Sweet talk
By FilipinRabbit •
When men sweet talk other ladies, is that a warning sign that he is not all that in love with his girlfriend? does that mean that his girlfriend is not enough?
does that mean the boyfriend is a creep?
When men sweet talk other ladies, is that a warning sign that he is not all that in love with his girlfriend? does that mean that his girlfriend is not enough?
does that mean the boyfriend is a creep?
is no different from a baby talk;i say ditch him!
but watch the body movements, a little discreet but you'll feel the sweetness! Lol!!!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
lol UkEng... :P
Just been cautious incase my sweet talk might infect you also mj...lol
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HE WHO DARES WINS
I have not seen any Sweet talking on Tuesday's gatherings..... or am I deaf and blind lol
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lol UkEng, i've heard you say that before but still haven't seen you and your hard hat every tuesday :P
Guess I have to get down to this Tuesday Filexpat gathering to renew my honary membership of this group..
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HE WHO DARES WINS
lol DMS... :P
no thanks, dmigtysolomon, why bruise myself more. just because "everybody does it" means it is not hurtful.
you will witness a lot of sweet talking. Maybe you'll learn something similar to your case! Right, MJ?
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
it has helped, thanks.
I hope this puts to rest all your worries
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hmm...
it's either you confront him and you may not get a positive result or you look the other way.. your call..
just make sure you're not in her arm's reached and you are wearing your safety hat! Lol!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
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HE WHO DARES WINS
well for one thing you shouldnt be giving advice in the form of FOOD products, this KAT can only understand so much :(
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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FS I will have no problem saying this to lady from the UK here, but dare I would say that to any other nationality..lol
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HE WHO DARES WINS
sameer, i appreciate your comment. will think about it.
Ahh DMS you da Man, just messing with you :)
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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you have all your advise incorporated in my posts. Any decision will end in two outcome, either you will be happy (and I hope for that) or you will be sorry (hope not!).
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
yes smoke you're hungry because its lunchtime, tired in reading all previous post and your imagination is not as sharp as before.... :)
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Why dont you try that here also..lol
When a filipino girl does not call me Sir then I get worried .. I think she is trying to flirt with me..lol
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HE WHO DARES WINS
that, UkEng, i see nothing wrong with it.. but this guy has the word flirt written all over his forehead... and his excuse is it's just one of his weaknesses? come on! that is so PATHETIC!
omg, that's mean, Smoke. older men are just as dangerous.
as I've said, no change since when I'm young and up to now. Yes, you right, I am old but still a sweet talker to ladies!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
Lol, UKEng, that's not what we're talking about here. this is a colleague of his who sweet talks to him too, and he sweet talks to her back.
nadz, thanks for sharing your thoughts. i will consider it.
FR.. from where i come from it is very common to call women nice word's.. For example like going the market to buy vegatable's and fruit from the market stalls....
I would say "ello Darling can I have I have 2lb of your toms (tomatoes) and 2lbs of your lovely cues (cucumbers) please, can you also give me two of you lovely melons and 2lbs of your juicy plums'
Nothing wrong with that is it?
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HE WHO DARES WINS
Solomon, i just remembered that you'll be celebrating your Silver jubilee soon, so see its really ok for u to sweet talk to the ladies as they see u as this "old man" who is being sweet and not as a pervert who is flirting with them. Its more like how women look at puppies and go "Awwwww thats so cute"
On the bright side...your still on a leash :D
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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when men sweet-talk to other ladies, my first impression for that would be he is flirting with that girl. But if he does that more than once to one girl, i think he's looking for another girlfriend already.
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
lol UkEng, there's no harm in that, if the only intention is to talk nicely.. but i think it's obvious as the broad daylight that it's more than that...
LOL, Smoke, that was funny. Am sorry but it's not me to flirt. I don't do what I consider wrong. So getting back at him is not my thing. It's that i want to be sure and sane, that whatever i decide, i can live up to the consequences of it.
lol DMS...
you'll get the wisdom on the following lines/post! Lol!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
mj I see no harm in talking to ladies nicely.. But I do get worried vice versa..lol :))
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UKEng, i will repeat a post here to answer your question. Would you consider words like, "Take care angel", "how are you honey", "nice to hear your sweet voice." harmless?
give him dose of his own medecine... my middle name is INSTINCT....:D
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it's second nature to me!!!! And that's MJ, who won't sweet talk to a sweet lady!!!!!!!!! hehehehehehe!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
Kareristang that made no sense at all but it just made me hungry :(
Solomon, flirting is a mistake? I dont think so a mistake is something u do once may be twice not over and over again. Secondly why not give him a taste of his own medicine? lets see how he takes it? right now he's just taking her for granted that he can flirt all he wants and at the end of the day she's gonna be waiting for him with arms wide open? Some men need to know when to NOT cross the line. Crucify him! Crucify him...oh wait wrong thread :p
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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UkEng.. it depends how nice we're talking about here... i think what FR describes here obviously reeks of flirting, and the guy thinks it's ok...
karerista, why is it that when men are fooling around, the first question is if their ladies are falling short? consider that the lady has given him her darnest best, but men still do fool around, don't they?
