Love and Life...Quite Interesting...
Trust Me People, I dont put up things on Love and stuff early morning, but this one caught my eye...
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LOVE & LIFE
This story tells us something about LOVE & LIFE.
My husband is S/W Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady
nature and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad
shoulders.
Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would
have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me
loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my
restlessness.
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a
relationship and my feelings. I yearn for the romantic moments, like
a little girl yearning for candy. My husband is my complete opposite;
his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic
moments into our marriage has disheartened me about LOVE.
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a
divorce.
"Why?" he asked, shocked.
"I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the world!" I
answered.
He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My feeling
of disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to
even express his predicament, so what else could I expect from him?
And finally he asked me: "What can I do to change your mind?"
Somebody said it right... It's hard to change a person's personality,
and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.
Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered: "Here is the question.
If you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind.
Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff,
and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death.
Will you do it for me?"
He said: "I will give you your answer tomorrow...." My hopes just
sank by listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper
with his scratchy handwriting underneath a milk glass, on the dining
table near the front door, that goes....
My dear, "I would not pick that flower for you, but....please allow
me to explain the reasons further.....
This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.
"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs,
and you cry in front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that
I can help to restore the programs.
You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs
to rush home to open the door for you.
You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to
save my eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches
every month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in
your tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by
infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and
stories to cure your boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for
your eyes. I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can
help to clip your nails and help to remove those annoying white
hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach,
as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand...and tell you the
colour of flowers, just like the colour of the glow on your young
face...
Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you
more than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die ... "
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting.
.. and as I continue on reading... "Now, that you have finished
reading my answer, and if you are satisfied, please open the front
door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh
milk...
I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching
tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread....Now I am
very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I
have decided to leave the flower alone...
That's LIFE, and LOVE. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of
excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that
lies in between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms; even in very small and cheeky forms. It
has never been a model. It could be the dullest and most boring form
...
Flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface
of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love
stands... AND THAT'S LIFE
Thats alright 1 Round should do good my friend...LOL!!!
OK, BUT ONLY 1 ROUND!
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If you see evil in others, it is actually the reflection of your own evil feelings
Ofourse rightly put so my friend words work more magic if used in the right way...thru the ACTIONS that we perform and I am sure for all you Muslims out there, your dear and near Allah is indeed there to look after you and hopefully fill all the hearts with LOVE my friend...
Now I deserve a round of applause for such nice words...dont I...Dracula!!!LOL!!!
not a turncoat..
but..if the flower it's near you...it's ok :)
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Look at this nice story:
" Ï would love to hear from both Brothers and Sisters as how they have said or been told that "I love you".
I find love a special gift Allah Subhana wataala has given us.
I would like to share with you the a special part of my life.
It was a long country drive with my wife. I saw from the corner of my eye a Single Sun Flower standing tall on the side of the road.
I asked my wife to close her eyes and turned back to pick it off the road. She franticly asked "what is it what is it?"
I picked it and ran back into the car. I stared at her and thanked Allah for a lovely relationship.
When I presented the flower, the smile on her face I will never forget for the rest of my life.
The words "I love you” where not required.
May Allah fill our hearts with his love?"
Well recently somebody asked me what is my opinion on the lastingness of Love MArriages and Arranged Marriages, not that I fancy anything over the other, cos according to me, whatever is written for you ends up happening, and offlate I aint going to be falling in Love...but anyways thats besides the point...
Well I told them ofcourse this has to be taken with a touch of humour to it...
Love marriages, well you see a girl, play a few good lines, fall for her, she falls for you, all that you just said above happens, and then hang around for a few years, then get married, and then fight with the house saying this is the person you want to marry and thats FINAL...and then once you get married, since you know so much about the partner, you start to take things for granted, and then the whole misery cycle starts..."You aint talking to me, you dont love me anymore, you took me there before marriage, you took me here...but now after marriage, all you go to is work and then come back home tired and i m being treated like a sex machin...o f**K what not crap gets into the ways of the !TWO!...Terrible, and things get so tough to deal with that they end up in DIVORCE!!! Whose mistake...YOURS!!!
