WHEN DO WE SAY IM SORRY... CAN WE SAY IM SORRY WHEN YOU HURT SOMEBODY OR WE CAN SAY IM SORRY COZ THATS WHAT THE GROUP SAYS OR WHAT THE GROUP WANTS... WHEN DO WE SAY IM SORRY AND WHY?
It is not because of your criticism of the group that you were unsubscribed from the forum. In fact we have let your criticism (though unfair) run through its course until this time.
However, it was due to your own declaration )(please read your post: http://www.qatarliving.com/node/132239)..... To quote:
"I realize that this is not the group that I'm looking for but thank you anyway"
So I do not understand why you are so bitter that you were unsubscribed and blame the admin for it when you requested it? Please be fair and think before you post.
To the others, I hope this will be the last reply to this. It is not healthy anymore.
yeah, if someone steps on my foot, first i would say: excuse me, you step on my foot.. and when the person take his foot away, i would say something like: SORRY for interrupting your pleasure, eh?...
trust me hummer3, i have read all the comments therein..and encountered several issues in similar way...you should have seen the earlier days..
but there are guidelines that you must understand, yes you are entitled to your opinion, positive or negative but we got rules that some need not to be aired on board... we still have some restrictions on this site that we have to follow...
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seems to me it might be the way you express the opinions, we all can agree or disagree on here thats free but you need to do it in a decent way and not resort to insults and the likes.
you have to say sorry and be sincere for that..if you cant do that better not say it. for me, there is a time for a saying sorry...what matters is you mean from the heart..
owen, read the threads in the group and they are pointing fingers on me because I didnt please them! you want constructive criticisms?? saying criticisms in a good or bad way is the same..it hurts a lot if its true. and now because they didnt want to read negative comments they removed my subscription from the group? i dont want to post negative comments from that group in public forums that others from other nationalities might read. I am entitled to my own opinion and ideas, i will say anything good or bad... and then i guess what will be their next step? ban me from QL?
Hummer, you wrote it yourself that you have said saome bad comments on a particular group here in QL. Whether you have said/wrote pertaining to a group or an individual, as long as it is not good, and if you did hurt those people's feelings, I guess you really owe them an apology.
hummer H3... no one asked you to say sorry if only you didn't hurt anyone's feeling..now opening a question like this means you are somehow reconsidering the thought of saying this word, right?
you may have mentioned a lot of issues on the group you are referring here, in some way really uncalled for or without basis at all...and naturally members would react and would not just easily accept it..
btw, every comments are accepted this is a public forum, good or bad...if only your bad comments was done in good taste (if you know what i mean)..
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guys, picture this, I have said bad comments in a group here they kick me off because I didnt want to say sorry. For me, what i've said are all true, they just dont know how to accept negative comments..they just want to read all positive comments, how can that be?
but if we are genuinely and truly sorry then saying it is easy. Hurting someone, sometimes sorry the word isn't enough we have to prove it in our actions too.
Well done RP for your public apology, it takes a man to admit he is wrong bravo!!!! :)
we can say sorry if only we are genuinely sorry for our mistakes... we should not fake it up just for the heck of saying it inorder for us not to feel guilty of something we did...it should be from the heart..
we should remember that it could happen to us too someday...
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apologies accepted.....
Usually when I cant pick the other person, I cant hear him well enuf, so I'm like... I'm sorry!
Lately the world is being populated by elf's, dwarfs and many other mystical creatures.....
To course others, without using the original words is the artistic challenge.
"If we are going to solve the challenges we face - we can't vacillate - we can't shift depending on our politics"
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If they don't like you, don't be. The world is big. Plenty of options. Find your own. Easy.
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Good answer! I guess you never course at anyone in your life, when no other options are available.
"If we are going to solve the challenges we face - we can't vacillate - we can't shift depending on our politics"
Barack Obama
When you're single, you only say sorry when the circumtances demand it.
When yu're married you say sorry to get out of sticky situations or ofcourse to get sme "makeup se*"
Briteexpat said:
Actually, as a married person, i am used to saying this on regular basis.
Then, what other words you use, when you was single?
"If we are going to solve the challenges we face - we can't vacillate - we can't shift depending on our politics"
Barack Obama
Sorry or no sorry, the harm is done, so forgive and forget you guys ..........
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oh..he said that on the other thread too..there are lots of saints here? hahaha!!!
that's a good one!
but i guess, can't help it ROFL!!! hehehehe
sori, but can't help it really, coz dat's a gud one...
sorry!
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SORRY MR. HUMMER. YOU ARE A SAINT AND WHAT ALL YOU ARE SAYING IS RIGHT. uLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLL!!
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who made your own declaration.
FROM TREYSDAD's POST:
(please read your post: http://www.qatarlivi...)..... To quote: "I realize that this is not the group that I'm looking for but thank you anyway"
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SO YOU MEAN ALECSCOTTLAND ALSO UNSUBSCRIBED FROM THE GROUP, OR IT IS BECAUSE WE HAVE THE SAME VIEWS THATS WHY YOU KICKED US OFF THE FILEXPAT GROUP...
treysdad I DIDNT UNSUBSCRIBE YOU KICK ME OFF THE FILEXPAT GROUP, YOU ARE SO UNFAIR, IM NOT CRITICISING THE GROUP IM JUST TELLING THE TRUTH...