Lol Padre!!!!!!!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
karerista, why is it that when men are fooling around, the first question is if their ladies are falling short? consider that the lady has given him her darnest best, but men still do fool around, don't they?
ITS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT LADY I M SORRY 4 BEIN RUDE BUT ONE THNGS 4 SURE IF DERES NO TRUST ITS USELESS CONTINUIN.
but still follow your instinct! Lol!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
What harm is it in talking to ladies nicely?
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lol KP... :P
dms i saw u making sweet talking to mj.... when your playing TT...lol
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she just have to do it if she wants! How do they call it? Equal opportunities for men and women! Lol!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
dmigtysolomon, how come you are suggesting that i dump him because of his sweet talking, while you are appreciating that your wife has not left you for your sweet talking activities?
sameer, if you read the thread, i was trying to get insights from others to help me assess my situation. you are free not to. thanks for popping in anyway...
LOL DMS i forgot to say i was joking... :P
generally no but analyze what is the sidedish of the burger. Sometimes he wants with fries, sometimes with coleslaw, sometimes with ketchup sometimes w mustard.
Think of the pizza, the peperoni, all meat, garden fresh etc.
now can you imagine what are lacking?... :)
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the worst advise you can give. You can not correct a mistake by another mistake! lol!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
and then I sweet talk to her and voila......
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
as smoke said, try turning the tables on him, a dose of his own medicine.. see how he feels in your shoes and then tell him, it's just a tiny weakness of yours compared to all the good things you are...
y create an issue out of nothin if u dnt trust him dump him i suppose rather thn askin us u must knw ur man better.
are we talking about your BF or husband (looking at your profile)? Foolish advise, dump him and get another sweet talker! No, seriously, follow your instinct!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
his excuses are PATHETIC... just my opinion...
dmigtysolomon, or your wife is just far too forebearing, but do you know how she feels about it?
Like i said there are two ways to deal with him if thats how he thinks about his flirting...One is to counter attack him with his own dose of flirting...let him be on the receiving end of it and then tell him its harmless. Two, be straight forward and put ur foot down say that you dont like it, if he continues this he can kiss your behind good bye :)
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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hi mjamille, that's why i ask myself, is this guy a creep? or am i just being too hard on him? he said it's unfair to break up with him based on this one tiny weakness he has,compared to all the good things he is.
how much crap should i take? when is enough enough?
whether my wife is there or not. As TCOM said, it next to nature for me. But I am celebrating my silver anniversary this year aside from the four years we were sweethearts! It really depends on you guy!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
ST, he meant sweet talking i presume..
lol Smoke those were the days now you have more greener pastures to pursue then to spend time with me lol
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t_coffee, one lady? LOL, am not sure if there are other ladies, but as far as i know, there's one that outstands.
btw, t_coffee, what is ST?
it's time to knock some sense into his thick skull,... IMHO... all he's saying to you is full of crap..
hehehehehehe! Everytime I talk to ladies, all the ants are climbing up these ladies! Lol!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
Just another Broken heart :(
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ok, so u know he's doing it, he claims there is nothing wrong with it and keeps on doing it.. it may just be flirting from the start, some may see it that way, but one thing leads to another right? are you going to wait till the smoke turns into a fire? if you're not married, do something before you take another step that you're gonna regret in the future..if he's happy enough doing it over and over again and thinks it's ok, then what does that tell you of him..
nice insights, smoke, different levels of flirts..hmmm.. he would be the first one...sweet words, funny jokes, exchanging emails, telling stories about each other's day... it actually sounds like what we used to share when we were first coming together. this is why i am alarmed.
anyway, he said he doesn't go far, and that he's not cheating. i think it's emotional cheating, and it's BS to say that it's not wrong.
however, i am trying my best to open my mind to the fact that men are like that, checking if they are still up to the game bla bla, satisfying their ego, at the expense of the lady he said he loves, and who is faithful to him.
what say you...
