What Means Marriage?How To Save It?
Friends,
I am really enjoying QL with plenty of responses for my todays topic on religion.I have received lots of private messages offering me help to find a right religion to learn and practice.But I never got any offer of behalf of Christianity.Anyway I am responding my private message and going to meet these good people soo. Here can anyone explain me what exactly married life means?What are the major criteria involved in it?Because I am still single and looking forward to get married soon,But little afraid of marriage too as I don’t date women or have any girlfriend whom I knew for long.So,I guess my family will choose an arranged marriage for me – A commitment between two complete strangers and I dought the success rate of such marriages as the old times because all modern women are qualified,confident and carefree.
Divorcee has become an simple word to say if women is not happy with her husband.I was emotionally involved (No Physical) with a women for 9 months so deeply and oneday said me good bye as she felt her co-worker is more better than me.I heard now she left him because of his short temper.I am really confused and fear marriage and I just want to be a one lady man. As posted earlier today I believe kids born from two different nationals are unique and I want to marry a foreigner,But it is very difficult to find right women as most women prefer fair,tall,muscular men with global passport.So one thing is sure women who is afraid of her god,believe her faith and trust the meaning of life will be the right person to get married with. Please tell me which is the best way to save a marriage from arrogant wife?How to meet a lady who is really looking for only mans heart and feelings regardless to his nationality and colour?Websites are not the one and most website are money eaters.So,Guys and girls please give me your best advice and suggestions to throw away my mental agony.
You are.... frustrating. Now you want a woman that is a different nationality? So from the outset you're ruling out a group of women because they aren't the right race...
And you say women are the picky ones?
Get up, walk away from your computer and grow up.
maybe he is just tongue tied from all of the responses. Hope we didnt upset him too much. Or spicemom you could be right and he doesnt know how to answer.
caryllon, GF either does not know how to answer the questions or is to overwhelmed with emotion hence is not thinking straight.....(maybe i dunno)
life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......
I was looking for almost the same thing. A perfect heart in the one I loved, someone that respected their upbringing. They didn't have to be perfect, nor handsome, fair, or even have a global passport.
I am not an arrogant woman, just an honest one. It was okay if they were divorced as we all have a past.
I know that you are wondering why I keep answering all your posts, but some of the things you have said have touched me. I am looking for a true person to share my life with also. I dont care if that person is from my same culture or background as long as they are true. Sooooooooooooooooooooooo
I am puzzled though that through all of your posts that you are not answering any of them but just keep posting more.
You can't teach experience...
True to MyselfLife has come a long way since yester day (I say)And it’s not the same old thing over again (I say)Just do what you feel and don’t you fool yourself (I say)Cause I can’t make you happy unless I am (I say, I say)ChorusI’ve got to be true to myself (x4)They’re in they’re out, I’ve asked many questions (I say)Only to find the truth it never changes (I say)If you don’t deal with it, it keeps killing you a little by littleCall me selfish if you will, my life I alone I can live (I say, I say)ChorusI’ve got to be true to myself (x4)I don’t care if it hurts’m tired of playing all these games I’ve reached a point in lifeHey, no longer can I be this wayDon’t come crying to meI too have shed my share of tearsI’m moving on, yes I’m grooving onHey, well I’m finally freeChorusI’ve got to be true to myself (x8)
Dont try too hard to find the "right" person and dont be in a hurry to get married. I think you will find the right person when you least expect it. Get out more, socialise and try to enjoy yourself in the meantime.
come out of the internet and start interracting with people.