Let me ge this straight.. There is a person stepping on your foot , whilst plasuring.........eeeeeeeeeek
It is not because of your criticism of the group that you were unsubscribed from the forum. In fact we have let your criticism (though unfair) run through its course until this time.
However, it was due to your own declaration )(please read your post: http://www.qatarliving.com/node/132239)..... To quote:
"I realize that this is not the group that I'm looking for but thank you anyway"
So I do not understand why you are so bitter that you were unsubscribed and blame the admin for it when you requested it? Please be fair and think before you post.
To the others, I hope this will be the last reply to this. It is not healthy anymore.
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yeah, if someone steps on my foot, first i would say: excuse me, you step on my foot.. and when the person take his foot away, i would say something like: SORRY for interrupting your pleasure, eh?...
i got to earn my paycheck tonight, sorry
"If we are going to solve the challenges we face - we can't vacillate - we can't shift depending on our politics"
Barack Obama
errr RP, you've been a member of QL since when? only yesterday? you have violated and humored me more than enough of this guidelines... :D
we can discuss this on your confession booth.. you joining tonight? :P
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Since we are in a political correctness mood, Could you inform us,
What are those restrictions?
and very good afternoon to you..
"If we are going to solve the challenges we face - we can't vacillate - we can't shift depending on our politics"
Barack Obama
trust me hummer3, i have read all the comments therein..and encountered several issues in similar way...you should have seen the earlier days..
but there are guidelines that you must understand, yes you are entitled to your opinion, positive or negative but we got rules that some need not to be aired on board... we still have some restrictions on this site that we have to follow...
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Just keep tanning.......
"If we are going to solve the challenges we face - we can't vacillate - we can't shift depending on our politics"
Barack Obama
seems to me it might be the way you express the opinions, we all can agree or disagree on here thats free but you need to do it in a decent way and not resort to insults and the likes.
you have to say sorry and be sincere for that..if you cant do that better not say it. for me, there is a time for a saying sorry...what matters is you mean from the heart..
owen, read the threads in the group and they are pointing fingers on me because I didnt please them! you want constructive criticisms?? saying criticisms in a good or bad way is the same..it hurts a lot if its true. and now because they didnt want to read negative comments they removed my subscription from the group? i dont want to post negative comments from that group in public forums that others from other nationalities might read. I am entitled to my own opinion and ideas, i will say anything good or bad... and then i guess what will be their next step? ban me from QL?
Hummer, you wrote it yourself that you have said saome bad comments on a particular group here in QL. Whether you have said/wrote pertaining to a group or an individual, as long as it is not good, and if you did hurt those people's feelings, I guess you really owe them an apology.
Just a thought....
hummer H3... no one asked you to say sorry if only you didn't hurt anyone's feeling..now opening a question like this means you are somehow reconsidering the thought of saying this word, right?
you may have mentioned a lot of issues on the group you are referring here, in some way really uncalled for or without basis at all...and naturally members would react and would not just easily accept it..
btw, every comments are accepted this is a public forum, good or bad...if only your bad comments was done in good taste (if you know what i mean)..
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
thought it was just a general question, didn't realise it was personal.
guys, picture this, I have said bad comments in a group here they kick me off because I didnt want to say sorry. For me, what i've said are all true, they just dont know how to accept negative comments..they just want to read all positive comments, how can that be?
is it the greater person who apologises or the one who accepts the apology???.........wonders???
I'm sorry.
Actually, as a married person, i am used to saying this on regular basis.
someone stands on my foot and I say sorry!!!.......now whats that all about lol
i always say sorry, no matter whether it's my fault or not... also i say sorry 'just in case'...:)
but if we are genuinely and truly sorry then saying it is easy. Hurting someone, sometimes sorry the word isn't enough we have to prove it in our actions too.
Well done RP for your public apology, it takes a man to admit he is wrong bravo!!!! :)
also when u feel pathetic
and saying sorry is NOT A SIGN OF WEAKNESS
saying sorry is not a sign of cowardness
We are saying sorry because we did mistake.
But think of it, if we really mean saying it from the bottom of our heart to a person we hurt, THEN WHY DO WE NEED TO SAY IT AGAIN? (sorry for caps)
Saying this word is a sign of being humble
"Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are"
I'm asking you for your forgiveness and your willingness to accept my apologies for my intrusions and manners in the past in QL towards you.
That will be my whole heartedly spoken apology in public.
Will that be sufficient to restitute my friendship with you or at least to settle our peace among ourselves?
"If we are going to solve the challenges we face - we can't vacillate - we can't shift depending on our politics"
Barack Obama
it has to be wholeheartedly spoken...
we can say sorry if only we are genuinely sorry for our mistakes... we should not fake it up just for the heck of saying it inorder for us not to feel guilty of something we did...it should be from the heart..
we should remember that it could happen to us too someday...
I don't know......I am sorry:)