TCOM your the master dude...i've learnt all my sweet talking from you oh Great Guru :p
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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BTW if he is ST and giving undue extra attention with only one lady then its time for trouble
BTW I sweet talk with all the ladies … Its my Nature
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on a regular basis? how about caught once or twice a week, but heaven knows what goes on when i am not present!
mjamille, this subject has been discussed before, but because he claims that there is nothing wrong with it, he keeps on doing it.
the reason i'm asking people here is to check, is it just me? or should i be forewarned?
Men's first instinct is to impress a woman if she's beautiful. Doesnt matter if he's got a gf or not. Now depending on the level of flirt he is...yes there are many levels..if he's a low level flirt then its just sweet words and sometimes stupid funny jokes thrown in between. The higher the level of confidence he has, the more he will flirt. Now keep in mind there are different types of men too, for eg, some men do it for the thrill to see how far he can go, it might not be to the bed, but its just to prove he still is able to stay in the game even after he has a gf. Some men just want to make their gf's jealous and if you'll notice these men will only put in extra effort to flirt when their gf's are around, coz to them they want u to pick up on it, to them its harmless as he knows ur there and its not in secret so there is no guilt trip.
So if your man is flirting with another woman infront of you, it just means u need to spice up things between you two, like make him jealous for a change, flirt with some other guy ;)
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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indeed... it may give you positive or negative result, just be prepared..
once it outside the bottle, expect everything!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
you will never get peace of mind if you keep it all bottled up inside you...
on a regular basis? Answer me honestly?
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
that fine line is just a linen! Once it drops, you should know the signal!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
and for the sake of peace of mind, the lady is expected to just trust (and hope) that his sweet talking does not progress to an affair, and be prepared to find out later that she's been played?
to the other ladies and to you, too FR dearest!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
There is a fine line between them and one can never know when that line will be crossed
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if it says something is fishy, confront your man. Just take precautions, all actions have positive and negative results, hope for the positive one!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
kareristang pinoy, is that fair?
mjamille28, thanks. i willput it in mind.
no it means he want pizza and not the usual dinner burger for tonights meal...;D
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i think it's about time you voice out your concern to him.. you may not get an honest answer, but at least you'll be able to tell him how you really feel.
It's hormonal... thats it.^_^
"I don't go back on my words, that's my way of ninja"
t_coffee... imagine trusting your man inspite of the fact that you know he is sweet talking/flirting with other ladies, then one day, you ask yourself, are you in denial, were you being blind? does trust really have anything to do with it?
while sweet talking!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
and women can't pick up the signals? which is why it's ok for men to flirt? i just don't get that...
they won't dare flirt with men! Men can easily catch the signal!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
Trust is the main factor
If your love is true and both trust each order nothing wrong in sweet talking
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dmigtysolomon, how about if it's your lady sweet talking men the same way, is that acceptable to you?
hehehe could be that he did something he shouldnt and is trying to cover up...
who knows ur b/f more than u? is his stylet o sweet talk? or is it out of the norm?
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hi t_coffee, i gave examples here....
thanks for popping in...
have sugar in your mouth while talking to a lady! Am I right? Lol!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
Can you define Sweet talk as it can mean so many things
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I would recommend 'grow nails'. If confrontations or direct talks don't work with your man(meaning you are disliking his getting cosy with other woman), a girl may discreetly hint by first scratching her nails on the nearest table or wall and those stern looks. If nothing works, you may date a tree instead.
i always sweet talk women. that's why im always mistaken as a womanizer, playboy so and so. but the truth is im NOT. and it's very hard to dismiss that in girls minds once they tagged you as one. so be careful guys. ;)
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"You cannot propel yourself forward by patting yourself on the back."
sweet talk as "Hi sweetheart", "Take care, Honey", Bye, Love". You'll just grow old fast! Lol!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
should always be alive and kicking! If you know your man, you know what you should do. We, gentlemen, can not and would never be rough with the beautiful opposite sex! Lol!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
Hi dmigtysolomon, means that it's ok because it's harmless? and until he actually sleeps with her, it's ok? how about words like "take care my angel", or "how are you honey?" is that harmless?
it's ok, goludumdum, you can answer the question too. if you're sweet talking other ladies while you have a gf, does that mean you are not that in love with your gf? i actually want to hear from both sides...
who behave like that. It's a normal thing to be sweet with other ladies. Unless you see us guys naked with another lady, just pretend you don't see it at all! Lol!!!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
he never does... :)
men's rule of thumb, is to never admit. but if your man is sweet talking other ladies, is that acceptable to you?
better ask him that in person,.. that way, you'll get a straight answer.. :))