4U
By nafisa4U

nowadays its very hard to find a husband who is faithful to his wife.whereas in olden days men used to never look at any other women once they get married.whats wrong with todays men,why do they behave like dogs...oh sorry,dogs are much better than men, atleast they are loyal.

By snowman polar• 22 Jul 2009 15:09
snowman polar

Look into this link.

http://in.news.yahoo.com/139/20090720/385/ten-single-women-prefer-dogs-to-men.html

By nadzmyrah• 20 Jul 2009 14:21
nadzmyrah

They are simply seeking for something that their wife cannot give.

By _noms_• 20 Jul 2009 14:16
_noms_

your post indicate you had a bad experience with your husband.. probably you aint upto his level of satisfaction... try to achieve it !

By azharm• 20 Jul 2009 14:00
azharm

B Cause how can we have faith in (NAFISA 4 U) she isn't 4 ME na

By snowman polar• 20 Jul 2009 13:55
snowman polar

Nowadays it’s very hard to find a husband who is faithful to his wife.

Sadly this is true because, he is running behind the demands, dictated by the wife and coming late from his work. A man coming home late is always ill-treated by the same wife, and, the husband doesn’t have time to show his faithfulness to the wife.

Whereas in olden days men used to never look at any other women once they get married.

The women always trained and they tried to win the heart of a man and they really felt they were cared & caressed.

What’s wrong with today’s men, why do they behave like dogs...?

What do you expect, when bitches are running around?

Oh sorry, dogs are much better than men, at least they are loyal.

HMMM….No arguments with a person who had learnt these facts.

By baldrick2dogs• 20 Jul 2009 13:42
baldrick2dogs

On the flip side:

Why are women so unfaithful?

nowadays its very hard to find a wife who is faithful to her husband.whereas in olden days women used to never look at any other men once they get married.whats wrong with todays women,why do they behave like bitches...oh sorry,bitches are much better than women, atleast they are loyal.

If you are going to tar all men with the same brush because you have had a bad experience, then this reply is out of my bad experience. What's good for the goose ....

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2009 13:19
anonymous

Well you might have got the wrong choice .

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2009 13:17
anonymous

Give love and extract the best from your partner .

All men and women are faithfull - provided they are cared !!!!!

so pls care your partner well and never repeat this saying again

By christian torres revilla• 6 Jul 2009 08:37
christian torres revilla

uv got my sympathy nafisa, but still not all men are unfaithful.. 1 thing 4 sure, u just got the wrong guy.

By anonymous• 5 Jul 2009 22:21
anonymous

How come your husband or (men) can be unfaithful, iam sure he is not, you are the one , Beacuse

(Nafisa4U)

By anonymous• 5 Jul 2009 22:19
anonymous

How come your husband or (men) can be unfaithful, iam sure he is not, you are the one , Beacuse

By anonymous• 5 Jul 2009 22:11
anonymous

more over,if you have your men dont hurt him,care him,dnt argur,give him love which he want that will make your life good.

one and last thing dont dought on your men.

By anonymous• 5 Jul 2009 22:01
anonymous

hey guys may be she became victim of some fellow who dont care her.But frnd nafisa real men is not betrayer,girl can be betray but men cant.he will loves u till he die or you betray him.lol

By H. M.• 5 Jul 2009 21:23
H. M.

Well... first of all I just want to say: people... take it easy with Nafisa! I am shure she had a very bad experience what brought her to write these blaming words. But now to you Nafisa: dont be so preciptious in yor opinion concerning the other sex. No doubt that there are bad people.. on both sides - men as well as women - but one should always be optimistic and never ignore the good in the other. What does not mean to ignore the damnable behaviour of (your?) man. You have to remain giving him advise, pray for him to get back to the right path - and believe in Gods answer of your prayers - and last but not least: do not treat him bad but rather be as good to him as you can. If there is someone of your relatives or friends who you can trust in ask them to help you by giving him advice too. May God guide him and let you have a peaceful and harmonic family live as it has to be.

