friend with live-in partner

jamjong
By jamjong

my friend have i think doing bad things here in qatar... but she's denying that she is living with that egyptian man but i saw that they are living with one apartment only... if i am asking what is there relationship she's telling me nothing what will i do with this friend of mine?

By Dracula• 16 May 2008 17:52
Dracula

QT, if you are leaving Doha, our pact regarding " QL - Rid list" it's null( an agreement not executed by one of the parties)

:-)

By QT• 16 May 2008 17:50
QT

I'm not leaving for 1 1/2 to 2 weeks. LOL

By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 17:47
qatarisun

i will eat something.. actually this "something" is already delivered to my house..lol... a little baby-chicken, gently grilled, resting peacefully on the round bread, like if she just fell asleep, bended her tanned legs, laying on her right side , full of life, hope for the better future.. and here i am coming with the BIG FORK and SHARP KNIFE, and garlic sauce to EAT HER!!!

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:43
spicemom

lol @ QS and since when are you without a date gorgeous??>sniggers

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 17:42
qatarisun

so you are not going to stay here in Doha?? you kidding! and what about all our grand plans for the endless parties??? who am i suppose to take now to all these bars/pubs???

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:41
spicemom

sorry QS no idea but enjoy yrself anyways (dont have to tell ya that do i>lol)probably best to have something light to eat just in case........have fun

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By novita77• 16 May 2008 17:41
novita77

QT ... you better get your azz here on Monday ... and make sure you get to the airport on time. If your boss ask you to extend your stay you better say 'no'.

Tonight you gonna be missed QT ... :-)

@Spicemum ... yes QT is a baby. Big baby ... apparently ...

By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 17:40
qatarisun

nah.. i didn't want to scroll up.. i am soooo lazy today...but have to attend some party tonight.. by the way.. any syrians out there? I am invited to one syrian girl's house.. she is going to get married in 3 months. and this party is kind of "bridal shower".. would like to know, should I have a dinner before going there or they usually serve some food? how does it work?

By QT• 16 May 2008 17:37
QT

I should be back in Doha on Monday, Insh'allah!

(See I'm picking up the lingo)

...but I'm only back for a week or two to pack up my stuff as my company is delaying expanding into Qatar for another few months.

:-(

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:35
spicemom

QS - QT is in dubai and he is missing the outings with the group......you just did not want to scroll up and read huh?lol

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:33
spicemom

yup yup see ya when ya get back then....last time i met the group was when i saw you at the barby the other night and then again tonight , what's on next week?

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 17:32
qatarisun

By QT• 16 May 2008 17:30
QT

... I was kidding, I only became "well nourished" in my late twenties, I became even more "well nourished" after 30. LOL

Well, I look forward to seeing you again next weekend. Enjoy tonight's outing. I'm gutted I'm missing it as so many people will be there!

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:27
spicemom

i dont use the word FAT instead i say 'Well Nourished'.........lol>dont it sound much better you think?

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By QT• 16 May 2008 17:24
QT

...and no, I was a poorly child!

too fat to get up in the morning! lol

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:22
spicemom

QT - did you skip bio class to play 'the hokey pokey'?lol>me bad

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:21
spicemom

ah soo ne......so it was just by chance to bump into ya........lol

nah wont give up, never say die always say try.........

those who have given up are quitters.....and i aint one of them......so there........hehehehheeh:O)

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By QT• 16 May 2008 17:18
QT

Don't give up on me, so many people have already!

(...and I was only in Doha for a month) LOL

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:14
spicemom

QT QT QT,,,,,, and you still dont know how a 'human bean' grows?? what will i do with you??>gives up...........i rest my case.......lol(dang it i miss my smiley faces)

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:13
spicemom

lol QT i was gonna ask then again better not after yesterday's encounter..........lol(mind yr english, mind yr spelling, ah mind yr whatever......lol)

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By Dracula• 16 May 2008 17:13
Dracula

Houston,Houston....we have a problem!

Boss, if spicemom is so beautifull dont forget that i am still a human bean.

Then pls speak with her to visit the fridge every hour,to drink 10 bottles of votka daily and to start a agressive male-hormonal cure.

Then my duty it'll be damn easy.

I really hate you, beautifull ladyes... :)

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:12
spicemom

phew i shall be spared coz QT aint in town........woohoo>does the chicken dance.......here chickeeee chickeee chickeee

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By QT• 16 May 2008 17:11
QT

I'd love to see how a human bean grows!

Sorry, didn't mean to be pedantic, just thought it was funny! :-)

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:11
spicemom

dracula - have you been at the vodka fr last night till now??that explains it - lol

btw 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'.........la la la la la

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By QT• 16 May 2008 17:09
QT

...but next week end I'm sure, if Dracula hasn't done his job right! SOrry MOMMY spicemom, didn't realise till just now, I'm the same age as your son. LOL

Qatarisun, well, Dracula fulfills a dual purpose.

