in love with a lebanese

miles04
By miles04

i'm a filipina and very much in love with a lebanese friend. it it possible for me to marry him, or there a conflict that i gonna face someday...

By LeighLee• 28 Feb 2009 23:04
LeighLee

sorry but i have never met a faithful Lebanese run while you can and save yourself the heartache

By eman1996• 28 Feb 2009 22:20
eman1996

dear save yours skin try to marry in own community no future in this mix marriage only temporary arrangements were u wil go after qatar he wil not go wit u philpine nor u wil go wit him lebanon think well and decide

By beberavo• 28 Feb 2009 22:02
beberavo

Girl ... everything they say are hints and information that you need to process for you to be prepared and ready for anything you desire ...

remember ... you only pass this way but once, whichever path you take now will only become history of the past later, for whatever the effect of your decision now will only become part of your memory while you already fell the effects and you will never be able to change it...

By QaQc• 25 Jan 2009 12:36
QaQc

I got a filipina friend who was married to a lebanese guy. They're ok at the beginning, after 1 year the guy found another filipina and dump my friend.

If you are inlove with that guy, go for it!

Good luck!

By shajahan• 25 Jan 2009 12:12
shajahan

How can u marry a "FRIEND" babe?...firend is something differant form a life partner..is'nt it?

By greentea• 24 Jan 2009 23:27
Rating: 4/5
greentea

miles, think hundred times... ask yourself if you can live in his culture, with his family, with everything associated to him and vise versa... because i tell you, here in Doha is a different story when it's only the 2 of you,... but it is definitely different when yours and his family get involved after you get married.

By anonymous• 24 Jan 2009 23:02
anonymous

oh ya there is a big problem if u marry labanese bcoz after marriage u go to lebanon & get killed by Americans, that's y u marry me...............Ha Ha ha h a ha ...........

By AbuYousif.• 24 Jan 2009 23:00
AbuYousif.

Lets be a little honest here

do u think his neighbours and folks will go WOW when they see u ?

If ur answer is BIG yes then do it girl, otherwise try to flee

By toptenbeach• 24 Jan 2009 22:01
toptenbeach

Sorry miles !! but i'm lebanese,i want u to face the reality! it's an impossible thing to happen...

actually i do have a girl friend from filipines!!! by the way she's gr8 woman! BUT she will always be my girl friend...no more...

in the end,i agree with few guys who said that it depends on the specific case(man)...

good luck..live ur life...

By miles_away• 24 Jan 2009 21:49
miles_away

Nothing is impossible in this world, except of course if he is not interested marrying you...hey girl, defy everything just to be with the man you love. It is better to try something you really love to, it's the only way to find the answer. It is better than to grow old with the thought that what if I have tried it???Who knows, he is the ONE! We never know, unless we try.

By iukmchh• 24 Jan 2009 21:31
iukmchh

take care u will cry

By yaraaoude• 24 Jan 2009 20:41
Rating: 4/5
yaraaoude

Make sure that he's really committed to you.

I'm lebanese, and I know how lebanese men think.

I agree with some of the people who answered you.

His surrounding will find it awkward if married to a philipina.

But don't worry, I know many lebanese people who got married with philipinas, and they have kids too!!!

It depends of the guy! If he's really serious about you, go for it!

(make sure that he's not married)

By eliashamzo• 24 Jan 2009 18:21
eliashamzo

my opinion , that u r living ur dreams so much ... i am lebanese guy , and i m telling you honestly we are a play boy men ... so dont promise urself in things or even bother urself in things that will destroy ur hopes and by the way its very rare 1% to find a lebanese would go for that ... take care

By eiza• 24 Jan 2009 18:12
eiza

youre inlove with your friend.. but, is your friend inlove with you to marry you? you just said he is your friend.. not a boyfriend.. so why marry him?

By anonymous• 24 Jan 2009 18:03
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

it is hard to say and to face it but two people from deferent countries , deferent religion and deferent habits is hard to put under one roof and biggest problem comes if kids will come and two of you start to fight which way you are going to raise them !!

this is in the case you don't live with him in his country , where you will be for sure always "second" and last one whom he will ask her opinion or share life with.

My opinion Search someone from your own country

good luck

By BensoneRafiq• 24 Jan 2009 17:42
BensoneRafiq

Lame issue..............check yourself and think yourself. Put yourself on the shoes of the opposite and see what you think and find out yourself......

By thexonic• 24 Jan 2009 17:18
Rating: 2/5
thexonic

Wissamj has a good point. I agree with what he said.

By BensoneRafiq• 24 Jan 2009 17:07
Rating: 4/5
BensoneRafiq

Haven't you seen a lot of samples around you....you have it and they want it.....after that........you may have to find another.

Be wise when reading tricks, etc. Don't be so naive. This world is not true. True love is almost nil and what more merging 2 different worlds. Almost impossible unless there is some magic destined for you or you may end up cleaning the house forever.

Careful!

By abu nesma• 24 Jan 2009 16:56
Rating: 4/5
abu nesma

TAKE CARE HABIBI

By juandelacruz_qatar• 24 Jan 2009 16:50
juandelacruz_qatar

i'm a filipina and very much in love with a lebanese friend.

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i see your in love with your friend?

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it it possible for me to marry him, or there a conflict that i gonna face someday.

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if your friend wants to marry you? NO PROBLEM

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By LEB-XPAT• 24 Jan 2009 16:44
LEB-XPAT

arecel is right

By SolidSnake9• 24 Jan 2009 16:37
SolidSnake9

I agree with arecel! Think Smart Girl!

By arecel• 24 Jan 2009 16:31
Rating: 4/5
arecel

miles04, check with his parents and relatives. the filipinas who are in lebanon mostly work as housemaids so usually lebanese have this notion that filipinas mean khadamas, unless of course they worked outside lebanon. so old folks might not allow their son to marry you. let's face it, no relationship can storm where families don't like the partner, unless both partners are really, really committed to each other. good luck!

By SolidSnake9• 24 Jan 2009 16:27
SolidSnake9

hahaha! Isn't it supposed to be his problems, not yours? Ask your parents and do the right thing. Good Luck!

By modern wonderer• 24 Jan 2009 16:20
modern wonderer

run baby run......

By wissamj• 24 Jan 2009 16:16
Rating: 5/5
wissamj

Ok, since im lebanese i will give my opinion in this case.

First as you know lebanese are mostly open minded and open to any culture around, but for sure some issues like religion might still be an obstacle in the path of marraige especially for the old parents..so if you are from same religion then i think the first part of the problem is done..

REgarding your nationality, i know philipinas are not widely spread among our lebanese society and they are in lower working posts (not as in qatar) but still if you are a good person who cherish hima nd he loves you in return then there is nothin on earth which could affect your relation ship negatively...

keep in mind, ppl always nag about the unfamiliar, but in a while they adapt and consider it just okay...

Fight for your love no matter wat lady

Gd luck !!!

(byzway, i dont mean to be Naughty but lebanese are really good loving and even making love ;))

Again Gd luck !

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