Girl attempts suicide to try and save father

britexpat
By britexpat

Sad, tragic , but also a heartwarmer..

A teenage girl is critically ill in a Chinese hospital after attempting to commit suicide so that she could donate her liver to her dying father.

Chen Jin, 14, swallowed a massive overdose two days before the Chinese new year on January 25 and doctors are still trying to save her. A nurse at the Wuxi People’s Hospital told The Times: “Her condition is stable, but she is not yet out of danger.”

The girl’s tragedy began when doctors diagnosed terminal liver cancer in her father in December. Her parents decided to shield their daughter from the truth for as long as possible. A month later Chen Jin discovered a note in her mother’s handbag and learnt that her father had only three months to live.

On January 23 the teenager left the hospital for home after visiting her father. Her mother stayed behind. When she reached the house at around midday the following day she found the door locked and bolted and she was unable to get in. She forced her way in through a rear window to find her daughter in her bedroom.

Cui Lan, 43, told the local Modern Express: “I saw my daughter lying quite still as if she were dead with two empty bottles of sleeping pills beside her bed and a suicide note.” The note read: “Mum, I’m sorry I couldn’t stay with you any longer. Please give my liver to father after I die.”

The girl was taken to hospital where doctors twice pumped her stomach. But some ten hours were believed to have passed since Chen Jin swallowed about 200 sleeping pills and the drugs had largely been absorbed into her body.

She remained on life support. In desperation the hospital decided on a blood transfusion — a procedure usually only used on adults.

Finally, on January 28, the girl emerged from her coma. Doctors believed that she might be out of danger. Her family were not allowed into the intensive care unit to visit her but she even managed to write a note to her mother, saying: “Mum, I’m better now and I’ve even drawn two pictures! Dad, maybe tomorrow I can come to see you!”

Less than 48 hours later, Chen Jin again stopped breathing and doctors sought to revive her. A day later she again stopped breathing, prompting renewed frantic efforts to save her life.

Since then the girl has drifted in and out of consciousness and doctors said that if she survives she will need more surgery because she fell asleep on top of an electric blanket and the heat resulted in serious damage to the backs of her legs and her heels.

Her distraught mother, with her husband and only child just yards away from each other in the same hospital, told the local newspaper: “She loves her dad more than herself.”

The mother, a laid-off worker, is also anxious about how she will pay hospital bills that have already reached several hundred thousand yuan when she was already struggling to pay 100,000 yuan (£10,000) for treatment for her husband on an income of about 1,000 yuan a month.

Doctors and nurses at the hospital have donated 2,000 yuan and neighbours have given another 450 yuan.

One of China’s leading web portals, Sohu.com, has launched a financial appeal to raise money on behalf of the family.

By lamea• 8 Feb 2009 11:54
lamea

very sad!

By owen• 8 Feb 2009 11:43
owen

sigh... now the mother is left to handle two difficult situation.. :(

[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

By mjamille28• 8 Feb 2009 11:36
mjamille28

By dragonfly212• 8 Feb 2009 11:31
dragonfly212

Bless them GOD and I hope she get better and her father got donate liver.

Everybody is right everybody is wrong, it depend where you stand

By Intelligent• 8 Feb 2009 10:10
Intelligent

So touching. Waooo

Peace

By Scarlett• 8 Feb 2009 10:05
Scarlett

She meant well, even if it was quite skewed thinking to end her own life...Perhaps her father will find a donor before its too late for him and I hope the young girl comes through alright..

UK Eng..looks like you might be able to contact Sohu.com to make donations.

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.

By GodFather.• 8 Feb 2009 09:43
GodFather.

Britexpat where can we donate for this family?

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By Gypsy• 8 Feb 2009 09:23
Gypsy

I know. It's a sin.

By GodFather.• 8 Feb 2009 09:20
Rating: 4/5
GodFather.

Good point Gypsy.. then she is only 14..

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By Gypsy• 8 Feb 2009 09:03
Gypsy

I know this is going to sound bad...but didn't she know that if she overdosed using pills her liver would be useless to her father?

By SolidSnake9• 8 Feb 2009 08:40
SolidSnake9

Daughter's Courage...

By Andrews• 8 Feb 2009 08:34
Andrews

So touching...

" Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated"

....G.B. Shaw

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