He needs to eat so he can do me a favour without too much effort!

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:07
spicemom

Novi - one more thing QT is still a baby..........:O)(i am so gonna get clobbered for this....prolly get poisoned too tonight)lol

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:06
spicemom

NOvi- shssshhhhhh not so loud sweety.......all i can say is i am ANTIQUE.......woohooo>bats eyelashes

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:04
spicemom

faisal - i was just 'pulling yr leg''/joking/kidding.......a white lie so as not to get involved.....yup it can get messy indeed

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By novita77• 16 May 2008 17:03
novita77

Spicemom ... QT will put you on the top of the list when he knows how old are you actually are ... muahahaha .. xx

By anonymous• 16 May 2008 17:03
anonymous

i no want to lie thats why i leave them and move to another work ;)

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 17:00
spicemom

QT - looks in 'crystal ball' hmmm will i be seeing you this evening?? btw dracula's only come out at night not now the sun hasnt set yet.........:P

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 17:00
qatarisun

if it's not a morning, so what is that? people usually wake up in the morning, don't they? so?..for me it IS morning!

QT...i'll save your efforts for getting rid of me... I set you free even before taking you to any bar...

...but actually first I understood, that you want Dracula to get rid of some ladies FOR YOUR SAKE?

By fieryangelinthesky• 16 May 2008 16:59
fieryangelinthesky

jamjong, give your friend the benefit of the doubt. Stick to her declaration. Let her be, anyway, it is her life. She knows what she's doing. She's old enough to manage her life. If time comes she seek help because of her relationship, give your shoulder with her.

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 16:58
spicemom

hmmmm faisal does this mean that you are an accomplice in this crime???>sighs..........

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By QT• 16 May 2008 16:56
QT

... feasting! HAHAHA

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 16:56
spicemom

QT- age you say??what age are you talking abt buddy?age is only numbers , if you are perturbed by it sorry for you.......lol

dont think abt it and no one knows(that is the secret, now hush up abt all that crap abt age)>giggles

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By QT• 16 May 2008 16:55
QT

LOL

By anonymous• 16 May 2008 16:55
anonymous

this people too messy give me headache. too much lie i have to say when their wife or live in partner ask. grrrrr. why too many people bad. not love their partner truly.

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 16:55
spicemom

johny you thought he was jackie chan??dang it i thought he was samuel Ho.........hohohohoho........oooops sorry QT forgive me......>rolls eyes

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By QT• 16 May 2008 16:54
QT

... So off to the undead with you! HAHAHA (Evil laugh)

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 16:53
spicemom

faisal- you said alot already in here buddy........hahahahhhh, thanks for the info btw and no i dont wanna know who these ppl are thank you......lol

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By anonymous• 16 May 2008 16:52
anonymous

i m just joking man...no need to apologies dude...i have to step forward first ..becoz u r respected =D

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"Imagination is more important than knowledge"

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 16:51
spicemom

pffft QT! i am in yr list??i dont believe this i have only met you once and already you want to get rid of me??how could you?very unbecoming of a so called gentleman like yrself......>goes to corner and sulks....:O(

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By anonymous• 16 May 2008 16:51
anonymous

thats your friend. my boss and my work partner are lovers my boss wife ask me. i say i know nothing. my work partner live-in partner ask me i know nothing. my work partner have husband in philipins. my work partner has 2 qatari lover. me no say anything. my work partner too much messing she no happy one man only. i no worry why you worry too much?

By QT• 16 May 2008 16:50
QT

...otherwise, I would have introduced myself to you!

My sincere apologies!

By anonymous• 16 May 2008 16:47
anonymous

when i saw QT 1st time at Sarat's Party.i remember he came late...i was thinking that some movie hero is there..he was looking like Jakie Chan.thats why i didnt introduce myself to him so i will not get Karate kicks from him..lolz

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"Imagination is more important than knowledge"

By QT• 16 May 2008 16:41
QT

(Make shift halo, since emoticons aren't working)

By novita77• 16 May 2008 16:40
novita77

Right QT ... when you pack up ... make sure you stuff Dracula in your luggage too ... I dont want to bump into it here ...

By QT• 16 May 2008 16:39
QT

...to Doha on Monday!

Hey, you want to meet for a "drink" sometime next week?

(Pun intended!) LOL

By novita77• 16 May 2008 16:38
novita77

QT ... don't you dare to trade me for anything ...

By Dracula• 16 May 2008 16:36
Dracula

I'M LISTENING AND OBEY!

Post Scriptum:

Novita, tell him somethimg bad pls!