Regards

By sulmansaeed• 5 Jul 2009 17:29
sulmansaeed

My wife will be Lucky:)

By coelacanth• 5 Jul 2009 17:13
coelacanth

Men are unfaithful because they choose to become one. That's the only explanation valid. You can blame your wife or your environment, but in the end, it's you who decide your fate...not your wife. Wife tends to become unfaithful also for the same reason...they chose to become one.

So, best thing to do is to set your mind that once you committed yourself to that person, that's for good. You did not marry/choose a perfect person. In your relationship, there will always be trials, but it's how you both deal with the trials and chose to be what you want to be.

By SolidSnake9• 5 Jul 2009 16:56
SolidSnake9

I wonder why some women does the same too..

By dhanurath• 5 Jul 2009 16:47
dhanurath

Shame on you Nafisa! Being an Indian Lady you could have shown more decency while expressing your thoughts in public. Need to be educated! Next time, please behave yourself. If you have a problem with one person in your life, you cannot blame the whole world for it! Do you understand?

By AddyC• 5 Jul 2009 16:42
AddyC

Am sorry - donot agree , there are men who are loyal to wives to core of their heart and soul but in turn they got cheated -this case what you will say ? kindly donot blame men, there are women do not miss any chance to cheat on their husbands, may be you have to be lucky enough to find a right man ? Good luck

By anonymous• 5 Jul 2009 16:34
anonymous

well... u should go see a shrink! bekoz if men are worst than dogs. means ur brother ur father ur son in the future is worst than a dog. Did u ever heard about something called RESPECT ??? I doupt... grow up and learn how to post an idea in convenient words.

By billyjean• 5 Jul 2009 16:33
billyjean

well i have lots of friends who's in same situation, better move on, he's not the only guy. but thank God mine's faithfull as I am to him.

By jonboy• 5 Jul 2009 16:03
jonboy

give yourself a slap..........

By Che Guevara 1st• 5 Jul 2009 16:03
Che Guevara 1st

simply, you got the wrong choice :0

By anonymous• 5 Jul 2009 15:52
anonymous

As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh

Sister Nafisa

you are 100% worng there is good man who are going as per Allah and Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) so dont tell to all man only who u know ????

‘The most perfect believer in the matter of faith is one who has excellent behaviour; and the best among you are those who behave best towards their wives.’

The above quotation was said by Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 278 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:

"Everyone of you is a guardian and everyone of you is responsible (for those under your ward). A ruler is a guardian and is responsible (for his subjects); a man is a guardian of his family and responsible (for them); a wife is a guardian of her husband`s house and she is responsible (for it), a slave is a guardian of his master`s property and is responsible (for that). Beware! All of you are guardians and are responsible (for those your wards)."

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 7.116 Narrated by Abdullah bin Umar

give me your e- mail ID i will give u more A’Hadiths how to control youself and your Family ??? sorry if u feel bed

Your brother and well wisher in Islam

By HASMUB• 5 Jul 2009 15:45
HASMUB

Men were polygamous in nature

By MBHA• 5 Jul 2009 15:44
MBHA

If you are only for your husband he will love you. and if you are for all of us ( as your name indicates) then he will not.

By KHATTAK• 5 Jul 2009 15:43
KHATTAK

ONLY MEN???

By GODSGRACE• 5 Jul 2009 15:33
GODSGRACE

Go marry a DOG....

sorry if i m rude, but u need to understand, both men and womenn face situations in life where either of them are not loyal, some times both.

Not Just MEN...

By mrktk44• 5 Jul 2009 15:32
mrktk44

Ladies !!! all is in your own hands. You can make your husband faithful or you make him unfaithful. It is all bcoz of you. If a man get a sincere love from his wife,.... no question, he will look at other.

By anonymous• 5 Jul 2009 15:27
anonymous

Well I do agree that men "became" unfaithful these days, but the reason is not becasue they are "men" its becasue they seek some fullfillment from another person that his wife is not able to give. My advise is to give care to your men and don't argue alot....beleive me,...he will never cheat!

By aqueelah - wise intelligent• 5 Jul 2009 15:23
aqueelah - wise intelligent

it is their partners problem..

By mmyke• 5 Jul 2009 15:20
mmyke

men are as unfaithful as women. period.

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