To love or not to love.....anymore
Guys I am new her in QL though i have been working here for quite sometime now, i dont know if i am into the right forum, but anyways here goes my my story....I met this cool guy, at first we were friends we used to go out together almost every night, whenever he needs company he'll call me and in a matter of minutes i'll be there no matter what i am into or doing....to make the story short we have become friends best of friends that is, neither one of us goes out if the other is not available that is how close we are, until one night we went out for a shisha we had fun, we were so happy exchanging thoughts about our future plans, having family and eventually having children until our conversation had become so serious, so serious that we are looking straight to each other's eyes and suddenly HE kissed me and told me the he like me, to my surprised, i was startled and confused, I asked him why and he said He doesnt know, its like magic....eventually i gave up, i said I like him too...all went along well except for few petty quarrels we had, jealousy and all that stuuf until one day he admitted that before me, he was seeing another guy but had sworn to God he was not talking to him for almost 3 years until one day i caught him chatting over YM and to my surprised this guy is viewing him, then I asked him but he dnied talking to him but I asked him how come that you allowed him to view your webcam if your not talking to him but prior to that i have had few doubts about their communication, i mean i know they have been communicating especially when He is on his vacation, but I trusted him and never asked him why....we had a big fight yesterday about this because he keeps on denying about their secret communication, for me i dont have any problem knowing he is still talking to this guy what i cant accept is that he is lying to me knowing that i know very well that they still have communication ...we had fight and he told me that i am free now that he doesnt need someone who has no trust to him....i tried to explain to him everything, but it seems his heart had become so cold and numb about my explanations...I still love him though but i dont know where I stand now...pls help....by the way this guy is from Egypt.....I am leaving doha soon but i dont want to leave with a heavy heart......
P.S. based on my story you might be asking about my sexual orientation....read between the lines pls....but i am not the normal type of person society has known about us....i am very much discreet not only because i am here in this ultra conservative country but i choose to be discreet because i want people to respect me for what i am, and i am not ashamed to tell the whole world my sexual orientation.
Really mallrat - I thought she was sad %). (Just kidding).
.flan, only devil wears prada, lol..
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Bit of Bareback mountain doha Style! Try one of the Bollywood boys as most of them are gay..... Yippee, Yippeee, its Bombay gin for me!
Oh the usual love story between two gay men..........
.mom_me, baby is very gay.....
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Literally! Yippee, Yippeee, its Bombay gin for me!
I tried reading between the lines but it is all blank. Must be my weak eyesight. So since you are not ashamed to tell your sexual orientation - what is it ?
mallrat, you're gonna throw your prada purse huh??
.what handbag? you mean prada?
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hit him with your handbag.
to every one: i am truly sorry for whatever this topic may have caused i did not post this to glorify my sexual preference neither to get famous, like i said i am new here in QL though i have been reading so many topics posted....i never thought i would seek strange people advise about my situation but here i am asking for everyone's opinions....thanks for the opinions, for those whose advise is heartwarming, thank you...for those whose opinions and reactions are not so good...thanks also...i appreciate it...
EPIC FAIL
you made the right choice... it's good that you cut the communication... things will be easier...just go on with your life... only you can make yourself happy..you don't need anyone...
mmmmmm interesting. Two things come to mind. First, seems to be an issue of frankness all around. The guy you write about doesnt seem to know how to be frank with himself let alone you. And second, discretion. Shouldn't ones sexual orinetaion always be discrete? whether hertero, homo, bi or whatever? After all isnt discretion what gives sex its lure?
coelacanth, its not that i chose to be discreet only to gain respect but by acting normal makes me more comfortable, i have nothing against those who screams and shout to the whole world who they are, it's their choice.....i know for a fact that there would be no happy endings in this kind of relationship but still it affects me coz i have loved this guy as normal people do, i am not even hoping for us to be together forever...just now his trusted friend called me and told me he seem to be regretting all the things he said yesterday...he was trying to call me but i did not answer its not becoz i dont want to talk to him, i dont want to be hooked up again and be hurt for the nth times.....i am sorry if i have caused any confusion in here i dont mean to its just that i wanted your opinions...
hay, coelacanth take it from here... i give up... 3 is enough... im outta... bye all...
BABY81520 just think about this... once you give your trust to someone... that means you're allowing that someone to hurt you...
Coelacanth is right...there is no such things as happy ending... that kind of relationship is not meant to lasts.. and im sure u know that... like what u said..you are leaving doha soon..well that's good for you.. things will be a lot easier for you to forget..
So BABY81520 ...what is your Question?
You dont know where you stand? in Doha, Qatar.
So you guys did it? Howmany times? with condom or without....Give us the juicy details.....
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coelacanth- same confusion.
I don't see the point here: choosing to be discreet because you want people to respect you and you are not ashamed to tell everyone about your sexual orientation??? which is which? If you are not ashamed, why be discreet? if you're discreet, why not be ashamed?
accept the reality...there is no REAL feelings between you and your guy. No real feelings = no happy endings. That's the fact of life. Men are made for women, and vice versa.
It's not because things are difficult that we don't dare, it's because we don't dare that makes things difficult!
Freedom of expression, that is, charan.
3 in a row,.. i think im gonna throw up...
chocolate being discreet I mean not is loud ( like those screaming faggots does in castro St. back in Cali), not acting as the usual homo does, but when somebody asked me about my preference i will tell them with all honesty...
MagicDragon - QL getting better and better by every minute :))))))))))))))))))
Ban Spoon Feeding not Me
hold on coelacanth.... now where's that bazooka?
alright, mjamille...want to give it a go? hehehe.
It's not because things are difficult that we don't dare, it's because we don't dare that makes things difficult!
aarrghh, good thing im finishing here in about half an hour...
The whole world is in a financial crisis. They will give a sh*t about your "sexual orientation", whether it is East or West, North or South.
WTH??? That's 3 already in one day.... what to do...
QL should have a new section- 'Love issues'.
BABY- what r u exactly- being discreet or not ashamed to tell the whole world?
Youre leaving doha soon-Good luck, farewell,
Why should u have a heavy heart?. Move on with ur life- whichever direction u want