By QT• 16 May 2008 16:34
QT

... unless that is they upset me in the last few weeks of me being in Doha!

By Dracula• 16 May 2008 16:33
Dracula

OK Master, considered done....!

Any changes with Novita?

Rare piece of art in my collection...

I've counted 10 biting areas on her long neck...

By azilana7037• 16 May 2008 16:32
azilana7037

If so, I must remember to stock up cloves of GARLIC and have stakes and a CRUCIFIX handy...lol

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By QT• 16 May 2008 16:30
QT

...and yes Azi, you are on it! LOL

By QT• 16 May 2008 16:27
QT

I want to get rid of Corne, for having such a sharp evil toungue, SylwiaStep for her last facebook testimonial of me, Azi for just being Azi, Gypsy for being in such a sweet sickly relationship with such a nice fella, Spicemom and Mila for still being so pretty at our age, Oh and Qatarisun for not taking me to any nice bars since I've been here!

I'll think of the rest after Dracula has disposed of these! ;-)

Irrysa is ok too, because she does movie night! LOL

By novita77• 16 May 2008 16:26
novita77

Dracula ... you can look at my neck but unfortunately you cant have it :P

By Dracula• 16 May 2008 16:25
Dracula

I'd like novita's avatar.

Is she the firts one on the " QT-rid list"?

Nice and long neck

Like a swan...

yummy

By novita77• 16 May 2008 16:22
novita77

QT ... you want to get rid of me ???

By Dracula• 16 May 2008 16:16
Dracula

Anything for my buddyes!

Listen and obey!

By QT• 16 May 2008 16:12
QT

I'd really appreciate it!

By QT• 16 May 2008 16:11
QT

If you were her real friend, you'd accept her privacy!

Don't be jealous, you'll find a "friend" you could "live in" with someday!

By Dracula• 16 May 2008 16:10
Dracula

DaRuDe, can i have the basement?

Just in case if you want to evacuate "one living in" lady, you can call me.

You have to knock twice on the plumbing network.

Start learning Morse code!

:)

By anonymous• 16 May 2008 15:59
anonymous

check the time plz..its not morning

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By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 15:55
qatarisun

DaRu.. your roof is taken, don't forget, don't promis it to someone else...and, yes.. move to garage please, let QL girls live in your villa.. wonderful desicion!

By debeers• 16 May 2008 14:18
debeers

the fact that se said nothing means she does not want to tell you about it.

You may be friends but sounds like she wants to keep some limit and privacy in her personal affairs. Afterall, she's an adult, she just have to be responsible for her actions.

By casanova• 16 May 2008 13:32
casanova

I don’t understand why this does happen...

Some people on earth are way unhappy with others choices and happiness than to their own problems...

Ridicules...I repeat …RIDICULES

“Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We have guided missiles and misguided men.”

Martin Luther King.

By lav_leee• 16 May 2008 13:17
lav_leee

guess it's better to leave them alone. be happy for her. for sure she is old enough to decide what's good for her. they know d consequencies of their 'thing' so don't bother.

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 12:45
spicemom

if they ask for advice then give it otherwise nah -IMHO

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By kismet• 16 May 2008 12:38
kismet

I think everybody has the right to live their life the way they want to live.

I wouldn't do anything if I were you, just remain their friend.

Kismet

By Secguy• 16 May 2008 12:35
Secguy

They are CONSENTING ADULTS.

Advise your friend on how you feel, and if nothing changes..........BUTT OUT. You've done yur best. Be a true friend and live with her choice. Accept it.

Motivation is when your dreams put on work clothes.

- Ben Franklin

By DaRuDe• 16 May 2008 11:52
DaRuDe

 am going to invite the QL females to come live with me i will shift to garage :D

so do you still have any problem?

 

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By spicemom• 16 May 2008 08:43
spicemom

awww oryx

a)need help to move hse?

b)gl on yr job interview- where and what is it btw?

c)yr graduation?if yes then congrats and well done

d)yay another bday ...>loves watching ppl blow out bday candles.........lol

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By Oryx• 16 May 2008 08:40
Oryx

Me too!

Next week I have:

a)to move house

b)to go to job interview

c)graduation

d)my birthday

Far too busy for my taste.... i hope to stay sane and still smile!

see you soon!

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 08:38
spicemom

lol - would love to see ya fire away sweety but duty calls and gotta get back to reality (yep yep chores are a calling out to me.......>moans)but me thinks will be seeing ya real soon(today perhaps) and we could sit and B###H.......hehehehhehehheheh

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By Oryx• 16 May 2008 08:32
Oryx

I just had 8 hours sleep - which I needed!

When I finish my coffee I should be firing on all cylinders!

