Dear Friend I need your advise
My cousin and I are very good friends eversince we are child we are like BROTHERS we are both working here in qatar, he works in doha near Salwa Road and I worked in Ras laffan. but i also live in doha. My cousin's company hired a new secretary for him. To make the story short they become friends then he started courting her but unfortunately up to now he is still in the stage of courting. Then one day he called me and asked for my help so i became the bridge for them. But i didn't expect that the girl told me that he dont love my cousin and she's falling in love with me. knowing that im already married. I dont know how to tell my cousin that the girl he loves so much is falling in love with me. After her revelation what she feels for me i Think im also falling in love with her......Please advise.......
WALLAH ! life is a comedy,..... life is a drama ........ i really love reading all your advices to this dessert man.... i may say that hes got what hes asking for.... so leave him alone in the dessert and try to solve his own problem.... anyways.... highways.... hes a grown up man.... let him go but remember this "
"SOME LESSONS ARE BEST LEARNED THRU PAIN ....SOMETIMES OUR VISIONS CLEAR ONLY AFTER OUR EYES ARE WASHED WITH TEARS..... :-))))))))))
Good morning dear friend in the site
wanna hear from us right?.
T. Y. too
Be yourself and live free
However, i also know that if "her indoors" ever found out, I would probably bbe walking with a limp and theer would be a pair of B**ls hanging on the door frame..
DW.. You need to think with your brain and not your pecker..
I thank you all for your comments and advice...
I hope that this kind of situation will not happen to all of you. and if it does, I will be the first one to answer.....Thanks and god bless you all people.
no problem, it is very easy man
go to Salwa road front of Jareer book store at 4:30 pm or am
a Karwa Bus will pass from there (should be Mercedes Benz Not Tata bus)
just throw ur self front of it (u will relax ur self and other)
Don`t Love me be my friend
Desert warrior ...enjoy it while it lasts......Cause it doesnt last for ever....
....better still have a MFM threesome ....should make all people happy :)
you know what is right and wrong. you dont have to ask... because for sure, everybody won't tolerate your decision. your cousin vs the girl which u just met and u just became the bridge. try to recall the word RESPECT. TRUST. DELICADEZA. for sure you'll know where to place your self in.
Yeah, we should close this topic because this POOR GUY will not listen to whatever we are saying because WE DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT HE'S GOING THRU. It's called DENIAL.
Just a piece of advice to you, Salad Bar Warrior:
THINK! You know the answer to your question, but instead you want to look the other way.
It's not because things are difficult that we don't dare, it's because we don't dare that makes things difficult!
she's in no mind at all....
i'm not talking about women in general, mjamille. The woman knew already that he is married, but still she entertains the thought of being in relation with him. Is she in a sound mind or what?
It's not because things are difficult that we don't dare, it's because we don't dare that makes things difficult!
Shove it ok. Yippee, Yippeee, its Bombay gin for me!
U'VE DONE A LOT OF ADVICES GUYS IT'S UP TO HIM...DON'T WASTE OUR VALUABLE TIME ON THIS CHEAP(sorry mislead my tongue)ISSUE....
Be yourself and live free
"alleviating the suffering of other woman"... who says we are suffering?
If she is liable to fall in love with a married man then she's obviously no good for you or your cousin.
Send her to my place please :)
just eat another pie
I got a good one for you:
You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery'; but I say to you, that everyone who looks on a woman to lust for her has committed adultery with her already in his heart. (NAS, Matthew 5:27-28)
Got that? What else do you want to ask?
It's not because things are difficult that we don't dare, it's because we don't dare that makes things difficult!
Tell your cousin and stay away from the girl. What ur cousin does after that is his choice.
Dessert Warrior said Try to read this ...
"A man that talks too much accomplishes little"
this one is better:
A man who thinks on cheating his wife accomplishes nothing.
It's not because things are difficult that we don't dare, it's because we don't dare that makes things difficult!
I am suprised u said that when I am told u r always stuffing your face with puddings. Fat person! YUk!Yippee, Yippeee, its Bombay gin for me!
PSSST! STOP! WASN'T FUNNY...EITHER
Be yourself and live free
generous in alleviating the suffering of other woman...by CHEATING ON HIS WIFE!!!! Go home and put some chilli powder on your D*ck, this way, it will alleviate your desire.
Alexa, if it's not pathetic, it's STUPIDITY! Asking for advice thinking that people will "understand" his situation. Give me your wife's no and i'll ask her myself.
