Re-igniting Romance
Re-igniting Romance
Research shows that people who put each other down and are hostile to each other are more likely to have serious problems .
We tend to feel vulnerable our sense of protection has been broken, our love has diminished.
Great relationships don't happen they are created.
We all have a comfort level and it's usually measured by how we live and what are interests are. We sometimes tend to get comfortable Our comfort level gives us a sense of protection. We tend to lose ourselves and interest on what really matters(sharing our love!) We are settling
We don't want to try new things, if i ain't broke why fix it , that is what we believe when we are at that comfort zone . We tend to settle for the "status quo" that would be our existing condition. For the feeling of being afraid of stepping out.We cant understand why we are being so reserved with our loved ones, our we that insecure ?
Our Love has diminished.
What if ?
Stepping out of the comfort zone you could have a positive effect in your intimate love romantic passionate relationship with your partners. That would be what we all want and desire Yes you can have it all. It helps us grow and we learn from these intimate experiences. We discover new ways to share love and enjoy happiness together which is the best thing in the world !
Start right now ! Enhance romance.
Follow a few easy steps and soon you will see things in a new light.
--- Steps to Re-igniting the flames of Love ---
Be spontaneous with your partner it is a way to help your relationship flourish. Being spontaneous with your partner can enrich and strengthen your intimate moments...try something that you have been wanting to do.
Talk, listen and laugh together become best friends ..You will soon start creating a bond of intimacy .. Be sincere open and honest ..Communicate about love, $ex, family and the relationship.
Send Love Notes , Post them everywhere , tell them how gorgeous, handsome,Beautiful, sexy , how much you love them, be creative be specific.
Compliment each other lovingly in public and in privacy, show affection for each other.
Show them how much your really care by being responsive,responsible, caring and loving .. Do the little things that say i love you and care for you.
Respect each other whole heartedly, partners who treat each other with kind and respect know that it is essential for having a deep connections and loving relationship.
Be a good partner regularly get them something you know they will like and enjoy.
Don't let negative or annoying comments bother you , discuss the negativity when you are both calm.
Take responsibility for your own growth, appearance and health.
Communicating without fear is absolutely essential to building the deepest kind of friendship and intimate partner.
Love is a Beautiful thing ! Let's share it.
Marriage is not 50/50 it is 100/100.
Please share this with your partner.
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trans. from wondor.blogspot.com
I think what I meant was that I can remember those times when I was a 'bit' younger (and sometimes more recently) when I was so all consumed with thoughts of someone who didn't feel the same back it was almost like that old 'band' The Mamas and Papas used to sing about 'so good to be unhappy' (can't remember the song right now)
Basically I think I am in love with being in love (if that makes sense) and more so if that love is unrequited.
I do believe that's also called masochism! (or it could be thought of as a died in the wool romantic who sobs a lot when they don't get their own way)
:D
i like ur Quadruple Post .. lol .. i fell of my chair ..
do u like tha pain .. do u like to cry ??? why ? is that wut u consider to be romantic ..
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“The most terrible poverty is loneliness and the feeling of being unloved.”
“There is more hunger in the world for love and appreciation than for bread.”
“We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.”
“I think today the world is upside down, and is suffering so much because there is so very little love in the home, and in family life. We have no time for our children, we have no time for each other, there is no time to enjoy each other.”
“Love begins at home; love lives in homes, and that is why there is so much suffering and so much unhappiness in the world today...Everybody today seems to be in such a terrible rush, anxious for greater developments and greater riches and so on, so that children have very little time for their parents. Parents have very little time for each other, and in the home begins the disruption of the peace of the world.”
Very true words spoken by an angel!
Quadruple Post now - sheesh that preview thing is screwing my brain lol
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and filled with all those awful anxieties .... NOT !
Well, ok, so occasionally you lot jog my memory of unrequited love woes and remind me of how it was, and gosh wasn't it wonderful to feel so much pain! Now THAT'S what I consider to be romantic ....
... crying over a bag of chips (out of a newspaper of course), drinking red wine and watching a movie or listen to music which will make you cry even more...
Makes life worth living and I hope those type of feeling and emotions never die.
*thumbs through personal phone book to find her next emotional crisis*
and filled with all those awful anxieties .... NOT !
Well, ok, so occasionally you lot jog my memory of unrequited love woes and remind me of how it was, and gosh wasn't it wonderful to feel so much pain! Now THAT'S what I consider to be romantic ....
... crying over a bag of chips (out of a newspaper of course), drinking red wine and watching a movie or listen to music which will make you cry even more...
Makes life worth living and I hope those type of feeling and emotions never die.
*thumbs through personal phone book to find her next emotional crisis*
LOL
reminds me of my ex.
i used to lean out of the car window sometimes and shout
'giving away for free - boyfriend
low running cost high emotional input'
Even NoN - special/wanted goods will be bided by some one :)
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Thinking of putting my boss on ebay as well...problem is don't think anyone will bid for her.
Big LOL :)
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Yes I have a daughter....she is on ebay as we speak....the bidding is now at $900.....4 more days to go :p
Thats sarcastic.Smile.Do you have kids?
*NOBODY IS PERFECT.I AM NOBODY.*
Ohhh that hearts tooo much :~(
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We are working on it.
:-D
*NOBODY IS PERFECT.I AM NOBODY.*
It's really simple....sell your kids on ebay...that is a sure way to get the romance going again :p
i wish that you both be together very soon and Forever ...
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Same for me.Life is a little bit better when you follow those rules.And right now i know how important it is because my sweetheart is miles away from me and this is the only way to show how much he means to me.As he says i am doing it fine.Smile.
*NOBODY IS PERFECT.I AM NOBODY.*
if we keep saying everyone not doing, everyone not caring,.., etc
then nothing will change in our life, we should start with our selfs, it may look hard but if we give it a try day by day we will improve our selfs which will improve our life, for my self after i read that i really have a plane to correct some of my mistakes, misunderstandings and things that i wasn't aware of.
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If everyone would respect this,there will be not that much divorcings like now.And the world would turn into the better.Smile.So insha allah that we will find back the way to the roots.
:-)
*NOBODY IS PERFECT.I AM NOBODY.*