Unfortunately just because we 'like' someone doesn't mean that they will 'like' us..... you just got to let go otherwise you end up nutty. you can't enjoy life carrying on like that.

hope to see you soon so we can talk about politics in Burma and foxy shoes.

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 08:24
spicemom

hi oryx- good replies- like yr style, how you doing today?

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By Oryx• 16 May 2008 08:22
Oryx

Good Comments!!!!!!!!

What are your motivations for thinking this is wrong?

a) your unrequited feelings

b) the guy is and idiot

c) morality

- answers

a) get a life get on with it... you are sounding like a control freak

b) sit down and talk to her nicely

c) NOYB

By spicemom• 16 May 2008 08:01
spicemom

so was that the screaming bird that was perched on my balcony screaming its head off so early on a fri morn??>yawns- still sleepy

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By anonymous• 16 May 2008 06:05
anonymous

In the morning this little bird name QL perch over my confession booth and started to parrot all this Gossip of people transient from one room to another.

I just look and stare at this bird with EVIL eyes, then I did whack him once in the head, then he flew away screaming and coursing me..... That what happens when others need to mind their own *F%^&ing BUSINESS*!

Everything is funny as long as it is happening to somebody else.

-- Will Rogers

By azilana7037• 16 May 2008 05:54
azilana7037

your friend is doing wrong...coz she's living-in with that MAN?

She denied it? SO? Even if she's your friend,BOTTOMLINE: NOYB (None Of Your Business). She's an adult and she knows what she's doing. Whatever happens...only SHE (and the guy) bears the consequences.

What you could do? Tell her what you think...tell her what might happen...give her your (unsolicited) advise and if good turns out for the bad...just be there as HER FRIEND, to support her and tell her:

I TOLD YOU SO :-p

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By anonymous• 16 May 2008 05:37
anonymous

Maybe she wants some privacy when in terms of relationship. Just tell her what you feel about her and let her think on her own whether or not she is right or wrong. When it comes to "LOVE", i know we can't do it about it because no matter what effortand advice you will exert for your friend, she just listen and let it pass through the other ear. Well, as a friend of her, just support her whatever her decision. Just tell her what you feel once and let her make decision on her own, at least you do your part as a friend for her...

"When you have found food for your soul lead others to the Source."

By anonymous• 16 May 2008 01:46
anonymous

Looks like u in love with her my friend....

By anonymous• 16 May 2008 01:19
anonymous

Greetings, well my friend just send her some flowers and tell her how much does she means to you.

"If you`re dreaming a love story let tears tell us about it"

By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 00:38
qatarisun

facilities you can offer me? such as pool, sauna, jaccuzzi...

By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 00:37
qatarisun

and what will be the way to my new appartment? Step-ladder? or i have to jump there?

By DaRuDe• 16 May 2008 00:29
DaRuDe

its free of rent direct under sunlight you can build the roof on ur own.

 

 

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By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 00:29
qatarisun

take her to the Hotel!! and explain! explian well!! few times!!!

By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 00:28
qatarisun

i even don't ask for the walls.. just a ceiling..and I am in!

By faizmdkhan• 16 May 2008 00:27
faizmdkhan

king khan...

Take her in a place or hotel where you can explain... what really you are feeling about her behaviour, and make her realise that she doing is wrong,

if she ask you ,why you wanna screw it up, tell her that i am feeling pain dont know why, may be i dont wanna make my friend to do mistake.. . .. .

But if she is serious about the relationship or is she is happy with him, Then just tell her i am happy to know that you are not going to make any mistake, and come back..let her stay as she wish...

By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 00:26
qatarisun

it's ok.. he doesn't need 2-nd br...

ops again..

By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 00:25
qatarisun

some jamjong will start thinking what he/she should do about it..

oh!! solution! jamjong! I know what you should do: JOIN THEM!!! have you ever tried ...? ..ops...

By DaRuDe• 16 May 2008 00:25
DaRuDe

 what if there is no 2nd bedroom guess he might live in living room or kitchen then

 

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By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 00:25
qatarisun

**********

By zahra_leila• 16 May 2008 00:22
zahra_leila

mine your own business,,sweety,,,friend

By DaRuDe• 16 May 2008 00:18
DaRuDe

the upper portion of my house is empty do you wana come and live there (roof top no ceiling) :D

 

 

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By qatarisun• 16 May 2008 00:15
qatarisun

and what would you like to do?

and why?

By DaRuDe• 16 May 2008 00:14
DaRuDe

 why are you asking Her why dont you ask Him ur friend.

and whats the problem if they are living together.

 

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By zahra_leila• 16 May 2008 00:13
zahra_leila

if shes denying, means she doest want you to be involve in her personal matter,even you tell her its wrong do you think she cares,just ignore her and pray for her.

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