On the other hand, ARRANGED MARRIAGE...which is loosing importance and popularity in today's NEW AGE INDIA for example...is rather a touch more interesting...scenario...
You look up matrimonials, websites, information agencies, friends, relative circles, etc etc...pass the word around that your child is ready for marriage and then a few proposals come your way, your parents look thru them, pass on the details, vice-versa happens...things move slowly onto the next stage, check for basic compatibility based on STars, Astrology and crap, and then if things go to the next step, then you enter the scene, look at the girl, meet the girl, talk to her...and then see if there is a bit of compatibility factor in between the both...and then if you think she is pretty, and alright,then say ok... and then a few mnths before marriage, you guys start talking to each other, getting close to each other, trying to put in efforts to understand the person...and then marriage, wedding bells are sounded vivaciously, and in a grand fashion, all are happy, parents, family, relatives, and all the social specimens...(LOL), then comes the time that you need to work the magic of words and love after marraige and then my friend, there is just so much to learn about your partner that you wont have time to take the person for granted, and then aLL is fair...and all ends or rather continues in BLISS...(ofcourse in a situation that things dont work out, God Forbid, you always have your parents to blame...LOL!!!)
So you see, two sides of the coins...
Its I think, essential for a couple to have that element of TRUST, COMPATIBILITY And the attitude that you dont take the person for GRANTED...which can still work the MAGIC OF LOVE AND LIFE!!!
Dont you think...?
It just shows that people have different ways of showing love. It may not be the picture perfect way we expect and thats fine. Because it is always equally as passionate.
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
*tears in my eyes*.... fine kill me for being like this.. :P
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This is nice for men to use an excuse not to express their love. I mean women dont want that wild flower but just small things that show love. I guess we all need to told that we are loved and expect a few romantic gestures now n then.
Maybe just those first few moments of a relationship can seem like "true love," where the two are so in love with each other that they don't see any flaws, they think the other is completely perfect, they can't imagine themselves with anyone else, they can't think of any way they could stop wanting to be with each other, they think they won't have any problems, because their love and desire for each other will overcome everything. A magical feeling, all in all.
But of course that's completely fake, and soon enough that blissful state of mind fades away to break-ups and divorces. And then they become bitter and disillusioned and say things like "there's no such thing as love." Then the cycle repeats itself.
Such is the state of our society
PS: is it societal or simply human nature?
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you may be fine...
but...
IM MORPHINE!!!!!!!!!!!
Mate, dont you think I know that it makes you a miserable soul...Now out of all, you atleast should know that it does make (ME) a Miserable soul...LOL!!!
Khanan, well you better tell Bhabhi that it was from me, so maybe she can find a nice Paki Kudi for me, LOL!!! Dont you dare take away all the credit from me alright...LOL!!!
And Dracula...well Lol!!! I know tell ya about it, this guy put it in a way that it melts the women, but the ultimate bottom line, freaking hell no I aint bringing a damn flower in return of ma life, f%$K off Instead...LOL!!!
:)
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If you look at what you do not have in life;
You don't have anything.
If you look at what you have in life;
You have everything.
its all f***in craaaaaaaap nothing else only makes you a miserable soul.
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a good read and saved a copy to be latter shown to the MoI....:)
cheers KSA...
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If you look at what you do not have in life;
You don't have anything.
If you look at what you have in life;
You have everything.
For all those romantic freaks let this be a lesson for you.....
pykester
Infantile autism lol, that made me laugh.
If anyone ever asked me if I'd pick a hypothetical flower at a top of a mountain for them (forget risking my life in the process), I'd slap them upside the head. What is that?
This hypothetical flower (that will die after a week at MOST) is worth more than my life????
Oh hell no.
Bring me those divorce papers! :)
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Well out of all who would have posted a reply, I didnt expect YOUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!LOL!!!!!!!!!
Well surely my friend, you know very well, for me I dont believe in Love, I believe in Life, but this one was quite interesting not to say the least so I thought put it in here...
ah Darude, but it makes everything better....
now whats this all about. love isnot everything in life.
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