Hard Time to get over from Divorce
I just wanna share what I'm getting through, at the same time asking, seeking, looking and finding some help from anybody or somebody who can understand my situation.
I am Filipina, 32 yrs old. get married with a local guy. we do get married in Philippines last Aug 2010. and now 2 years married with my husband.
I don't wanna say a bad things about him though but, I can't hold it anymore, I am just a human, those people knows me well only one thing they said that: "I AM SO STUPID",, I admit that, but only i can say was, I'm just a human, with a heart, If I saw any person in the street asking help, food, drinks, money, if I have why I can't give???
Straight to the point my Husband used to beat me up, hurt me with his own hand, that will leave a bruises and sometimes a black eye! I complaint, I will stay with my guardian, but whenever he asked, begging, and crying that he don't have food to eat, no cigarette, nobody help him, I come to help him, give him food, money, cigarette, after all he have done to me, I'm human, if I can help others why not him, he have been part of my life. He hurt me like I can say 5 times, he's local, he don't work, I used to tell him, "EVEN THERE IS NO FOOD IN THE TABLE. I WILL PUT NO PROBLEM WITH ME." all I asked in return was "NO MORE FIGHT"
I already get through in QATAR FOUNDATION FOR CHILDREN AND WOMEN PROTECTION.
Get inside the "JAIL" because I complain about my husband.
Police Station DENIED that they do put me inside jail. after I inform Qatar Foundation what was happened to me.
and now, I don't know where? how? I will start!
All I need is to get rid of my husband. I cannot even support myself financially. I have a good work, my husband used to ruined it. and I'm jobless, cannot find a job because my Residency expired,
So kindly somebody can give me any idea advice how I get through with this! on my knees I'm begging any GOVERNMENT! any PERSONAL! to help me with my issue.
Do you have child with him? Are you married here? What was your visa/ sponsorship, or are u holding Qatari citizenship? Dont go to Qatar foundation if you are not yet a citizen and have no approval from the Ministry of Interior, i was waiting for your call that i am going to advise you where is the appropriate place to go,
can u send by PM the contact so I can contacted u guys. Need this badly!
QATARI Sir/ Madam
I will 100% appreciate whatever u guys can give to me... these advice will be my weapon!
Apart from all the options you can try here as well. http://www.qatarfcht.com/en/index.php/contact-us-1
Ask for Ashraf.
I am sorry to hear but life has ups and downs...May God make it easy for you. Amen.
oh..sorry
Kabayan, go to OWWA or Phil Embassy and discuss with them regarding your situation. If someone is treating you bad and beating you why would you stay and why did you allow. Most of our Filipino men don't beat their wives, despite it's the other way around. So why you allowed your local husband beat you as easy as that.
I met a Filipina who have same case as you are. She had a local bf and that guy made a lot of problems for her and made her life complicated. Until I just heard one day that she is back in our country because she cannot stay here because of the problem that was caused by that local guy.
I hope everything will be ok with you and your children. Please contact Philippine Embassy asap.
Kabayan, go to OWWA or Phil Embassy and discuss with them regarding your situation. If someone is treating you bad and beating you why would you stay and why did you allow. Most of our Filipino men don't beat their wives, despite it's the other way around. So why you allowed your local husband beat you as easy as that.
I met a Filipina who have same case as you are. She had a local bf and that guy made a lot of problems for her and made her life complicated. Until I just heard one day that she is back in our country because she cannot stay here because of the problem that was caused by that local guy.
I hope everything will be ok with you and your children. Please contact Philippine Embassy asap.
Inshallah i will try to help you financially
:/
never heard of this in my life. :(
Embassy is the right place for you, especially election is coming, but be careful & be smart at this time.
Contact me,,, i might not solve out your problem but i can give you lots ot moral support and advise what to do and where to go for help
DP.
Sorry to hear of your plight. You have done the right thing by moving out of an abusive relationship. Don't give up hope. Things will get better.
That will be helpful, I will try that, I hope by my Embassy, I can start to move, step by step,,,
I suggest you to go to Philippine embassy and discuss with the appropriate person. That will be the best way to get rid of problems I think.