It's not because things are difficult that we don't dare, it's because we don't dare that makes things difficult!
A man that talks too much accomplishes little.
"A man that talks too much accomplishes little"
Alexa.. with dessert, I think. He's trying to be generous with dessert.
That makes more sense. csi.
Try to examined your self, you alone can decide, i think you just trying to be generous...do you....better stay from trouble.
Be yourself and live free
"crazy world"
I tried to draw him if he doesnt understand :):)
no need for pro's and con's.... cheating on your wife are all con's.... just do the right thing,... you know what it is already...
I think you got enough advices, you are grown man nobody can decide instead of you. Put on a papper what do you have right now, what you can get and most important is what you can loose.
Most of you lot will never ever fly business ir First on QA but just in case you ever do I strongly advise that you read QAs Guidleines for Farting for First and Business class Passengers.:
It is considered to be offensive to pass wind in First or Business Class so should the need arise First and business Class passengers are requested to walk slowly backwards into Economy and let rip when they reach there. I think that this is a wonderful policy which was given much thought by the Board of QA. Apparently they felt that Economy passengers stink in any case so the addition of the odd First or Business class fart wouldnt mmake much difference. Yippee, Yippeee, its Bombay gin for me!
Simple...since you told her that you're married, STAY AWAY FROM HER. Unless you want to have a piece of her, then don't ask for advice. Don't think that people in this forum will pity you because you're "good with girls"...you know what to do, you just don't want to do it. Imagine your wife doing the same thing for you...getting in bed with your friend? As what they said, you're a grown up man. BE A MAN! Your brain is in your head, not in your testicles.
It's not because things are difficult that we don't dare, it's because we don't dare that makes things difficult!
i'm sure the wachowski brothers would be interested.
All I can say is Thank you for those people who understands me.....and Understand how I feel right now...I am just looking for someone to talk to then i end up here in QL.
almost janey? i think i smelled it from here lol... or was that marhabtain?
getting back on the subject, i think we all gave the same advice (except for marhabtain's immoral advice)... you are a married man, period...
Marhabtain, that was too funny it almost made me fart.
this is just disgusting. what about your wife? are you ok man? leave this girl alone and mind your business.
help your cousin and stay out of this mess.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Are you a big fat slob who fights over puddings? You have an odd name do you see! A Dessert is, for example, A Sherry Trifle, Om Ali etc etc etc Shove some more in your face Fat boy! Yippee, Yippeee, its Bombay gin for me!
Dessert Warrior, (sic) although you are married your profile says that one of your interests is "Girls." Perhaps your on-going openess to other relationships has led you into this trouble. As others have counseled, you should focus on your marriage. If your feelings have not been declared thus far then you should be able to solve this problem gracefully by ignoring them.
Mandi
You're a grown man, you decided to come here and you have reasons why you went abroad. Now stick to that or else your life will really be chaotic onwards. That's what being a grown up is all about, right?
and we did give you our advice, didn't we...
I only put that in my profile Document Controller turned actor/Song writer...just to make people happy when they read it. Im the kind of person who always like to tell funny jokes.... I dont want to be judge by others.I want only your advice
Hmmmm, good idea to make some tele novela
married... there you go,.. stick to the wife will yah? dont make your life complicated...
Why dont all 3 of 'em jump into the sack! Sounds good to me! Yippee, Yippeee, its Bombay gin for me!
You are even more afraid of your cousin rather than putting your marriage at stake?
This is what showbiz has done to you.... sadly.
Why does this twit call himself Dessert Warrior? Does he fight with a fruit trifle or something? Does he mean Desert? Duh Yippee, Yippeee, its Bombay gin for me!
SN, he might also try "Gone with the Wind".
Yes,Married.......That is why its like putting a 10 inch screw with a screw driver in my head everytime im trying to solve this problem...And what if my cousin found out?...Men its hard being good to women.
Turned Actor/ Songwriter?? Oh wow! No wonder this woman has fallen in love with you........ csi. Oops, word vomit.
2 points..
1) You're already married, you have to re-think why you are here in Qatar in the first place.
2) So, you just started to have feelings for her when she confessed to you? That seems to me that you kind of have low self-esteem?
Urmm... Maybe you should just rekindle you sweet times with the wife. You are here for your family, non?
Vukita, did he say he was married?
Maybe he needs to re-take Marriage 101.
------------Virgos dont like chaos, gerrit? ----------
Did you say you are married?
Have you tried reading a Mills and Boon book? that should help you solve the problem!